Keep in mind that the purpose of most porn is to get the viewer to consume more porn.
If they made a porn movie that had a good plot, very attractive actors and actresses, lots of hot foreplay and even hotter sex, a lot of people would buy it, and they would watch it more than once, instead of acquiring new porn, and the business model for the porn industry would fall apart. Porn is, essentially, junk food for the libido. It tastes 'ok', but it leaves you hungry for something better.
I would rather look at porn photos than watch a porn video, and only if the participants are very attractive. In particular, I really liked many of the hardcore pictorials that they had in
Penthouse a few years ago, especially when they were photographed by
Suze Randall. When you hear some of the actresses speak in a video, it often kills the fantasy.
As for women who hate porn, add my oldest sister to that list. She even considers my
BeautyMarks font to be porn. Fortunately, most women are more open minded than that; most of the positive feedback I've had from the font has been from women. (click the
violet text for a link to the font).