I was at the gas station filling up the work truck.....attired in my work clothes.....right across the street from an apartment building where I saw an asian(B&S) too I might add......Asian girl just paid for her gas...looks at me and I KNOW she recognized me.......walks to her car...and then has an animated convo. with the driver.....another asian chick...was really hoping they would just leave....quickly...cus I really didnt want a confrontation with either of them....since my work partner was sitting in the truck too......(BTW...service sucked and I let them know I wasnt happy with the B&S tactic)....
Seeing an SP in public
- Thread starter fourfooteleven
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You've raised a good point and obviously it wouldn't be appropriate to call her by her trade name but I would be interested in hearing from SP's as to how they would like the unexpected encounter to proceed.If either of you is with someone okay this is cool but if both of you are alone it strikes me as bizarre not to treat each other as business aquaintences and at the very least a smile and a polite hello. I mean here is a girl that has seen you naked and played with your goodies and you can't say "Hi". For God's sake don't call her by her trade name but the world is a strange place if you can't say hi. Hell I say hi to complete strangers on occasion.
Perhaps if the SP has mentioned ahead of time that's it ok to approach them in public, but just to be safe, I'd say to pretend you don't know each other.
Two guys who do not see escorts giving us advice on how to interact with with the ladies. Priceless.
It's really awkward and uncomfortable when the guy is also friends with your friends (3 degree of separation).
Nope! There is a bunch of people on here, and being on here is their hobby. As opposed to being on here as a means to an end to enjoy seeing ladies. It's a little like a social drinker going to AA and opining on how to stay sober.
Something very similar happened to me, except that I was with my parents who were visiting.
I'm reasonably sure Rock doesn't have the money to see anyone. Probably since he posts inane drivel on here 24/7
On the occasions that this has happened, I let the young lady decide as to how she'll handle the moment.
After initial eye contact, if she wishes to come and greet me, I am most welcoming of the moment. Often greeting as you would an ex-GF you are still on good terms with.
It has happened about half a dozen times. On each occasion we ended up having a drink or coffee with a very nice conversation.
After initial eye contact, if she wishes to come and greet me, I am most welcoming of the moment. Often greeting as you would an ex-GF you are still on good terms with.
It has happened about half a dozen times. On each occasion we ended up having a drink or coffee with a very nice conversation.
Keep your distance don't make eye contact. Do not approach as you have no idea who they are with. It could get uncomfortable very fast.
I have had this happen four times over 25+ years.
The first two times were in Edmonton, same lady. Both times it was in West Edmonton Mall. I had been seeing the same MPA for a couple of years, about once a month. The first time I knew that she recognized me, but we both acted cool and didn't acknowledge each other. I saw her professionally a couple of weeks after that and she said that even when she did recognize a client she never did anything because she felt that it was best to keep her professional life and her personal life separate.
The second time was a couple of months after the first. We were both alone, and so I said hello. She responded with a smile and asked how I was doing. I asked if she was busy and had time for a coffee. Long story short, we had dinner and then I dropped her off near her apartment. Definitely an exception to the rule, but at the time we were both single and just looking for some company.
The third time was at a movie theatre in Oshawa. The lady was there with her three kids and a friend (another MPA that I recognized) and her three kids. I was there with my SO and we were all in line at the box office waiting to buy tickets. We all acted like we didn't know each other.
The most recent occassion was about 5 years ago, and it was at the liquor store. I didn't even realize that the lady lived in town. She looked like a very hot MILF, dressed in a halter, jeans and boots. Different make-up, hair and of course clothes then when she was working. I probably wouldn't have recognized her but we were both looking for the same red wine. She asked if I knew where the Lindemann's Shiraz was, and I recognized her voice. When I looked at her face, she also recognized me. We found the wine, she took her bottle, said goodbye and checked out.
Basically, my rule of thumb for these kind of encounters is that unless I get some kind of sign from the lady, I act like I don't know them. If speaking with them I would never use their working name. In the case of the first lady mentioned above, I had known her long enough that I had actual contact information for her, just in case she decided to change where she was working (this was way back in the days before TERB (1984), and no spa or escort agency was going to tell you where an MPA had moved to).
So if you meet someone in public, be cool. Mind your business.
The first two times were in Edmonton, same lady. Both times it was in West Edmonton Mall. I had been seeing the same MPA for a couple of years, about once a month. The first time I knew that she recognized me, but we both acted cool and didn't acknowledge each other. I saw her professionally a couple of weeks after that and she said that even when she did recognize a client she never did anything because she felt that it was best to keep her professional life and her personal life separate.
The second time was a couple of months after the first. We were both alone, and so I said hello. She responded with a smile and asked how I was doing. I asked if she was busy and had time for a coffee. Long story short, we had dinner and then I dropped her off near her apartment. Definitely an exception to the rule, but at the time we were both single and just looking for some company.
The third time was at a movie theatre in Oshawa. The lady was there with her three kids and a friend (another MPA that I recognized) and her three kids. I was there with my SO and we were all in line at the box office waiting to buy tickets. We all acted like we didn't know each other.
The most recent occassion was about 5 years ago, and it was at the liquor store. I didn't even realize that the lady lived in town. She looked like a very hot MILF, dressed in a halter, jeans and boots. Different make-up, hair and of course clothes then when she was working. I probably wouldn't have recognized her but we were both looking for the same red wine. She asked if I knew where the Lindemann's Shiraz was, and I recognized her voice. When I looked at her face, she also recognized me. We found the wine, she took her bottle, said goodbye and checked out.
Basically, my rule of thumb for these kind of encounters is that unless I get some kind of sign from the lady, I act like I don't know them. If speaking with them I would never use their working name. In the case of the first lady mentioned above, I had known her long enough that I had actual contact information for her, just in case she decided to change where she was working (this was way back in the days before TERB (1984), and no spa or escort agency was going to tell you where an MPA had moved to).
So if you meet someone in public, be cool. Mind your business.
When I started setting up my SP work a few years ago, I deliberately decided to charge a $1,000 minimum per session (2 hrs) because I wanted to minimize the number of men who might recognize me and assumed that men who could afford that would be more civilized .
.I agree absolutely but anyone in the SC, MP, or SP services should have their mind set for a chance encounter.
I was in a store in Sq 1 once and I was looking at some items, an SC dancer that I've had some hot sessions with was in the same store. She was with her boyfriend and the only reason I noticed her was she was staring at me (I was alone). I honestly could care less and kept looking at the items in front of me. I did glance at the front entrance in time to see her dragging her boyfriend out of the store who was staring back into the store with obvious confusion. Totally overreacted and if I was the boyfriend - I certainly would start wondering.
