Screening...

[Titalian]

Not for you. YOU I will stalk around this board all weekend until the wee hours of the night when my eyes are barely open. I will compile all posts I can, bombard TERB with them on Monday, and shut the whole place down for at least 30 seconds with a bandwidth delay.

Oh ya! I am that evil! You better watch and fear my wrath!

Sounds like fun !!!! :wink:

 

[shrek71]

If you won't see anyone without a reference, how is that person supposed to get a reference. Let some other bitch deal with a non referenced client... classy.

Also agencies don't require referals. Most indies don't seem to require refereals. I figure why plead, grovel and beg an escort to see me when I can see someone who won't make me jump hoops like some show dog so easily. Canada for the win.

Also I've seen 7 girls, one of them twice. None of them required a references [although I did book one via Merb PM, but it wasn't required]. The girl I saw twice. A had a 2 hour session, about 2 months later I saw her again and she had absolutely no recollection of me. So good luck on that. [Oddly strippers seem to remember me much better, I don't get it]

Also how exactly are you supposed to get that reference.
Kate: Hello Riki, did you see Bob two months ago
Riki: How am I supposed to know, I see lots of people of many names, can you describe him?
Kate: Well I haven't seen him yet so I don't know his phone number is 416 555 5555
Riki: And I save phone numbers why? Not very descrete you know.

Or you could rely on terb accounts and posting history because we all know a real life Paul Bernardo would never ever set up an account and a posting history to do evil because that would be fraudulent and wrong. Never mind that posting history and real life behavior are not the same thing regardless of how deluded you might be on the subject.

Even better, give them your work phone number, because I can't see how that could go badly.

Also I find it unbearably cunty to in effect ask a girl to help me see her competition. Hey Riki, you are fantastic but I want to see Kate, can you hook a bro up.
Yeah... no.

Also it not only filters out occational hobbiests who won't be remembered but as alluded to above how are new people supposed to enter unless you are happy putting the burden of the risk on others.

YEP :thumb:

Double yep on that. "wait for it" has summed up my position on this referral issue exactly.

Also those screening websites that some providers choose to use, ask for way too much personal information. Remember discretion and anonymity are a two way street.

Cheers

 

[wangbang]

Also those screening websites that some providers choose to use, ask for way too much personal information. Remember discretion and anonymity are a two way street.

Cheers

It has always surprised me how many SP's bring up review boards during a session. My basic response is that I read but don't participate. My SO would be surprised to hear this but it seems that I am a pretty easy guy to talk to before and after sex. So much so that in the late 90's I could have probably told you the names and jobs/business of at least 20 of the top posters on TERB due to ladies who just chatted away about guys they had seen. I knew which guys posted about being studs yet had little dicks and couldn't last 30 seconds. What's more, on the underground boards it was amazing what some guys knew about other guys. Of course, most of this info came from pillow talk with the ladies. Talking about commonalities is how people socialize.

One of the litigants in the court case leading up to C-36 wants to out clients because she isn't getting her way.

At the end of the day, people on both sides should do everything they can to protect themselves.

 

[Dorian Grey]

Don't know what's so complicated? If you are consistent with the use of your 'fake' hobby name, hobby phone number, and hobby email address for all escorts you see, references shouldn't really be a problem or intrusive into your private life whatsoever. This method has always worked for me and I've run into many cases where the escort had never even heard of this board so using an account name from here would have been useless. I've been reminded over and over by so many escorts that only a small percentage of their business actually comes from review forums, so your member account here can obviously only carry you just so far unfortunately.