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Would you marry an SP?

Titalian

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True too but I still fell in love with 2 of them, and in hindsight, there were not bad women.
Please don't get me wrong, I have met my fair share of strippers, but have never fallen in luv. Maybe close to, Been there, seen it, done it.
True providers (Escorts) are more serious, without the frills. I'm only going from experience.
 

ultistar

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Every post you make reveals more and more of your hollow heart and twisted soul. Your sorry excuse for a life has made you bitter and alone. Thats fine but keep your vitreous bile to your self and let us with a shred or more of humanity carry on these adult conversations.
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Haven't read the whole thread - so sorry if this is a repeat....

If i was single, and I fell in love with an SP, and she felt the same way about me? Why not? Obviously there would be a number of things that needed to be discussed to ensure both sides were on the same page, but broadly, communication and mutual understanding is part of any relationship.

Ultimately, SPs are human beings. Many of them are wonderful, caring, loving human beings that I would imagine want someone that can accept and love them for who they are. Isn't that really what everyone wants?
 

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Yes, if the chemistry was there, I'd have no more reservations about marrying an SP than I would about marrying any other woman.
 

GPIDEAL

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Please don't get me wrong, I have met my fair share of strippers, but have never fallen in luv. Maybe close to, Been there, seen it, done it.
True providers (Escorts) are more serious, without the frills. I'm only going from experience.
I got you. It's true that strippers are a different breed if you will. There whole M.O. is about tease, seduction and exploiting our weaknesses while giving up the least possible.
 

GPIDEAL

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Haven't read the whole thread - so sorry if this is a repeat....

If i was single, and I fell in love with an SP, and she felt the same way about me? Why not? Obviously there would be a number of things that needed to be discussed to ensure both sides were on the same page, but broadly, communication and mutual understanding is part of any relationship.

Ultimately, SPs are human beings. Many of them are wonderful, caring, loving human beings that I would imagine want someone that can accept and love them for who they are. Isn't that really what everyone wants?
Hear, hear.
 

JackBurton

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Every post you make reveals more and more of your hollow heart and twisted soul. Your sorry excuse for a life has made you bitter and alone. Thats fine but keep your vitreous bile to your self and let us with a shred or more of humanity carry on these adult conversations.
Not at all. I'm just saying that one should marry someone of the same values. If your values allow you to be married to someone who commodified the most intimate part of themselves and you think they, somehow, are saving the best parts of themselves for "you" then you deserve what you get. Sex workers have morals and values that are flexible and allow them to do the work they choose. If your values can be as slippery, then have at it son and we will see your posts here in a few years after you are divorced, broke and she's taken all you've worked hard for. Fact of life, men better than you have fallen for the Jezebel charms. Myself, I'd like to know my partner is straight up and consistent in their behaviour and morals
 

Titalian

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I found some interesting posts by a guy claiming he never saw a sp
Not at all. I'm just saying that one should marry someone of the same values. If your values allow you to be married to someone who commodified the most intimate part of themselves and you think they, somehow, are saving the best parts of themselves for "you" then you deserve what you get. Sex workers have morals and values that are flexible and allow them to do the work they choose. If your values can be as slippery, then have at it son and we will see your posts here in a few years after you are divorced, broke and she's taken all you've worked hard for. Fact of life, men better than you have fallen for the Jezebel charms. Myself, I'd like to know my partner is straight up and consistent in their behaviour and morals
I'm sure she would like to know the same of you.

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I love you man.

Ps anyone know of any SP's that look like rikki sixx? http://www.boobpedia.com/boobs/Rikki_Six

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Just because they know how to lay on their back for the camera doesn't mean they know anything about sex. Some of the worse sex I've ever had is with porn stars. They are all glitz with very little skill.

Gimme a single Sudbury mom who is looking for a new daddy for her kids...now THAT woman will know how to suck a cock!
 

GPIDEAL

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Not at all. I'm just saying that one should marry someone of the same values. If your values allow you to be married to someone who commodified the most intimate part of themselves and you think they, somehow, are saving the best parts of themselves for "you" then you deserve what you get. Sex workers have morals and values that are flexible and allow them to do the work they choose. If your values can be as slippery, then have at it son and we will see your posts here in a few years after you are divorced, broke and she's taken all you've worked hard for. Fact of life, men better than you have fallen for the Jezebel charms. Myself, I'd like to know my partner is straight up and consistent in their behaviour and morals
The best part of anyone is their soul and mind. Swingers or people in open marriages can't cheat because, as a Terbite put it, the sex part is 'sport'. As long as they know what they are doing and perhaps when, if not together at the same time. For an SP, it's not always 'sport' or 'pleasant' and simply work, an act if you will.

OTOH, SPs have quit for their soulmates too. Nothing wrong with that.

Two people must agree to the terms and conditions of their relationship.
 

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I wouldn't marry an SP, but I would marry an ex SP.

One question that isn't asked often enough is whether an SP would marry a customer. You might assume that being an SP would mean she is OK with her SO being a previous whoremonger but my bet is that many SP's would not be ok with it, and that even those who were OK with it would have jealousy/control issues around it.

