would any of you guys marry an SP?

[pablice]

Again generilizing and making assumptions...GAWD are you this blind to the obvious and to your truth of existence....just on your last couple of posts you have posted a bunch of assumptions and generalizations and you still keep doing it...just keep digging your hole for everybody to see your ugly truth!

Yes you are.




READ. "I know two"

I will post no further comments on this.

Man there are some people. God I hope he doesn't drive a car!

 

[stay]

Everyone has a P.O.V.

I'm going back to cooking my pasta


For the record, I would never marry a SP, not that I had any offers.

 

[Doctor Zoidburg]

No I would not, I do not like sloppy, sloppy, sloppy, sloppy, sloppy, sloppy, sloppy, sloppy, sloppy ninths.

 

[calib]

My current choice for my next wife is a SP. We have strong feeling for each other, get together as often as I can skip out off the clock so to speak. Kind of like back dating, I bring her things that I notice she needs, take her out for meals, give her money for food for her self and her cats. At the present time, we both want to be together when I become free.

i met a sp in 2013, every arranged session improved, got to a point of relating to her and have become friends, key is to keep the business separate from the personal.
at the beginning on a business relationship, because of improving sessions, gave extra above the regular rate, saw the sp really appreciated the gesture, i felt good realizing that extra helped on unexpected bills.
Short story, we got to understand each other a lot more, which gave a surprise turn around, from business aspect moved to personal involvement, now when we meet, i am treated to full tank of gas, cigarettes, meals, etc.... how could i complain.
Good part of this relationship, no jealousy, i still have my freedom to visit past and prospective new cuddlers.
Now don't get me wrong, i still didn't say i would take the plunge into marrying..

 

[Titalian]

i met a sp in 2013, every arranged session improved, got to a point of relating to her and have become friends, key is to keep the business separate from the personal.
at the beginning on a business relationship, because of improving sessions, gave extra above the regular rate, saw the sp really appreciated the gesture, i felt good realizing that extra helped on unexpected bills.
Short story, we got to understand each other a lot more, which gave a surprise turn around, from business aspect moved to personal involvement, now when we meet, i am treated to full tank of gas, cigarettes, meals, etc.... how could i complain.
Good part of this relationship, no jealousy, i still have my freedom to visit past and prospective new cuddlers.
Now don't get me wrong, i still didn't say i would take the plunge into marrying..

Very enlightening post.

 

[Titalian]

If I was a man I would not marry an active SP. No way I would be sharing the women I vow to be faithful to for the rest of my life with a whole bunch of other men. Former yes, active no. I've been there, it doesn't work out. As much as a man says he's OK with it, he's really not deep down inside. That's horrible for a man's ego. Unless he's extremely open minded and just does not really care who you bang, those type of men aren't too easy to find. I wouldn't want to marry a man that was OK with me being an SP anyways.

Your right ! On the other hand if she truly loved the person she's with she would think twice about continuing in this line of work.

 

[one.of.a.kind]

If I was a man I would not marry an active SP. No way I would be sharing the women I vow to be faithful to for the rest of my life with a whole bunch of other men. Former yes, active no. I've been there, it doesn't work out. As much as a man says he's OK with it, he's really not deep down inside. That's horrible for a man's ego. Unless he's extremely open minded and just does not really care who you bang, those type of men aren't too easy to find. I wouldn't want to marry a man that was OK with me being an SP anyways.

Thank you.

 

[TeasePlease]

Your generalizing, this is not the truth. Some of these ladies do have hearts. Deeper than you could even imagine !

IMO, that's kinda the point. We are all human with emotions and feeling. To assume that someone can absolutely separate physical intimacy with emotional intimacy is foolish. Especially when guys like Pablice purposefully set out looking to connect with providers on a personal level.

If I was a man I would not marry an active SP. No way I would be sharing the women I vow to be faithful to for the rest of my life with a whole bunch of other men. Former yes, active no. I've been there, it doesn't work out. As much as a man says he's OK with it, he's really not deep down inside. That's horrible for a man's ego. Unless he's extremely open minded and just does not really care who you bang, those type of men aren't too easy to find. I wouldn't want to marry a man that was OK with me being an SP anyways.

Well said. Most working girls seem to feel this way, at least in private. To them, the industry is a job and not a life or lifestyle. It will pass and then they will want "normal" (whatever that is).

