Had a great day at the cottage on Saturday.Did some yard work first thing in the morning,had lunch with a couple of buddy's,took the neighbors kids & there friends water sking & tubing.Got back on land & started drinking,playing some volleyball & horseshoes,& the neighbors invited me over for some fish on the barbie.Conversation turns to how fast the kids have grown up.Not mine,don't have any(every fathers day I don't get a card is a good fathers day! lol)Two of them are off to university this year for the first time & one for the second year.Being in my mid thirties,i can remember these kids as baby's.
Around 9 oclock after i woke up from a litle nap,i went down to the beach & had some drinks with my neighbors around the bonfire.As it got later the older crowd headed to bed,while the younger crowd started to drink heavier.One of my neighbors friends that i took out tubing came over to sit closer & warm up.Being at least a dozen yrs older than anyone there i taught them some drinking games,hangover remedies,how to make the ultimate smore etc,etc.As the night wore on,my neighbors friend who's starting university with her tmr kept getting flirtier & flirtier & wanted to see my ID,not believing im in my mid thirties.This girl being a 5'8-5'10,thin beautiful brunette made it hard for me to pay attn driving the boat!Great sense of humour,very intelligent for her age & eyes & a smile that could lite up a room.
Well long story short we ended up going for a skinny dip & she ended up in my bed.I told her up front that it was a bad idea,but at that moment there was no turning back.I woke up in the morning feeling a little ashamed,she told me i was only the second guy she'd been with.Had brekky with my neighbors while the kids slept in & they asked if i had a good time last nite.Internally i kinda grinned,but i felt as low as a snakes belly.I've known these people along time & they trust me to lookout for there kids.My brother made it up after lunch & commented i looked a little down.I gave him a hypothetical,& in two seconds he figured it out & shook his head saying my moral compass is way out of whack for sleeping with the neighbors 18yr old friend.It got worse at dinner when my mom asked the the girls the highlite of there week at the cottage.My neighbors friend says the watersking was the best but her legs got real sore,but not to worry i massaged them later for her.Everybody laughed innocently & i almost choked on my shrimp!
So did i do wrong here,or am i jumping to conclusions ?
Around 9 oclock after i woke up from a litle nap,i went down to the beach & had some drinks with my neighbors around the bonfire.As it got later the older crowd headed to bed,while the younger crowd started to drink heavier.One of my neighbors friends that i took out tubing came over to sit closer & warm up.Being at least a dozen yrs older than anyone there i taught them some drinking games,hangover remedies,how to make the ultimate smore etc,etc.As the night wore on,my neighbors friend who's starting university with her tmr kept getting flirtier & flirtier & wanted to see my ID,not believing im in my mid thirties.This girl being a 5'8-5'10,thin beautiful brunette made it hard for me to pay attn driving the boat!Great sense of humour,very intelligent for her age & eyes & a smile that could lite up a room.
Well long story short we ended up going for a skinny dip & she ended up in my bed.I told her up front that it was a bad idea,but at that moment there was no turning back.I woke up in the morning feeling a little ashamed,she told me i was only the second guy she'd been with.Had brekky with my neighbors while the kids slept in & they asked if i had a good time last nite.Internally i kinda grinned,but i felt as low as a snakes belly.I've known these people along time & they trust me to lookout for there kids.My brother made it up after lunch & commented i looked a little down.I gave him a hypothetical,& in two seconds he figured it out & shook his head saying my moral compass is way out of whack for sleeping with the neighbors 18yr old friend.It got worse at dinner when my mom asked the the girls the highlite of there week at the cottage.My neighbors friend says the watersking was the best but her legs got real sore,but not to worry i massaged them later for her.Everybody laughed innocently & i almost choked on my shrimp!
So did i do wrong here,or am i jumping to conclusions ?