The other thing not often enough discussed is how this has to be a mutual decision made with open eyes. The EX SP's history WILL come up somewhere, sometime. Many will recognize her in the beginning, some even years later.

The couple need to be able to face that together, so that at a party if she comes up and says "let's get out of here" save he says why she can answer "one of my ex clients is here and I don't want to see him" instead of lying. As a team they can deal with it. Many other possible scenarios but they all work better when the couple cooperates.

But yes some people will get through all that and be happy.

But my answer to post 1 is no, I wouldn't want to be married to a woman anyone I know could book and forward me the review. EX yes.
 

GPIDEAL

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I wouldn't marry an SP, but I would marry an ex SP.

One question that isn't asked often enough is whether an SP would marry a customer. You might assume that being an SP would mean she is OK with her SO being a previous whoremonger but my bet is that many SP's would not be ok with it, and that even those who were OK with it would have jealousy/control issues around it.

The other thing not often enough discussed is how this has to be a mutual decision made with open eyes. The EX SP's history WILL come up somewhere, sometime. Many will recognize her in the beginning, some even years later.

The couple need to be able to face that together, so that at a party if she comes up and says "let's get out of here" save he says why she can answer "one of my ex clients is here and I don't want to see him" instead of lying. As a team they can deal with it. Many other possible scenarios but they all work better when the couple cooperates.

But yes some people will get through all that and be happy.

But my answer to post 1 is no, I wouldn't want to be married to a woman anyone I know could book and forward me the review. EX yes.

Fair answer.

I would stop hobbying if I was in love with an SP who made me happy in more ways than one; ideally, hobbying together would work too.
 

foxxxy lady

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This last sentence reminded me of one caveat. I do tend to look down on judgmental guys moreso than gals in this hobby.
(am I judging the judgmental? whatevs, trying to make a point.)

Why? Generally SP's are young ladies in their early 20's finding their way through life. Johns are typically middle-aged, say around 40's. In the 20 extra years of living, guys should have figured out how to treat people with respect.

Of course there are judgmental MILF SPs but I rarely cross paths with them, intentionally :)
milfs in there twenties, thirties or forties or in general sir? I disagree with the statement that

clients (or as u call them johns) that are 40+ have learned by that age to treat people with respect. It has been my experience that age has nothing to do with a clients maturity I have seen men early twenties and up that are gentlemen and men that are early twenties up that are a disappointment. it's not a judgment call , it's reality.

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perfect_tool_2000

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Not sure what I can contribute here, as my hobbying days have slowed down dramatically as I near 50... Not because of physical or monetary restrictions, but just that I have seen some of the best SPs the city has to offer, and I came to the realization that I personally just needed more. Unfortunately those great SPs ruined it for other women as no one I've met outside this industry seems to have the skills required to satisfy me. So I remain single. But I do see a woman who was an escort and is now married. We get together as she seems to need more than what one man can provide. Maybe she is an anomaly, as I suspect working girls eventually want to retire and settle down and not have to deal with a lot of different guys... Curious to hear from any of the women currently working what they aspire to in a relationship after retirement? Or maybe that is a super personal question...
 

foxxxy lady

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Not sure what I can contribute here, as my hobbying days have slowed down dramatically as I near 50... Not because of physical or monetary restrictions, but just that I have seen some of the best SPs the city has to offer, and I came to the realization that I personally just needed more. Unfortunately those great SPs ruined it for other women as no one I've met outside this industry seems to have the skills required to satisfy me. So I remain single. But I do see a woman who was an escort and is now married. We get together as she seems to need more than what one man can provide. Maybe she is an anomaly, as I suspect working girls eventually want to retire and settle down and not have to deal with a lot of different guys... Curious to hear from any of the women currently working what they aspire to in a relationship after retirement? Or maybe that is a super personal question...
Someone who is real, has a sense of humor and is not abusive or double standard and thinks like the quote in my sig. and if I were a lioness in this life I would like my partner to look like the lion he is pretty hot lol.
 
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DaleyDDD

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Not sure what I can contribute here, as my hobbying days have slowed down dramatically as I near 50... Not because of physical or monetary restrictions, but just that I have seen some of the best SPs the city has to offer, and I came to the realization that I personally just needed more. Unfortunately those great SPs ruined it for other women as no one I've met outside this industry seems to have the skills required to satisfy me. So I remain single. But I do see a woman who was an escort and is now married. We get together as she seems to need more than what one man can provide. Maybe she is an anomaly, as I suspect working girls eventually want to retire and settle down and not have to deal with a lot of different guys... Curious to hear from any of the women currently working what they aspire to in a relationship after retirement? Or maybe that is a super personal question...
That's a fair question...I'll bite.

Eventually there will come a time that I retire and settle down with one person. This might not mean monogamy but definitely playing around would be done in the presence / with the participation of my significant other. That would be something that both parties are in agreement with before hand. Regardless of the agreement, I would not work once I'm married even if it were to happen tomorrow. Don't worry...not happening quite yet. ;)

I'll wife up eventually...might pop out a baby Daley or two.
 

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I read the first post. Then skipped to the end.

I think the natural extension I want to ask in response to this topic:
"In all honesty, would an SP marry you?":eyebrows: :p
 
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