I've been seeing/in love with a working SP for five years now. I've offered her a life with me (financially taken care of) but she refuses to stop seeing/ fucking other men. Too bad she doesn't see it like you do. Well said, thank you.

Did you read her post? Your friend probably does see it the same way as Tiffany. Think carefully on it and take a good hard look in the mirror. Sorry.

 

[stay]

If I was a man I would not marry an active SP. No way I would be sharing the women I vow to be faithful to for the rest of my life with a whole bunch of other men. Former yes, active no. I've been there, it doesn't work out. As much as a man says he's OK with it, he's really not deep down inside. That's horrible for a man's ego. Unless he's extremely open minded and just does not really care who you bang, those type of men aren't too easy to find. I wouldn't want to marry a man that was OK with me being an SP anyways.

Agree, when I ponder the "life" questions, I like to go as far back to animal as possible. I like reading the posts of guys who are supposedly OK but have never set foot in the door. It is a whole new ball game once you are there. For myself I am married to a former dancer, who I met as a dancer. I knew how she was with the customers and that was fine. If she worked at CA, I doubt I would even want to go on a date, better just pay for service and be done with it.

 

[pablice]

That's not a fair accusation to make it personal like this and I take offense at it coming from you.

I do not judge them or any girl I meet...I basically treat them based on the ATM vibes.

To say I purposly seek this out is not fair and you have no clue why I hobby, just the assumptioms you make based on things you think you know about me.

Just like a friend said once, I beleive it too, I live life without filters and treat others how they treat me or would treat me.

I hobby becuase I like it. I like seeing beautiful women naked and have them touch me, thats it. Do you reall think I want to seek a relationship outside my marriage and increase my chances of getting caught. I love my marriage a lot more then this to ruin it with some fling.

I started this hobby back when I was 19 and have never left the game....guess what I married a civie cause I like it....you going to judge me about this too???

If you guoing to make these accusations then be prepared to have a clean slate yourself cause your hobby stories aint much better.

IMO, that's kinda the point. We are all human with emotions and feeling. To assume that someone can absolutely separate physical intimacy with emotional intimacy is foolish. Especially when guys like Pablice purposefully set out looking to connect with providers on a personal level.



Well said. Most working girls seem to feel this way, at least in private. To them, the industry is a job and not a life or lifestyle. It will pass and then they will want "normal" (whatever that is).



Did you read her post? Your friend probably does see it the same way as Tiffany. Think carefully on it and take a good hard look in the mirror. Sorry.

 

[stay]

That's not a fair accusation to make it personal like this and I take offense at it coming from you.

I do not judge them or any girl I meet...I basically treat them based on the ATM vibes.

To say I purposly seek this out is not fair and you have no clue why I hobby, just the assumptioms you make based on things you think you know about me.

Just like a friend said once, I beleive it too, I live life without filters and treat others how they treat me or would treat me.

I hobby becuase I like it. I like seeing beautiful women naked and have them touch me, thats it. Do you reall think I want to seek a relationship outside my marriage and increase my chances of getting caught. I love my marriage a lot more then this to ruin it with some fling.

I started this hobby back when I was 19 and have never left the game....guess what I married a civie cause I like it....you going to judge me about this too???

If you guoing to make these accusations then be prepared to have a clean slate yourself cause your hobby stories aint much better.

I don't judge you little buddy„ you've seen the good and the bad. Would you like to meet the ugly?

Yes if you treat others as they treat you is the way I live. That is why I am the nicest guy

 

[red]

yes I would, but she would have to be retired from the business. there are certainly women I have met through this hobby that I could fall in love with. now whether they would want to marry an older fuck like me? ha.

 

[TeasePlease]

That's not a fair accusation to make it personal like this and I take offense at it coming from you.

I do not judge them or any girl I meet...I basically treat them based on the ATM vibes.

To say I purposly seek this out is not fair and you have no clue why I hobby, just the assumptioms you make based on things you think you know about me.

Just like a friend said once, I beleive it too, I live life without filters and treat others how they treat me or would treat me.

I hobby becuase I like it. I like seeing beautiful women naked and have them touch me, thats it. Do you reall think I want to seek a relationship outside my marriage and increase my chances of getting caught. I love my marriage a lot more then this to ruin it with some fling.

