Falling for a SP / SP falling for a client.
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I have fallen for a client. It was the second serious relationship of my life. It started with a trusted business relationship that evolved into a whirlwind romance that progressed to an engagement ring and moving half way across the country with him. Later I found out he was still happily married and I ended it when he got engaged to a 23 year old but forgot to tell me. Yes, I fell hard and yes I am exceedingly tolerant of flaws (including wives apparently). The upside is that my work satisfaction level sky rocketed after a 3 year hiatus and I'm a much wiser woman because of it. I'm actually exceedingly grateful that it didn't work out...
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This is a very interesting thread! I hope others Terbites and SPs would chime in on their experiences.
I, for one, am afraid to fall head over heels for a SP. Not exactly sure what the reason behind it is, and not looking to find out either. It may be indirectly related to my past crushes/gfs/what have you but being casual friends with any of the SPs is more than enough for me.
If the feelings ARE genuine and mutual, it makes much more harder for the SPs as they may feel the need to stop seeing the client to protect themselves. Just my two cents.
I, for one, am afraid to fall head over heels for a SP. Not exactly sure what the reason behind it is, and not looking to find out either. It may be indirectly related to my past crushes/gfs/what have you but being casual friends with any of the SPs is more than enough for me.
If the feelings ARE genuine and mutual, it makes much more harder for the SPs as they may feel the need to stop seeing the client to protect themselves. Just my two cents.
I have fallen for one. Doesn't do me any good. Hate reading reviews where she gives other guys great service and great deals. Not a winning situation. Although I accept the reality, I do not like it. Never had it happen before and hopefully never will again. Kind of screws up the whole purpose of pooning.
Are you saying that she never gave you that kind of service? Or is it just jealously playing a part in it?
I found the more SP's I see, the less likely I get hung up on one.
I wounder if that is why the SP's can shrug off the clients easier cause they see so many after so long ?
I'm to the point were I wounder if I ever get totally hook on anybody ? In fact, I hope not..that would stink to need a certain person to enjoy life.
I seen the funniest saying thou, was some young college gal posting, she said..how did it go...oh, "you don't need people who don't need you"
I wounder if that is why the SP's can shrug off the clients easier cause they see so many after so long ?
I'm to the point were I wounder if I ever get totally hook on anybody ? In fact, I hope not..that would stink to need a certain person to enjoy life.
I seen the funniest saying thou, was some young college gal posting, she said..how did it go...oh, "you don't need people who don't need you"
I good hook once--well likely more then once but this one gal I really liked but then she changed-maybe got burnout ? Not sure but she knew I really-really liked her and figured I keep on seeing her. Well I ticked her off--yeah i talk too much I guess I put her down but I was just joking around cause shit nobody is perfect in my eyes--we all have our flaws, me included ! Well she decided to spilt early and heak I gotten my moneys worth with her-two full rounds but with 10-15 mins left..fine, you wanna go, bye., I understand-no biggie..but she laughed while leaving with a see you again sometime...right then I told myself last time I'm booking her-and it was..thanks bitch
There are certain SPs that I will have a certain attachment. Like I have a soft spot for them. Even if they like you, it's too awkward to chance anything more, even if you wanted to. Variety of course controls any excessive emotional attachment, but in some cases, you can 'love' an SP in a certain way where it involves compassion and respect. Not love in a romantic way though because that's not the setting.
There's always lust though, which is good.
I'm more incline to bend over backwards for some chick who isn;t so hot looking but is sweet and no fault of her own, had sad stuff happen to her. That is when it gets very hard to be cold to them. If she is some hot young gal who has lots of guys chasing after them I find its easier not to feel sorry for them.
That is my weakness now, the mid age gals who had a rash of bad luck and might be stuck working at a low paying job and she isn't really happy with her life..those are the ones now I find it hard to walk away from. I want to cheer them up, make them happy-they deserve it I feel.
