Anyone know any women who REALLY HATE PORN?
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Porn for women is just disguised a little differently...
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My theory is that it's all about power. If she was the only sexual influence in his life, then she'd has exclusive power over his sex life.
But porn totally demolishes that, and instead she now has to live up to the standards of porn, which are very high indeed.
But porn totally demolishes that, and instead she now has to live up to the standards of porn, which are very high indeed.
I was kinda innocent at one time.
I lost my virginity late. Less than two years later I was working in a massage parlor and I was busy. (Who knows why cuz I was clueless )
I'm telling this bc it makes me laugh now....
My ex (who I was with for 7 years.) Had a stack of dirty magazines on his toilet. I hated them. A gay friend of mine used to give me sex advice when I was really really naive. (every girl benefits from their gay friends' advice - bc they understand both perspectives.... ) He put porn in perspective for me when he said (exact quote lol)
"Jenn he doesn't wanna fall in love with them or fantasize about being with them. He just wants to cum on their faces."
It surprisingly helped me 'get' porn. Women need more than visuals... teenaged boys just need the the lingerie Sears ads. Teenaged girls swoon over New Kids on the Block or Justin Bieber because we thought/ think they are sweet and would care for us. It doesn't become sexual for us until later. Even then it's not about how our fantasy men look naked.... We didn't grow up checking out their physical attributes... we grew up wanting emotion and romance.
. It's hard to get it when you don't think the same way..... I didn't really get it till I started understanding what I do.... men and women are different. Even after years in my profession, it's hard to "get it". I remember going to look for a a sexy flick to watch with that ex back then ... a good night was instore for him till we went into a few sex stores ... after popping into a few adult movie stores, I was repulsed by the movies showcasing 29 cumshots on their covers and grandma porn, alien porn (ew ) lol... I get so turned-off by the crassness of it all.
A few years later when we were in the thick of a bad breakup... I realized he had popped a porn flick in after I left his place after a fight the night prior. I cut up his entire collection of dirty movies.( like I found the stash he hid from me) it was bad... you would all have hated me for what I did.... It's probably the most psycho thing I've ever done. But I didn't get certain things about men at that time. Maybe I felt threatened or jealous. It's hard to get how men can get turned on by an a random chick's moans when I was so devestated that getting off was the last thing on my mind ... we are different.
Porn does nadda for me... I don't hate it but would only search it out to make a man happy. We aren't turned-on by in your face stuff. We need emotion and a storyline at least lol... we need ambience.... I can't get turned-on by things that I don't think would feel good for me.
Porn has taught a lotta guys bad sex-ed.... I'd rather read a book and let my mind work....
I don't hate it but I don't like it at all...
I lost my virginity late. Less than two years later I was working in a massage parlor and I was busy. (Who knows why cuz I was clueless )
I'm telling this bc it makes me laugh now....
My ex (who I was with for 7 years.) Had a stack of dirty magazines on his toilet. I hated them. A gay friend of mine used to give me sex advice when I was really really naive. (every girl benefits from their gay friends' advice - bc they understand both perspectives.... ) He put porn in perspective for me when he said (exact quote lol)
"Jenn he doesn't wanna fall in love with them or fantasize about being with them. He just wants to cum on their faces."
It surprisingly helped me 'get' porn. Women need more than visuals... teenaged boys just need the the lingerie Sears ads. Teenaged girls swoon over New Kids on the Block or Justin Bieber because we thought/ think they are sweet and would care for us. It doesn't become sexual for us until later. Even then it's not about how our fantasy men look naked.... We didn't grow up checking out their physical attributes... we grew up wanting emotion and romance.
. It's hard to get it when you don't think the same way..... I didn't really get it till I started understanding what I do.... men and women are different. Even after years in my profession, it's hard to "get it". I remember going to look for a a sexy flick to watch with that ex back then ... a good night was instore for him till we went into a few sex stores ... after popping into a few adult movie stores, I was repulsed by the movies showcasing 29 cumshots on their covers and grandma porn, alien porn (ew ) lol... I get so turned-off by the crassness of it all.
A few years later when we were in the thick of a bad breakup... I realized he had popped a porn flick in after I left his place after a fight the night prior. I cut up his entire collection of dirty movies.( like I found the stash he hid from me) it was bad... you would all have hated me for what I did.... It's probably the most psycho thing I've ever done. But I didn't get certain things about men at that time. Maybe I felt threatened or jealous. It's hard to get how men can get turned on by an a random chick's moans when I was so devestated that getting off was the last thing on my mind ... we are different.
Porn does nadda for me... I don't hate it but would only search it out to make a man happy. We aren't turned-on by in your face stuff. We need emotion and a storyline at least lol... we need ambience.... I can't get turned-on by things that I don't think would feel good for me.
Porn has taught a lotta guys bad sex-ed.... I'd rather read a book and let my mind work....
I don't hate it but I don't like it at all...
Porn does "madame" for you? What does that mean? I've never heard that expression before.
I'm ambivalent when it comes to porn.......I just find it boring. It's all the same stuff. Fake looking women with huge fake breasts sucking a guy's huge cock for waaaayyyy too long.........( I know it doesn't last THAT long......lol).
A lot seems to focus on Greek (well, it did when I was subjected to it last). Ok, so he's doing her ass now............NEXT!