I started this hobby back when I was 19 and have never left the game....guess what I married a civie cause I like it....you going to judge me about this too???

If you guoing to make these accusations then be prepared to have a clean slate yourself cause your hobby stories aint much better.

Slow down buddy. Read what I wrote again.

Your past posts state clearly where you're coming from and what you seek.

I certainly do not say that you judge any girls, nor am I judging you.

What I said was that you and guys like you seek to make personal connections with girls. Some guys seek it consciously, some unconsciously and some it just happens to. But, we can't ignore the unique realities of this business.

If all you want now is physical companionship within the confines of a session, then you've changed the parameters of your hobbying and I'm happy for you.

 

[pablice]

It always starts as physical but if more develops I will not run away from it. I do not like to limit the potential growth of a relationship with who ever I run across, be it an MPA, SP, or somebody I meet on the street or a coffee shop. I respect their comfort level and I hope they respect my marital situation. If I was not married of corse I would date them if the opp was presented or if it was real. I still would not seek this and would hope I have enough sense to know better then to seek a relationship with an industry girl that starts off with $$$. It is different to seek something, then to stumble on something and to go with the flow if something develops based on the time you spend with somebody provided you have a unique connection.

It always starts as physical for me with this hobby. I look at the pretty pictures and get a vibe from the girls looks and decide to see them based on purely physical attraction and based on how sensual I think she is. This is always how it was for me not sure why you think I want or seek a personal connection. I know why you would confuse it, but I have never seeked after this or wanted or want this. It's counterintuitive to do this and against my fundamentals. Why ask for more drama and more problems when I have it pretty good right now. I also think it is lame to consciously seek this.

If I wanted to hobby becuase I consciously seek a connection on a personal level then I would stop the hobby and want to have my head examined. However, I do not run away if something more grows out of our session... I am all for it and say bring it on. I never run away as long as we respect each others current personal situation.

I don't think it is healthy to consciously seek a personal connection from this hobby.

You have made a statement that is contrary to fundamental outlook to my hobby and I do not agree with it. If you don't understand me please ask me directly. I do not like it when others think that they know why I hobby or do certain things, especially when I disagree with their statement that attempts to box me in especially coming from somebody I see in high regard.

Slow down buddy. Read what I wrote again.

Your past posts state clearly where you're coming from and what you seek.

I certainly do not say that you judge any girls, nor am I judging you.

What I said was that you and guys like you seek to make personal connections with girls. Some guys seek it consciously, some unconsciously and some it just happens to. But, we can't ignore the unique realities of this business.

If all you want now is physical companionship within the confines of a session, then you've changed the parameters of your hobbying and I'm happy for you.

 

[pablice]

This^^^^^

Great post and points void!!!

 

[pablice]

You're totally right it is our imperfections that make it fun.

I think I need to STOP posting for a while...haven't had sex since that wrecked 1st week in December and am itching to come back.

This is why I need this hobby...just proves it even more to me now...I've been finding myself very grumpy lately with all my imperfections

Sometimes you just gotta lay it down and purify your self...

hey we are only human. no one is perfect and no one has a perfect life. gotta make the most of what we have and appreciate every day for what it is.

 

[Titalian]

If I was a man I would not marry an active SP. No way I would be sharing the women I vow to be faithful to for the rest of my life with a whole bunch of other men. Former yes, active no. I've been there, it doesn't work out. As much as a man says he's OK with it, he's really not deep down inside. That's horrible for a man's ego. Unless he's extremely open minded and just does not really care who you bang, those type of men aren't too easy to find. I wouldn't want to marry a man that was OK with me being an SP anyways.

All valid points guys, but it was good hearing a woman's perspective on this, especially from a provider. I believe Tiffany nailed it on the head !!
If I was truly in love with an escort, I'd be eating myself up inside knowing she's seeing other men. And yes my ego would be shot.

 

[james t kirk]

Who the hell knows for sure until you're there and then it would be a case of "see how it goes"

 

[calib]

Your right ! On the other hand if she truly loved the person she's with she would think twice about continuing in this line of work.

i measured that scenario, but with todays economy, if the ladies can take care of herself without the obligations of the man, why stop her, she keeps you contempt, you know nothing is free, and if you find one that gives, than nothing measures up...and if you loose the one that measured don't sulk inside

 

[OfficeMac]

If I loved her then yes, I would take her out of the business and marry her