Well that just blows my previous estimate out of the water.. a whole evening is a long time for $300.
Anyone have experience with Sugar Baby relationships?
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I always have a question with related to the period of the commitment.
Is the commitment time bound or open ended or month to month as it might create issues when you are trying to end the relationship.
is proper notice required or how do you end the arrangement ? as in c36 era you dont want to enrage the SB
how do you guys predetermine this ?
SB would like to have longer period arrangement so how do you guys get around this ?
Is the commitment time bound or open ended or month to month as it might create issues when you are trying to end the relationship.
is proper notice required or how do you end the arrangement ? as in c36 era you dont want to enrage the SB
how do you guys predetermine this ?
SB would like to have longer period arrangement so how do you guys get around this ?
(Most) SBs do not have a $/hr mindset.Well that just blows my previous estimate out of the water.. a whole evening is a long time for $300.
Shack nailed it! The SB relationship is completely different that visiting a SP for a evening.(Most) SBs do not have a $/hr mindset.
(Most) SBs do not have a $/hr mindset.
I'm going to venture a guess that you guys didn't start out with sex? You probably wanted companionship first and let it build from there.Shack nailed it! The SB relationship is completely different that visiting a SP for a evening.
I've probably sent out 100+ msgs over the last couple days and as far as I can tell, $100/hr is the floor. I haven't found anyone to go below that yet.. or at least, no one that's willing to have sex on the first date.
Poor venturing.I'm going to venture a guess that you guys didn't start out with sex? You probably wanted companionship first and let it build from there.
Sex is number one with me. I've probably met about 20 girls and have had 1st date sex approx. 80% of the time.
Having said that, there have been a few that I became very fond of and enjoyed the companionship.
Keep in mind, the vast majority of the SBs want a NSA/nothing serious relationship.
Hats off to you then.Sex is number one with me. I've probably met about 20 girls and have had 1st date sex approx. 80% of the time.
Interesting. I had a SB in Vancouver. It most certainly was not practical but OMG she was the most beautiful girl I had seen in decades. Absolutely stunning and a complete 10 . The sex was unreal though. And which contributed to my complete lack of business sense and common sense for the time we were together. She originally was a SP with a local escort agency and that was how we had met. Looking back now it was not a good idea on a practical scale. I knew then it wouldn't last and her financial demands kept increasing with no linear value in relationship nor with an increase in sex. Then it became demands for more money and no return for me, and her couldn't give a shit attitude, and is why it all ended and crashed. I Probably should have ended it 6 months earlier. Lots of lies, deception and bullshit involved as well. Bang for the buck ? Way better off with an hourly SP no question though the sex was unreal and how do you put a value on that ? Having said that I'm much the wiser and if I can find a non-pro I may just try it - albeit with a much better defined sense of what I want and won't put up with .
THISInteresting. I had a SB in Vancouver. It most certainly was not practical but OMG she was the most beautiful girl I had seen in decades. Absolutely stunning and a complete 10 . The sex was unreal though. And which contributed to my complete lack of business sense and common sense for the time we were together. She originally was a SP with a local escort agency and that was how we had met. Looking back now it was not a good idea on a practical scale. I knew then it wouldn't last and her financial demands kept increasing with no linear value in relationship nor with an increase in sex. Then it became demands for more money and no return for me, and her couldn't give a shit attitude, and is why it all ended and crashed. I Probably should have ended it 6 months earlier. Lots of lies, deception and bullshit involved as well. Bang for the buck ? Way better off with an hourly SP no question though the sex was unreal and how do you put a value on that ? Having said that I'm much the wiser and if I can find a non-pro I may just try it - albeit with a much better defined sense of what I want and won't put up with .
Completely agree, I had a local SB, same thing and I got really attached to her. Ended it but I was devistated, emotionally and so pissed about the tens of thousands I had spent
In a SD/SB situation right now. Things started off great. As time has gone by, she seems to want more money, and less sex. Think it's time to cut bait.
when you started , did you agreed of any minimum period or is it open ended and can be cutt off anytimeIn a SD/SB situation right now. Things started off great. As time has gone by, she seems to want more money, and less sex. Think it's time to cut bait.
I met the last two online... One via backpages and one on seeking arrangements. The younger ones I find come in two flavours, either they want an unreasonable amount of money ($600+) for a meet or to them $300 is a lot of money and they'll bend over backwards to keep it coming ! Be prepared for headaches when conversing though... Their priorities tend to be all over the place!So how does one get to meet a girl like this?
And how does the subject come up?