Sorry guys, but I'm a typical female in that way..........I need a PLOT, a story, etc. I'm a woman......we need our MINDS to be stimulated.........not just our nether regions. That is the ultimate difference between men and women and that will probably never change......and that is just the way it is.
I have to admit though..........when I first discovered porn, my husband and I would rent it together and watch it, and have great sex. The next day when he went to work, I'd put it on and fast forward to the girl-on-girl sessions and have some "private time".
I'm ambivalent when it comes to porn.......I just find it boring. It's all the same stuff. Fake looking women with huge fake breasts sucking a guy's huge cock for waaaayyyy too long.........( I know it doesn't last THAT long......lol).
A lot seems to focus on Greek (well, it did when I was subjected to it last). Ok, so he's doing her ass now............NEXT!
Sorry guys, but I'm a typical female in that way..........I need a PLOT, a story, etc. I'm a woman......we need our MINDS to be stimulated.........not just our nether regions. That is the ultimate difference between men and women and that will probably never change......and that is just the way it is.
I have to admit though..........when I first discovered porn, my husband and I would rent it together and watch it, and have great sex. The next day when he went to work, I'd put it on and fast forward to the girl-on-girl sessions and have some "private time".
A MAN who's not in the mood?? I've never met one of those before. I'll be darned, you really DO learn something new every day!When I'm not in the mood my wife turns on some porn to get me going so she can jump my bone
There is a lot of strange porn and it is getting stranger I think. But having said that, I guess there is a broad spectrum of anything you want to see.
Personally, it doesn't interest me a whole lot, I would rather be with a real person.
I did however enjoy looking at Playboy, thought the women were gorgeous. Would rather look at a gorgeous woman, even if fully clothed than someone who is not so hot, doing whatever, on video.
Personally, it doesn't interest me a whole lot, I would rather be with a real person.
I did however enjoy looking at Playboy, thought the women were gorgeous. Would rather look at a gorgeous woman, even if fully clothed than someone who is not so hot, doing whatever, on video.
Good grief, that's Andrea Dworkin???yes this woman
It's. All. So. Clear. To. Me. Now.
I know it's an old joke, but I'm not joking when I say that I read Playboy for the articles.
To be honest, I think porn is made for men, and so is this MP/SP industry. I really haven't heard any girls that I know that enjoy watching porn. Does any MP/SP have female clients?
I used to watch a good amount of porn, but to be honest the only places they have left to go...i have no desire to......some of the stuff out there now is this side of snuff.i know it's fantasy but it's gone to extremes....not every girl wants cum on her face EVERYTIME.Not every girl LOVES eating ass.Not EVERY mother wants to have a 3some with her daughte etc etc.....In the last two years i've watched probably the least amount I have in 25 years.
Gay porn....
Seriously however, I hear what you're saying. After a while, you begin to feel like a jaded gynocologist.
A huge amount of porn out there is incredibly lame LAME LAME. For example, the shit they show on TMN after 11 p.m.
Or (won't get into details) but one time I had to go for a sperm count. They set you up in this jerk off room that was obviously designed by women. There was this orange vinyl padded chair, someone's idea of erotic art, paper cloths you could put over the seat of the chair if you desired so your ass didn't have to touch the vinyl of the spank chair where the last guy's ass was sitting. In there they had somebody's idea of 3 or 4 porn mags and a TV screen with and Apple hard drive. So I go in there (which was humiliating enough having to check in and go through this entire procedure), then go into the spank room. There was about 10 movies on the hard drive and each was more lame than the one before it. It was basically the shit you see on TMN with a cum shot thrown in after about 30 minutes of sad fucking. (None of this gets me off.) Let alone sitting at a right angle in this idiotic orange vinyl chair.
I couldn't do it, could not accomplish the deed.
Or (won't get into details) but one time I had to go for a sperm count. They set you up in this jerk off room that was obviously designed by women. There was this orange vinyl padded chair, someone's idea of erotic art, paper cloths you could put over the seat of the chair if you desired so your ass didn't have to touch the vinyl of the spank chair where the last guy's ass was sitting. In there they had somebody's idea of 3 or 4 porn mags and a TV screen with and Apple hard drive. So I go in there (which was humiliating enough having to check in and go through this entire procedure), then go into the spank room. There was about 10 movies on the hard drive and each was more lame than the one before it. It was basically the shit you see on TMN with a cum shot thrown in after about 30 minutes of sad fucking. (None of this gets me off.) Let alone sitting at a right angle in this idiotic orange vinyl chair.
I couldn't do it, could not accomplish the deed.
It all depends on the person. My ex Korean mpa GF loves porn and she has a collection of Jamie Jameson's videos. She is some what of a nymph, has lots of gay friends, loves to put on a porn video while making out, loves fantasizing about them, especially about jamie Jameson and making porn videos with me once in a while. The next K girl after my ex GF was a complete different story. She hates porns and see them as gross and disgusting but wouldn't mind watching X rated movies with story lines and told me it turns her on better than porns. I guess it all depends on how they were raised while they were young. It was so funny making love to her on our first time cuz she was so shy doing with me and had a pillow covered on her face.
Ron's in better shape than she was, and how many people can you say that about....
