Wow, so you think you are equal to a mass murdered? a paedophile? a guy who eats himself to 800 lbs? to a professional wrestler? to a man with 2 Phds? to a woman?
We are all of equal value before god, but we are all different. Everyone one is good at some things and bad at others. So of course if you use any set of values some are better and some are worse.
I guess for people who value self confidence, being well dressed, having physical things, being respected in the business community.... you are advertising yourself as a failure. Simple.
okay guy, i can see you are still desperate for my attention. i have seen it all day you trying to get me to notice you and i guess the 2 or 3 posts earlier just wasn't enough. i would feel bad if i left you hanging all night. this is it though, after this i am gonna go put on a bond movie and go to sleep.
1- we are all equal, everyone. every man, woman and child are all equal. some have made better choices than others, some have gone down dark paths but at the end of it all we are all equal. we all die just the same and you can't take anything with you when you go. so you are correct, i don't believe i am any better than anyone and neither are you. i do find it interesting how you went to the worst of the worst first though and ended it with "to a woman?" like a man and woman can't be equal.
2- judging by your attitude and posting you have a definite attitude and think you are better than a lot of people. let me remind you of some things though. you were an escort ( i am not saying that n a negative way, it is a damn hard job to perform and i empathize with every woman that does it). that is what you were by your own admission. you were broke and needed money for school or rent or whatever even though you came from a wealthy family (or so you say) and you ran away. you got lucky as again by your own admission he was taking escorts out all over the place and was looking for an escort to become his wife. so it wasn't you, it was the lack of client list you had that enticed him (again by your own admission). so while you sit here with your attitude and newly found arrogance remember you were a run away broke girl turned escort that got lucky, nothing more. which might explain your over compensating with attitude now. i am not saying this in any sort of insulting way either and i apologize if it is coming across that way. just remember where you came from before you start insulting others. also by others i mean the ladies in the profession you chose to enter and now talk down to them. i would suggest you remember where you came from and tone down the attitude a little bit.
3- you are very off with how i dress on a day to day basis. when i am at work or on my own leisure time i dress very well. i have designer clothing and i maintain myself well. i fit in in every social circle when i need to and i can fit in very well. when i am out in a group settings i dress accordingly. also with work since i am the "face" of the company i have to look a certain way so people will think well of us and use us again. so you are wrong with how you think i dress and the constant insults about are tiring. also the fat thing you have been shooting off with all day is wrong. i don't look fat, i am overweight but when you look at me front or side profile there is no belly hanging, you are wrong there as well.
4- these guys that looked and judged me without thinking did based on this. i had just finished 2 hours of shoveling and i was on my way home, not 20 mins later when i stopped to get something to eat since i knew i wouldn't want to cook when i got home. so they saw me disheveled from 2 hours of hard work. i don't know anyone that would look good after 2 hours of shoveling snow. so please explain to me what i should wear and how i should look when i go to do that kind of work. should i have worn designer shoes and 200$ pants or should i have worn old track pants that don't matter if they get wet or salt covered ?. should i have worn my 300$ leather coat or should i have worn my denim work coat ? should i have worn my leather gloves or the 15$ pair of shitty work gloves ? please explain to me what i should have worn to dress properly to shovel.
5- i am 100% debt free. i did that on my own, i was never handed anything. i have things, i have everything i want or could need. i have a decent sized savings account which i did on my own and if i see something i want i go get it. i have more than enough self confidence and i am respected in ever social grouping i am involved with. in fact with every group i am known in i am known as a man of his word, no bullshit and i will stick up for the guy getting picked on even if it means i am the one to take the punch. i always without fail stick up for those that can't stick up for themselves. so yes there is an online persona of a ball buster and asshole and several other things but the online persona and the real thing are slightly different. i am the guy that gets called first because when i say i will be there i am there, without fail. i am always the first call in my social groups. i am guessing people would call that a stand up guy. see part of the internet is never admitting you are wrong even if you are, it's what makes the internet work. imagine how dull this place or countless other forums would be if everyone agreed on everything all the time, no one would bother. the internets needs villains.
6- judge not lest ye be judged. you wouldn't want people in his social circle digging to deeply now would you, so you may not want to run around acting like a snob or they may dig and it is amazing what you can find out about people on the internets.
i did explain this in other parts of this thread which you obviously didn't see. now i am not trying to be insulting to you or any of the girls that are still engaged in the profession, i hope that comes across. i do respect the ladies that do this kind of work, it truly is a hard job.
