I am presently seeing another woman going on 4 yrs now. She's divorced and doesn't want to ever get married or move in with another man again though she does have a boyfriend herself. She's 16 yrs younger than me and yes, most times we meet, it is sex. Actually, when I arrive we are into cuddling and sex not 5 minutes after the door closes. She enjoys most anything and it's usually non stop from when I arrive till I leave. It's convenient for me too cause she does have a steady job working nights so we are able to spend afternoons together. Also, she is very trustworthy as the only way we contact each other is through private emails. Have never talked on the phone, and either of us will only text when a time is set up. There has been times we haven't seen each other for almost 3..4 months, then other times it's been a couple times a week. The both of us just have the understanding that yes, we care for each other very much, yet, in no way will either of us jeopardize the others personal life.
This is one arrangement I know is going to stay together for a long time yet I feel. Personally, I feel I am very lucky. I have had other affairs in my life before. From long distance where we met half way to one when I was single and was seeing a married woman (was even friends with her husband). But this lady I am with now, and she is 43, is very sexy, attractive, and one of the hottest, and horniest, I have ever met.
For those of you that are thinking of having an affair... You meet up with a woman such as I have, you would be hard pressed to look any further.