They're not your lovers if you're seeing them one hour at a time for $$$. They're only clients.
The sexodus: Men giving up on women and checking out
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shaming tatics are getting stale half of gamers are women. you notice the same people are going after metal music? #metalgate
Women? These mythical "social justice warriors" you seem so enamoured with? Are they the same thing? Lesbians!? Is it lesbians!?!?
Boy...that shit don't make no sense
CONSCIOUS MASCULINE
Men and women aren't the same. They aren't supposed to be, they shouldn't be, and fundamentally we don't want men to be the same as us - it's the aspects of them that are different and complimentary that make them attractive to us.
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Do we have an equal right to our place in this world? ... Yes.
Are we both entitled to feelings and emotions?.... Yes.
Do we process and emote the same?.... Wow, no way!
And think about how we hold each other - the way a man holds us is just different than a hug from a girlfriend, and the way he smells, feels, sounds and tastes. I'm thankful that we're not the same and that men are capable of a steadfastness I don't have.
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Honestly, how many of you women would enjoy your partner expressing emotions JUST LIKE YOU, Crying JUST LIKE YOU, needing to be held JUST LIKE YOU?
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Equal? ABSOLUTELY YES! The same? HELL NO!
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The Masculine and feminine are supposed to show up differently. They complement each other, they're not meant to blend together and become the same.
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I wonder if the reaction and fear behind the gender difference is because so many women have never experienced conscious masculine energy?
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A conscious man NEVER pushes the feminine down. He doesn't feel threatened by feminine energy, he holds it.
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He doesn't need to 'shut it up', he gives it a space to express and flow freely. He never belittles it, mocks it or try's to explain it. He treasures it and keeps it safe.
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He doesn't feel overwhelmed by its fury and power. He embraces it. He is so complete and confident in his own energy that he can freely hold enough space for the feminine and masculine to compliment each other versus compete.
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He doesn't try to understand it, explain it or make 'sense' of it. He appreciates it's beauty and acknowledges its value.
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A conscious man understands his role is to create space and safety for his woman. This safe space allows her to be fully present and able to exist in her feminine without fear or hesitation.
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If you want to be held in a safe space and fully express everything you are and have ever wanted to be, wait for a man who is conscious. Wait for a man who has done his work, a man who is confident, centered, courageous and safe.
Men and women aren't the same. They aren't supposed to be, they shouldn't be, and fundamentally we don't want men to be the same as us - it's the aspects of them that are different and complimentary that make them attractive to us.
.
Do we have an equal right to our place in this world? ... Yes.
Are we both entitled to feelings and emotions?.... Yes.
Do we process and emote the same?.... Wow, no way!
And think about how we hold each other - the way a man holds us is just different than a hug from a girlfriend, and the way he smells, feels, sounds and tastes. I'm thankful that we're not the same and that men are capable of a steadfastness I don't have.
.
Honestly, how many of you women would enjoy your partner expressing emotions JUST LIKE YOU, Crying JUST LIKE YOU, needing to be held JUST LIKE YOU?
.
Equal? ABSOLUTELY YES! The same? HELL NO!
.
The Masculine and feminine are supposed to show up differently. They complement each other, they're not meant to blend together and become the same.
.
I wonder if the reaction and fear behind the gender difference is because so many women have never experienced conscious masculine energy?
.
A conscious man NEVER pushes the feminine down. He doesn't feel threatened by feminine energy, he holds it.
.
He doesn't need to 'shut it up', he gives it a space to express and flow freely. He never belittles it, mocks it or try's to explain it. He treasures it and keeps it safe.
.
He doesn't feel overwhelmed by its fury and power. He embraces it. He is so complete and confident in his own energy that he can freely hold enough space for the feminine and masculine to compliment each other versus compete.
.
He doesn't try to understand it, explain it or make 'sense' of it. He appreciates it's beauty and acknowledges its value.
.
A conscious man understands his role is to create space and safety for his woman. This safe space allows her to be fully present and able to exist in her feminine without fear or hesitation.
.
If you want to be held in a safe space and fully express everything you are and have ever wanted to be, wait for a man who is conscious. Wait for a man who has done his work, a man who is confident, centered, courageous and safe.
The problem is that women are no longer willing to accept their role in this dynamic, which explains this whole sexodus thing.
We assume the risk of providing and instead of the proper reward we get more risk, i.e. losing our house, massive support payments etc.
Copy that. Women used to regularly try getting their hands on the sizable bulge in my pants. And it continues with my partner. They were always gung ho to get into my pants but it only made me feel cheap and used. Oh the irony!
Personally, I find it hard to even see Canadian women is sexual objects, they have the same impact on me as men. Go overseas and women as sooooo different. I just see most Canadian women as I would another person. Very few intrigue me sexually.
Then by all means, leave Canada and move overseas. But live as a poor local and see how far you get with the local ladies. They see you as a rich ticket out of their poor life. Your attitude towards women is the problem, not the women themselves.
they are biggest group of interracial couples. more than black men/white women couples.
Cmon dude. Marriages in those countries last longer. And women have not been through tons of boyfriends before settling to marry the nearest man when the clock starts ticking.
The divorce rate in Ontario is about 50%. Also, the family and divorce courts are stacked against men. So based on that, a man would be crazy to marry, given that there is a 50% chance of financial ruin. But it even goes further than that: if you co-habitate with a woman for more than 2 years, you are considered married with respect to your obligations towards supporting a separated or divorced spouse.
This is probably having an impact on procreation rates. That's why immigration is important to keep the population up, and have enough people to keep society going with an aging population. Ironically, many immigrants with different cultures arrive with arranged marriages, which are often inter-family bonding and business arrangements, and apparently, their marriages tend to last. I knew one Pakistani couple at work in a Middle-Eastern country: their marriage was out of love, and they bucked their parents wishes for an arranged marriage..... they eventually divroced!
One thing that rarely gets discussed is the effect that all the costs of divorce and child support have on the dating prospects and lifestyles of men.
My divorce was childless and before I made it in life so I never really cared much or even considered the costs that other guys were paying as I never paid those bills. My attitude was don't play unless you can pay. Last year a woman I know commented that the world was full of broke ass losers who had no time or money to be worth dating. For the first time ever, I felt really sorry for guys who have lost half and been stuck with big bills. Her comment was directed at guys with kids who had lost at marriage. Personally, her attitude made me feel quite disgusted.
There is compatibility between white males and (born in asia) asian females. The reverse is not so true. My suspicion is that the definition of 'mr right' is different between white north-american and East Asian women. The former's definition of mr. right is Tom Selleck (when he was younger): strong, sensitive and a bit of money. In contrast, if you're sensitive and not strong, then you're a wimp, and unable to defend her against sand kicking predators on the beach. Asian women don't seem to have that notion; traditionally in the old country, marrying a man who has some wealth (= some brains) means that you're not going to literally starve to death at some point; strength has nothing to do with it.
Western women also tend to assert too much their independence, and that causes some strain in the marriage. Asian women may run the finances, make the inside of your house look like you live in Hangzhou, and otherwise manipulate you, but they still make you think like you're in charge. Also interracially, western men don't pick up the unattractive traits that make some asian women unattractive to asian men. Also, asian women tend to keep their shape far longer than western (especially US) women. I know a few white guys married to East Asian women, and they seem to live in bliss.
