The sexodus: Men giving up on women and checking out
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http://www.nytimes.com/2014/12/12/u...-america-fell-behind.html?abt=0002&abg=0&_r=2
Finish College and don't comit a crime...
Finish College and don't comit a crime...
A woman's feminine energy is connected to more then her earning power, but it is connected to relationship problems, both in and out of the bedroom. Men need to feel useful, for centuries men have taken care of women. When a woman takes that away from a man, he has been castrated. The best advise I have ever been given, "even if you can afford your own coffee, let him pay" It makes him feel like he's taking care of you. He in turn, if he's truly centered in his masculine energy, will appreciate the gifts you will give him. A new tie, or cufflings will put a smile on his face. The same way it puts a smile on your face when he treats you to a new purse.
The balance between being feminine and being a man in the board room, if a fine line and easily balanced when we as women embrace the power of being a woman.
I have noticed a movement of strong women searching for balance in their lives.
http://www.thefemininewoman.com/tag/feminine-energy/ Some of these articles are very interesting.
women want to be equal, yet expect men to still ask them out, take them out, try to impress them (charm) with conversation, and then the woman gets to decide who out of the many men taking her out she might sleep with (most likely she already has a fk buddy and is using these men for validation and dinners). Men are also expected to get on one knee, and offer her a ring he bought so the little goddess can consider if he is good enough for her. If she doesnt like it she can divorce rape him and leave. Women want power from areas where men have the most (business, occupation, etc). Yet wont budge where they have the most: sex, relationships. marriage, (prostitution is still illegal, women still expect men to do the asking out, paying, proposing, etc). Its a rigged game. Guys who are way up the social hierarchy dont need to play it, (rock stars, drug dealers, etc).
It makes me so sad when I see shit like this, poor dude bought a girl who friendzoned him a car.
It makes me so sad when I see shit like this, poor dude bought a girl who friendzoned him a car.
It doesnt work that way. Women want a man who is more than her on all fields. Ive seen stay at home dads, their wives a disgusted with them and constantly rag on them for being lazy. Its part of a womans hind brain. She cant respect a man on her level: be is her height, income, strength, social skills, etc. Rich women are after richer men. Educated women are after educated men. Of course im generalizing, but thats how it usually is. We cant compartmentalize our attraction. A lot of women cheat on such husbands with their bosses or coworkers.
Hopefully more young men "check out on women" because it will mean more for me.
The only problem with marriage that I see is the whole notion of economic devastation upon breakdown of said marriage . The laws are in-fucking-sane. Other than that, which is huge, I'm not that worried about women, the games they can play, or their expectations. I just treat people in general with respect and if they don't return the courtesy, I walk away and leave them to their own devices.
The only problem with marriage that I see is the whole notion of economic devastation upon breakdown of said marriage . The laws are in-fucking-sane. Other than that, which is huge, I'm not that worried about women, the games they can play, or their expectations. I just treat people in general with respect and if they don't return the courtesy, I walk away and leave them to their own devices.
Similar story. It's safe to say competition for slender young women has never been more intense. Despite being young and in shape myself, even fat chicks think they're too good for me. So I just do a fob escort once in a while and get on with my life.
Interestingly, the only two civvies who would have me were from SEA. Both were new arrivals when we met, and both were hot. Much hotter than any western girl I could get. I didn't pay for anything either. All I had to do was act nice and normal, and they were more than happy to return the favour with passionate sex and affection.
Think about that, folks. It was a thousand times easier for me to connect with girls who barely spoke my language than any Canadian-born girl. What does that say about the dating market here? Lol
As for women over 30, they aren't even worth a free shag. I'd rather just masturbate to be honest. It'll be fun watching my female peers clamour for husbands once they reach that age, not realizing their sexual value is almost nil. "They'll shout, 'Save us!' And I'll whisper, 'No.'"
this is a biased sample to ask people here about this topic. there are unhappily married men, divorced guys and dudes who for whatever reasons pay for sex.
I heard on the radio that the umber of marriages staying together that started in the 90s and 2000 are more stable because people are marrying later and living together before marriage.
and some german game designer is far from any sort of expert on this topic.
the roles and expectations of men and women are changing
the whole school is not for boys is pure bullshit...... if anything schools are getting more touchy feely active rather than rigid rote memory stuff. people claim boys don't do well with sitting still but that's exactly what school was in the past and less so today. by that rationale we should see boys doing better.
parenting and discipline have also changed
I find younger people are becoming less equipped to fend for themselves so it is no surpise that some men are having trouble with relationships....... but it goes both ways young women are also ill equipped...... the 20 year olds today grew up with no due dates or late penalties and watering down of expectations in school...... ever read a piece of writing from a 20 year old? many cant even write a professional email.
I heard on the radio that the umber of marriages staying together that started in the 90s and 2000 are more stable because people are marrying later and living together before marriage.
and some german game designer is far from any sort of expert on this topic.
the roles and expectations of men and women are changing
the whole school is not for boys is pure bullshit...... if anything schools are getting more touchy feely active rather than rigid rote memory stuff. people claim boys don't do well with sitting still but that's exactly what school was in the past and less so today. by that rationale we should see boys doing better.
parenting and discipline have also changed
I find younger people are becoming less equipped to fend for themselves so it is no surpise that some men are having trouble with relationships....... but it goes both ways young women are also ill equipped...... the 20 year olds today grew up with no due dates or late penalties and watering down of expectations in school...... ever read a piece of writing from a 20 year old? many cant even write a professional email.
great points and a prenup goes a long way to mitigating the biggest fear or concern
Less people are getting married, so the ones who would have ended up divorced in the past, never got married in the first place. Also Gen Y is broke. Dating, relationships, family cost money.
I find it interesting that some women have voiced their opinions here to have them simply dismissed
to say that some need to justify why they aren't getting laid is not that far from the truth
we rationalize tons of things from smoking to obesity to why we cant find a good job or get laid to over spending and what not
to say that some need to justify why they aren't getting laid is not that far from the truth
we rationalize tons of things from smoking to obesity to why we cant find a good job or get laid to over spending and what not
Some guys look at all the work they have to do to get laid, compared to what a woman has to do, and decide "its a rigged game". She has to show up. Thats it. She can be fat, ugly, dumb, tall, short, even be obese. She will still get laid. He wont if those applied to him. So a lot of guys say "fuck it". Sure if you have a lot of money, are well established, etc. It might be easier for you. Young guys are barely making anything nowdays. They have bigger problems. Also Toronto is like PUA central. That just makes it more grim as womens bitch shields go up. I know a ton of 22 year old guys. Thats the reasoning I get.
