I never said I ever went to SPs. In fact I haven't, ever. I just like hanging around this board for the comradeship
Try not to assume. No person, be it a male or female who makes the most intimate part of themselves a commodity is ever going to settle for settling down, until the bloom is off the rose and they find they have no other options than to marry someone successful because they wasted their prime years having sex for a living and gaining no real skills for the future. That's just how it goes. Their morals won't change, they will always see their sexuality as a way to trade it for status or money. Sounds harsh but it's true. I still say marry someone that shares similar values
Why are you assuming then? Why not take your advice? You say this and then right in your next sentence you start generalized and assuming, and boxing in. Sings of a weak mind and I smell blood.
Come on now, honestly how can you say this, and be okay with it. Try to look at what you said from a 2nd POV bias and 3rd POV. Then ask yourself what does this say about you, to say these kind of things and generalize like this. Ask yourself what is your deficiency and fix it.
If you actually care to spend some time with these women, you will realize how powerful some really are, how inspiring they are. Yes there are also bad ones who probably fit some of your description just like in any industry or way of life but there are others in this industry that are much better people then you can ever imagine.
Every one has a unique story. Once you try to box them in because it is easy for your mind to comprehend because of whatever bias you've been fead this nonsense says a lot about you.
Honestly, I don't want to tear you up, but you are being unfair to some ladies who are dear to me, and we can easily paint a target on you and tear you up and show you how much you contradict your self, pick out most of your failures and deficiencies and how really delusional you are and how pathetic you are portraying yourself. If I don't do it somebody else will, if not today then tomorrow, or a month from now or a year from now.
There is a way to say your point and respect this industry and people who partake in it if you have a different POV, but there is also an easy way to paint a target on your back.
You say you're on here for comradeships, so lets start with this and if you need this then given some respect to the community your feeding off of.
Its easy to admit when you made a mistake, learn from it and move on.
