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Does it annoy you when SPs try and enjoy sex?

d_jedi

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I take it you hate getting blowjobs.
I don't understand how you can reach that conclusion based on what I wrote.
 

Celticman

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I find that I relate more seriously to posts like the one that started the thread when the member posts the occasional somewhat current review. The post is positioned as experience, but without a meaningful background of reviews.
 

FatOne

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If an SP enjoys herself, I don't mind. But at the rates I am paying I am not willing to go out of the way to ensure that happens. They are not with me because they think I am super cool guy, but as part of a financial transaction. I can accept that, they should be willing to accept that I am not going to go out of my way to get them off.

As crass as it sounds, I see it more like masturbation with another person instead of my hand. Except my hand loves me, the SP, if I get toleration and resigned acceptance, I am doing well.
 

spraggamuffin

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This is news to me though not impossible.

Most are looking to do the minimum for the largest remuneration.

Some purposely do things they know will upset you and for you to leave.

Others can't wait to rip you off and be on to the next sucker.

Many are condescending of guys paying for sex while others do their best to simply tolerate you.

Though women are not as drained as men after orgasming, most don't want you to get them there as they'll lose intensity for subsequent clients.

Good find and definitely a gem/one in a million you seem to have found.

Or maybe she has feelings for you.
 

loveisblind

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Obviously it is an SPs job to make the experience fun and for that everyone expects a certain enthusiasm and a positive, energetic approach, and it's great if SP enjoy that. I think many do.

But you know in the real world it is a lot of work, physically and emotionally, to make most women cum. They need time to get going and a lot of patience and adjustment to hit their sweet spot. Anyone who has a girlfriend or wife knows what I am talking about.

Now we maintain the comforting illusion that SPs are different. They are all wild sluts who can't help themselves and just cum so much more easily, multiple times a day, and right on cue even in a 30 minute session. I am sure some of the ladies will chime in. Not with everyone, they will say, but with the right guy (i.e., you) it can happen, they will say. Sure, sure. Bet that is sometimes even true.

Well recently I had what I would call a true girlfriend experience. She spent the entire session trying to cum, the same way women always do: trying to control the angles , position, speed, giving me a lot of instruction and clearly focused on it.

I was vaguely flattered but mostly annoyed. It went on far too long and felt like work. I only do that for women I am in a relationship with. An SP is to me more like 3D interactive porn. I don't expect or want that much reality!
so you rather an sp service you and not cum

damn sps always wanting to get off with a client :rolleyes:
 

Celticman

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Most are looking to do the minimum for the largest remuneration.
Some purposely do things they know will upset you and for you to leave.
Others can't wait to rip you off and be on to the next sucker.
Many are condescending of guys paying for sex while others do their best to simply tolerate you.
Though women are not as drained as men after orgasming, most don't want you to get them there as they'll lose intensity for subsequent clients.
You might need to start seeing some different ladies. I cannot begin to relate to this. I have seen two dozen ladies in the last 4/5 months and I might have felt some of what you posted in one instance only. A number of the ladies have been happy to chat after the session and the hour that I booked. A couple of them joined me for a meal afterwards. Now of course they were not booked, but I have found that many of the ladies in this business have big hearts and a good sense of humour. And I am a long way from having a Betty Boop outlook on life. Dare we ask how you present and handle yourself to elicit such behaviour?
 

GPIDEAL

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Yes !

For many of us, making a woman cum isn't work but part of the whole exciting experience.
I get off on women that are genuinely turned on, ESPECIALLY IF I MAKE HER SQUIRT OR GIVE HER AN QUIVERING ORGASM.
 

Barca

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You might need to start seeing some different ladies. I cannot begin to relate to this. I have seen two dozen ladies in the last 4/5 months and I might have felt some of what you posted in one instance only. A number of the ladies have been happy to chat after the session and the hour that I booked. A couple of them joined me for a meal afterwards. Now of course they were not booked, but I have found that many of the ladies in this business have big hearts and a good sense of humour. And I am a long way from having a Betty Boop outlook on life. Dare we ask how you present and handle yourself to elicit such behaviour?
Damn...you're having some fun. :Eek:

So jealous.
 

Celticman

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Damn...you're having some fun. :Eek:

So jealous.
Ah, but I owe it to the the guys on here who hobby and share their experiences, as well reach out with helpful PMs. My research has found terrific ladies who have wowed me in and out of bed.

I did stray from the trusted path today as you can see in a thread that I have just started in the Durham forum. A little like snatching defeat from the jaws of victory :(
 

fuji

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so you rather an sp service you and not cum
They usually pretend to cum and that is a fine by me. I know what it actually takes to make a woman cum from sex with civilians and I know whether I am doing that or not.

With an SP no matter what I do they always seem to have mind blowing orgasms, and I appreciate that. Just like I enjoy chatting with the strippers who tell me how glad they are I came in, cuz all the other guys are so boring.

Like I said, I view it as a sort of real life porn, it's a paid fantasy, I don't take it too seriously, and have a lot of fun.
 

Celticman

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don't believe everything you read.
Says the man who does not hobby, and posts an endless stream of implausible self absorbed stories about himself. You are your own best example of "don't believe everything you read". Probably has something to do with your previous bannings. Do some research and you will find my reviews. Nearly all of the ladies that I mentioned are on Terb and are blue advertisers who know me.
 

dondada

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in an elevator...going up to ??
I've known a few SPs who have been willing to give detailed directions, though none went as far as fuji seems to be describing. But like a lot of others in this thread, I thought that made the session better. Since people have been asking who does this, Ciara @ DM gave me the most instruction that I can recall, and Sebelle @ TGF and the indy Riley Grace were also memorable for not being shy about what they liked.
Sebelle is an amazing sexual anomaly...when i saw her...she opens the doors...stretches out her hand...guides me in and then twirls me around for a "size up"...compliments me on the look and I was floored...she had on 6 inch heels, stockings, garterbelt, matching lingerie and beautifully done make up...Sebelle then walks me to the bathroom and says..."freshen up and make it quick"....YES MA'AM...

Sebelle's appetite for mutual pleasure...was a pleasure to be witness to...in her presence...you are hers...and she treats you well...loved when she just lifted me up and dropped me in the middle of the bed...hell yeah...you do your thang!
 

simon482

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Says the man who does not hobby, and posts an endless stream of implausible self absorbed stories about himself. You are your own best example of "don't believe everything you read". Probably has something to do with your previous bannings. Do some research and you will find my reviews. Nearly all of the ladies that I mentioned are on Terb and are blue advertisers who know me.
so is the fact i don't pay for sex a character flaw ? also i have not been banned this year except one time which was a misunderstanding. i could go write fake reviews as well easy enough. since when is paying for sex a mandatory to talk about everything but paying for sex. you are a sad little white knight that is afraid of his own shadow and runs to the principal every time someone says something you don't like. sad little man, very very sad little man.
 

milehigh

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If I'm with a woman, and there's any kind of chemistry, we're both going to have a great time.
 

Belleville69

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Doesn't annoy me at all, as long as it goes both ways of course. But then again, I always look for a bit of a connection during a session, and usually book 2 hrs. Guess it all depends on what your looking for. Man I really need to get to Toronto again, I would be happy either way right now!:(
 

train

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Seeing any woman who is into it and pursuing her orgasm turns me on, so yeah of course it's okay with me.
 
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