Does it annoy you when SPs try and enjoy sex?

[fuji]

Short of screwing a dead corpse or causing her to lose her spot reading a book while you pump - it is a rather one dimensional experience that you are after.

Nonsense, a good SP brings a level of positive energy, fun, and enthusiasm to the table that has only vaguely to do with her own pleasure. The best SPs enjoy making other people feel good in every way.

It is a job, the job is to provide a great experience for the customer, and in my experience a lot of women really enjoy doing that job. Where by enjoy I mean they like being attractive to men and get satisfaction from making others happy.

Her own pleasure is secondary to the job, but a real pro will detect if you are the Don Juan type and leave you believing that you were a fantastic lover.

Whether you really were or not is beside the point.

 

[lanaorg]

I don't really care as long she has a smile on the face and make me happy

 

[demien2k5]

P.S. I'm no super stud even though I've been called a stud he he. I think I can be more of a 'studley' when I'm on my game.

It's a fine line between 'stud' and 'dud' GPI. Trust me, I've been told many times that I fall on the wrong side of the line by gorgeous yet disappointed women LOL! Woe is me....LMAO!

 

[babemagnet]

It's a fine line between 'stud' and 'dud' GPI. Trust me, I've been told many times that I fall on the wrong side of the line by gorgeous yet disappointed women LOL! Woe is me....LMAO!

and you're paying them to tell you that?.......

 

[demien2k5]

and you're paying them to tell you that?.......

Yes. Yes I do. Sometimes I pay them to tell me I look like Brad Pitt's hairdresser. Other times, I want to hear I look like Sofia Vergara's prettier older sister. Most time we just settle on them moaning Oooo, Ahhhhh, More Pleaaaaase, Check Pleaaase Waiter, and OK Dud, Get The Fuck Out. Works every time, always exciting.

Actually I was joking, but what the hell, right? This is Terb - nothing is serious, nothing is sacred. Fred - this should be your new Tag Line. You're Welcome! *wink*

 

[Klute]

I think that most would not care if a SP is trying to enjoy herself as that can add to the enjoyment of a session. It is simply that a client may not wish to pay a SP to enjoy herself at his expense while making him feel inadequate. Some like instructions and some resent being told what to do. To each their own.

Klute

 

[homerjsimpson]

Re the original point of this thread. My wife is exactly how Fuji describes the encounter. And she's the love of my life, so I don't mind acquiescing to her needs. It's cool and all.

But it's one of the reasons why I hobby. Sometimes I just want to do it for me.

 

[CALLMEBOND]

It is far more fun when the sp who in my case is my regular girl gets off, there is nothing as sexy as a woman enjoying herself wrapped around you. The kind of experience where it is fake gets old really fast and you just want to leave because there is no connection, it is more the companionship than just counting shots anyway unless your really selfish. And I find when there is a connection and I focus on getting my partner off they are normally trying to do the same to me so it is mutually beneficial.
Depends on the woman of course.

 

[MILUPA]

Obviously it is an SPs job to make the experience fun and for that everyone expects a certain enthusiasm and a positive, energetic approach, and it's great if SP enjoy that. I think many do.

But you know in the real world it is a lot of work, physically and emotionally, to make most women cum. They need time to get going and a lot of patience and adjustment to hit their sweet spot. Anyone who has a girlfriend or wife knows what I am talking about.

Now we maintain the comforting illusion that SPs are different. They are all wild sluts who can't help themselves and just cum so much more easily, multiple times a day, and right on cue even in a 30 minute session. I am sure some of the ladies will chime in. Not with everyone, they will say, but with the right guy (i.e., you) it can happen, they will say. Sure, sure. Bet that is sometimes even true.

Well recently I had what I would call a true girlfriend experience. She spent the entire session trying to cum, the same way women always do: trying to control the angles , position, speed, giving me a lot of instruction and clearly focused on it.

I was vaguely flattered but mostly annoyed. It went on far too long and felt like work. I only do that for women I am in a relationship with. An SP is to me more like 3D interactive porn. I don't expect or want that much reality!

Normally it is a major turn on for me when the Mpa I am with is enjoying and getting turned on (It is a huge ego Booster too )

But Yes sometime it does become a major challenge to make a girl cum & can be annoying too I remember this girl who was one of my Favourites yrs ago , never allowed Daty but eventually I ended up eating her and she was guiding me but everything was too rough for her (I am one of the most gentle person who never gets rough) It took over her over 30 mins to come and it was just too much. I never saw her after that although she is still around and is a Beautiful girl.

 

[Celticman]

How dare they

 

[le.broke.gear]

Personally, I love it when the SP is enjoying herself. I especially love the big smile she gets after having a major O, it's simply too irresistible.

 

[GameBoy27]

Personally, I love it when the SP is enjoying herself. I especially love the big smile she gets after having a major O, it's simply too irresistible.

You're a good man l.b.g. What's wrong with everyone having fun.

I remember stopping into a SC one afternoon in Quebec south of Montreal years ago. I had a few hours to kill on a business trip before my flight back to TO. It was a tiny bar off the beaten path. There was only 3 girls and 1 customer in the place. I sat at the bar and ordered a beer. After a while a cute French Canadian girl sat down to chat me up. I really had no intention in going for a dance as I was just there to kill some time. Half an hour later I took her for a few dances. We went to the VIP. First dance was good and she asked if I wanted another. I said what the hell, I'm in no hurry.

Well didn't she really start to to get into it. I could sense she was having fun and certainly wasn't worried about being surprised as the place was empty. She was wearing a leather thong but it was kinda loose. As she straddled me my fingers wandered and found her surprisingly wet pussy. That's when she really started getting turned on. I rubbed her pussy/clit until she had an intense orgasm. She was all sweaty and completely wrapped around me when she came, it was so hot.

Moral of the story, it's fun to make girls cum.

Unless of course you're fuji who can't be bothered to make someone feel good, which I suspect includes his wife.

 

[DemLatsSoClose]

Personally, I love it when the SP is enjoying herself. I especially love the big smile she gets after having a major O, it's simply too irresistible.

This. It makes it that much more worth it knowing she hasn't been faking it the entire time.