There were no time or money specifics. We sort of ad libbed our way through it.when you started , did you agreed of any minimum period or is it open ended and can be cutt off anytime
4 days and 200 messages later, I've found a few that will do an evening for $400 (5-6 hours), whereas most will do $400 for a few hours. As Roger mentioned above, I've encountered expensive as well... but those requests mainly came from model-type girls (9s and 10s), wanting $1,000+...
As for the people asking how to approach them, I just took the direct approach. Just be clear about what you want, no need to ask if they're 'okay' with it or whatever. It's a buyers market so just state your proposal and see what happens;
Got a question for you guys though, how many girls are you talking to at a time? Even SPs are flakey sometimes and you need a back up plan, so I'm talking to 5-10 girls right now. However, if all of them follow through.. don't know how I'll have the time to see them all.
As for the people asking how to approach them, I just took the direct approach. Just be clear about what you want, no need to ask if they're 'okay' with it or whatever. It's a buyers market so just state your proposal and see what happens;
Got a question for you guys though, how many girls are you talking to at a time? Even SPs are flakey sometimes and you need a back up plan, so I'm talking to 5-10 girls right now. However, if all of them follow through.. don't know how I'll have the time to see them all.
Sorry can you repeat where you are approaching these girls? Sometimes I am looking for a companion to professional events and I don't feel like dropping over a G just for arm candy.4 days and 200 messages later, I've found a few that will do an evening for $400 (5-6 hours), whereas most will do $400 for a few hours. As Roger mentioned above, I've encountered expensive as well... but those requests mainly came from model-type girls (9s and 10s), wanting $1,000+...
As for the people asking how to approach them, I just took the direct approach. Just be clear about what you want, no need to ask if they're 'okay' with it or whatever. It's a buyers market so just state your proposal and see what happens;
Got a question for you guys though, how many girls are you talking to at a time? Even SPs are flakey sometimes and you need a back up plan, so I'm talking to 5-10 girls right now. However, if all of them follow through.. don't know how I'll have the time to see them all.
I'm on Seeking ArrangementsSorry can you repeat where you are approaching these girls? Sometimes I am looking for a companion to professional events and I don't feel like dropping over a G just for arm candy.
I just left Seeking Arrangements, too many con artists, and sex not good at all, escorts gives you more bang for the buck
In two months at SA I met around 6 girls; I fucked 3 of them. Most will request $400 to $500 per date and 3 to 4 times a month. I didn't look at the model material - higher end of the spectrum. Just plain next door girls
Only one was a good all night fuck, the other two were not worth it at all, just short, mechanical sex, then grab the money and leave... and I was happy they left. I would have gotten better service at a cheap spa.
Of the the three that I didn't fuck:
first was a nice girl, but we didn't feel compatibility during the 1st. (free) coffee date.
The second was a scam artist, she asked $200 per date, but she wanted to get "comfortable" before getting intimate... by the end of the second date she didn't even want to kiss, so bye-bye ... another $400 wasted
The third one cancel at the last minute
I also had 2 no-show, no-apologies dates
Most of the women I met were in their early 20s; I you are just looking for arm-candy, you might get a better respond.
In two months at SA I met around 6 girls; I fucked 3 of them. Most will request $400 to $500 per date and 3 to 4 times a month. I didn't look at the model material - higher end of the spectrum. Just plain next door girls
Only one was a good all night fuck, the other two were not worth it at all, just short, mechanical sex, then grab the money and leave... and I was happy they left. I would have gotten better service at a cheap spa.
Of the the three that I didn't fuck:
first was a nice girl, but we didn't feel compatibility during the 1st. (free) coffee date.
The second was a scam artist, she asked $200 per date, but she wanted to get "comfortable" before getting intimate... by the end of the second date she didn't even want to kiss, so bye-bye ... another $400 wasted
The third one cancel at the last minute
I also had 2 no-show, no-apologies dates
Most of the women I met were in their early 20s; I you are just looking for arm-candy, you might get a better respond.
I talked to 3 or 4 girls at a time and moved the conversation off the system to a burner email or phone for texting... Didn't have any flakes and it was worth it for me for what I wanted! Tricky part is cutting girls loose but that's another story lol!4 days and 200 messages later, I've found a few that will do an evening for $400 (5-6 hours), whereas most will do $400 for a few hours. As Roger mentioned above, I've encountered expensive as well... but those requests mainly came from model-type girls (9s and 10s), wanting $1,000+...
As for the people asking how to approach them, I just took the direct approach. Just be clear about what you want, no need to ask if they're 'okay' with it or whatever. It's a buyers market so just state your proposal and see what happens;
Got a question for you guys though, how many girls are you talking to at a time? Even SPs are flakey sometimes and you need a back up plan, so I'm talking to 5-10 girls right now. However, if all of them follow through.. don't know how I'll have the time to see them all.
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