Perhaps I'm just jaded from marrying the wrong girl but I really would not reccommend it, especially for guys. My wife will be my last. If and more likely when this marriage finally ends, I will never remarry.
Wives or S.O.s - - How Long Does it Take for Sex to Fizzle?
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No Sir. I was always loyal. I have caught her MORE than once.
YES I have since found terB..and see a lady maybe once a month.....explore a little kink.
But she did not REFUSE me because I was cheating.
and really... Am I cheating?
YES I have since found terB..and see a lady maybe once a month.....explore a little kink.
But she did not REFUSE me because I was cheating.
and really... Am I cheating?
I have discussed that with wife....but sex is eliminated as well as sleeping together.
I guess that's why old couples get twin beds with a night table in between.
I guess that's why old couples get twin beds with a night table in between.
awhile back with my ex...we both tryin hard to make things work...i got the "i'm too tired" / "no in the mood" treatments also...it was only a matter time until i got tired of shooting on a wall. told her if i'm going to shoot it better be movin and breathin'...well...things...didn't work out. but i feel so much better now.
Thanks!
Sometimes things just don't work out and there's no amount of discussion that will revive the spark that once was. You just have to move on.
The kind of man that can a woman happy and contented has several ways of doing it. And as long as he does not cheat on me, I am very confident of at least a few decades. Being happy for a few decades does not seem that bad a deal Is it possible to not have sex or not have the type of sex you want and have a good marriage/relationship? I say yes.
I think it's comforting to compare notes but what works for one couple may not work for the other..... like the fuck bunnies with 2 kids.
I think it's comforting to compare notes but what works for one couple may not work for the other..... like the fuck bunnies with 2 kids.
What i don't understand is these wives who cut their husbands off and then are shocked to find out he's been having sex elsewhere! This is so ridiculous and unrealistic. Maybe all these older wives need a little hormone therapy. But if a healthy younger woman isn't interested in sex then there's definitely something wrong with her...........whatever it is.
LOL! Why do you think I've been hobbying as a single guy over the last 15 years? I've prepared & conditioned myself for "settlement" by enjoying all the women I want outside of marriage because my expectation of marriage (with children) is not bliss, but rather sacrifice. You think I will care whether my wife cuts off sex after the honeymoon? She'll be glad to know that I'd probably be satisfied with a nice release over her photos or while she sleeps, but what she will probably not know is that I can have all the "Total Recall" moments I want with the memories of hobbying. How's that for cheating! Of course, if she's a bitch and tries to pull a fast one, I'll have no problem considering a divorce...
BTW - all I need is one big load for the knock-up, especially if she's a Catholic virgin. If it's our first and last "sex" together, such is life! But I assure you she'll be begging for my dick until eternity after I'm through with her.
well i can hold on to that fizzle for as long until i'm done with my sandwich...
Ya.It's always best to play on the insecurities of others
Have you tried telling her how you feel and that you are still interested in her sexually? I would try doing things to make her feel desired.
Tell her that you want her to dress sexy - garters, heels, stockings, lace bra, etc. etc. before you fuck her brains out. Call her or msg her with sexy little notes. Tell her to send you a pic of her shaved pussy. At the end of the day or week, you're gonna do her good.