Plus I been lucky enough to meet some very nice ladies in the past, they helped me out when I needed a lift..so I like to return the favor...like I posted before, what comes around, goes around.
That is my weakness now, the mid age gals who had a rash of bad luck and might be stuck working at a low paying job and she isn't really happy with her life..those are the ones now I find it hard to walk away from. I want to cheer them up, make them happy-they deserve it I feel.
Plus I been lucky enough to meet some very nice ladies in the past, they helped me out when I needed a lift..so I like to return the favor...like I posted before, what comes around, goes around.
I think human nature is such that many of us look for excuses to avoid emotional intimacy.
No-one can love me because...
-I'm too poor
-Too fat
-Too short
-Too tall
-My chin is too small
-My butt is too big
-I have mole
-I have an accent
-I only cum when someone XXXXs my XXXX.
-I'm a client of SPs, or I am an SP, or I'm in love with an SP, or I'm in love with a client.
Listen, I would think that all of us who have been hobbying for a while (or an SP) for while would have learned that sex is not a relationship. If you meet someone that rocking your world, then ask yourself if you would sacrifice your professional relationship for a chance at a personal one. If the answer is yes, then tell them you want to pay them the greatest compliment you can pay another person, and that you're into them. And then see how it goes.
Great sex is easy and common. A great relationship? The most precious thing in the world. Don't make excuses to avoid the possibility when it comes along.
Because seriously folks, life is short.
No-one can love me because...
-I'm too poor
-Too fat
-Too short
-Too tall
-My chin is too small
-My butt is too big
-I have mole
-I have an accent
-I only cum when someone XXXXs my XXXX.
-I'm a client of SPs, or I am an SP, or I'm in love with an SP, or I'm in love with a client.
Listen, I would think that all of us who have been hobbying for a while (or an SP) for while would have learned that sex is not a relationship. If you meet someone that rocking your world, then ask yourself if you would sacrifice your professional relationship for a chance at a personal one. If the answer is yes, then tell them you want to pay them the greatest compliment you can pay another person, and that you're into them. And then see how it goes.
Great sex is easy and common. A great relationship? The most precious thing in the world. Don't make excuses to avoid the possibility when it comes along.
Because seriously folks, life is short.
I really do not understand how anyone can 'love' someone they have not spent significant time with. I find it takes me maybe 100 hrs or so in different situations to even start to know someone well. 20 hrs in what can most kindly be described similar situations? How can anyone love a stranger?
It just seems silly to me.
Lust, yes. Like, yes. Love, well if you love strangers you barrely know you are asking for trouble
It just seems silly to me.
Lust, yes. Like, yes. Love, well if you love strangers you barrely know you are asking for trouble
Very well said. Sometimes you came across a SP or MPA who clicked with you so well, were so charming and knows how to put a stamp in your heart. I almost always fell for them especially with those who have sense of humour and text you everyday something like good night or good morning greetings. The Russian specialist Korean lady from Mkham Oasis was very good at that by texting you at nights how she's thinking back what we had done in the sessoin and such sometimes describing evrything in details just to get you hooked. I fell for it all the time. lol.There are certain SPs that I will have a certain attachment. Like I have a soft spot for them. Even if they like you, it's too awkward to chance anything more, even if you wanted to. Variety of course controls any excessive emotional attachment, but in some cases, you can 'love' an SP in a certain way where it involves compassion and respect. Not love in a romantic way though because that's not the setting.
There's always lust though, which is good.
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the whisper r name would be " Alona M "
I have been there when you two play...............amazing
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You d know that Loki pretty much spent hundreds of hours with not only me, but several other SPs ? When you spend over $20,000 on most girl , even if you pay the hourly rate you are in the 100 hr range already.
.That's a healthy attitude, you're lucky to have learned from this terrible experience. I hope it hasn't made you cynical towards men in general.
Sad.................
I got a suitcase full of great memories,
hmmm I got to get another storage room, the present room its getting full of suitcases !!
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