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Is anyone else noticing a trend here? Even on a site like this where Escorts and Clients mingle, chat and discuss life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And even though the majority of the people here are educated, intelligent and literate, there is still the conditioned response to Escorting as being a shameful, degrading, demeaning and despised choice for supporting oneself and/or ones family?
Do you think this will change if and when Prostitution is legalized? Or will it still be the taboo career choice of women assumed to have no self-esteem and no other options?
Any chance that at some point Escorting will just be another job?
 

Moviefan-2

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Is anyone else noticing a trend here? Even on a site like this where Escorts and Clients mingle, chat and discuss life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. And even though the majority of the people here are educated, intelligent and literate, there is still the conditioned response to Escorting as being a shameful, degrading, demeaning and despised choice for supporting oneself and/or ones family?
Do you think this will change if and when Prostitution is legalized? Or will it still be the taboo career choice of women assumed to have no self-esteem and no other options?
Any chance that at some point Escorting will just be another job?
If prostitution were legal, I think it would become similar to stripping. I don't think it would ever have full acceptance in polite society but it would probably be more accepted.

Actually, attitudes are already changing. Think of cases where high-profile people get caught with women in the sex trade. It used to be a career killer but not anymore. Eliot Spitzer survived his scandal (and the main reason people wanted him taken down had nothing to do with his extra-curricular activities) and then there's Charlie Sheen.

And let's not forget the news story last year about Jack Layton in the rub and tug. His poll numbers continued to climb after that story broke.
 

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I noticed how the media tried to make it seem as if Charlie Sheen hiring Porn Star SPs was like the most horrible thing in the world. Most people couldn't careless, the girls were hot. So what?
 

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frankcastle

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Wow 12 pages and still going.

Mrs' Loki's story is an interesting one I suppose but not typical of my experiences.

I've met a fair number of girls who are party girls.

I've met a few single moms. I think most keep it a secret as they feel it spoils the mood.

I've met a few students but many of them get derailed. Only knew of one girl who did finish school. Mind you most I lose track of.

I've met one girl who wanted a career in the arts. I was so happy when I saw some of her work and knew that she made it.

I've met girls who do it because they make ends meet and can't find a better paying job.

Some say it but I think it's rare for women to get into this for the pure love of sex. Probably as rarre as the Pretty Woman scenario.

Funny thing is that none of these reasons has much to do with whether or not they like their clients.

The like/dislike is just a by product of their situation. Some who have good experiences or outlooks or prospects view it differently than those who have bad experiences, bad outlook or no prospects in life.

Some grow to like aspects of the job others grow to hate it.

But at the end of the day isn't this not too far off from most of us? We get a job for a number of reasons. The lucky ones get a job that they love and the rest takes care of itself. But many get a job out of necessity. In the end these people depending on their experiences may love or hate their job and the things that go with it.

I won't argue that sitting in a cubicle is probably easier than fucking hte next stranger that walks in the door. That aspect is greatly different. As there are probably few terbies with more difficult jobs in that regard.


I guess I took the long way to just say.......the love/hate of clients is no different than how most of us feel about aspects of our jobs. And it's hilarious that someone who basically hit the lottery started this thread.
 

mrsCALoki

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If you had debts with relatives, friends, or your aunt, then they love you and would not want you to become an escort, have sex with random men you don't know, in order to pay them back. They would say, 'it's okay, don't worry about it'. If their money helped dig you out of a credit hole, then you could eventually pay them at some point in the future when you are able to. I can't imagine, a relative or friend, that loaned you some money, would want that money back if it meant you having to do this to pay them back and I'd feel very, very low if I accepted that money for repayent of a loan.
I borrowed from everyone trying to get through my last year in class. I had a dream when I was 15 of escaping my life and being a Doctor. My father was extremely upset that I did not want to get into the family business. But I hated it, and did not want it as part of my life. I ran away to live with my aunt and go to school in US. My aunt and friends needed the money but loaned all they could to try and see me through my last year. But in a MacJob I could never repay them. I needed money to repay them. I needed more money to finish school to earn enough to repay them.


I think University degrees, particularly undergradute ones are overrated.
You have to finish your classes and pay your tuition to pass your boards. A few years after that you make well into the six figures. Without that last year you are not employable except in a MacJob. If I make it, 3 years later I can pay off everyone. But I could not find any more money and I was still short to pay my tuition.

You did not want the family business or being a waitress? That would have been your lot in life if you didn't do this.
I saw what being in the family business did to my parents. Not for me. I would rather be anything else. I could not stay in the US on a student Visa is I was not a student. I am not even certain how I could get back home to work as a waitress.


If a University degree GUARANTEED a better job, then it would make sence to get one.
Some do. Like being a Doctor. A liberal arts degree in under water basket weaving does not. lol

They are other professions you could get into that is lower start-up cost. Financial services, Real-Estate, etc... don't require allot of money and you could make money that way as well.
They all cost money. I had bursaries that covered almost all my costs till last year.

It is not a good idea to become an escort if you do not like having sex
There is a secret I will get blasted for revealing, although a few escorts do enjoy sex, a surprising number do not. It is a job. Letting clients know they are not invariable as great in bed as we get paid to tell them is considered bad for business. So a girl who admits this to the clients gets censured.

Have tried buying a dildo or sex toy and masturbating and using your imagination to generate an orgasm? Would masturbation be better than the real thing perhaps?
I do not like masturbation. It is a lonely empty thing.

I am happy now. I just find it difficult to deal with the reaction of some people to our being together. I guess I am also worried he may think I was or worse am a gold digger.
 

mrsCALoki

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I guess I took the long way to just say.......the love/hate of clients is no different than how most of us feel about aspects of our jobs. And it's hilarious that someone who basically hit the lottery started this thread.
I agree. I do not understand how HH hit the lottery. Do you believe he actually has a GF with the behaviours he claims?
 

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I agree. I do not understand how HH hit the lottery. Do you believe he actually has a GF with the behaviours he claims?
Strange comment from someone whose own story and how truthful it might be is the subject of debate. If anything I would think you would extend him the benefit of the doubt.
 

mrsCALoki

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I guess I took the long way to just say.......the love/hate of clients is no different than how most of us feel about aspects of our jobs. And it's hilarious that someone who basically hit the lottery started this thread.
Strange comment from someone whose own story and how truthful it might be is the subject of debate. If anything I would think you would extend him the benefit of the doubt.
HH was not the OP. HH was in chat trying to pick up someone in PM. We were laughing at him in PM and commented in Chat that a lot of clients were creepy and easy to dislike. He changed that to "ALL" and "ALL" and was the OP for this thread. No big deal. Frankcastle did not seem to know who the OP was and teased him :)
 

frankcastle

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I agree. I do not understand how HH hit the lottery. Do you believe he actually has a GF with the behaviours he claims?
Sorry got the threads mixed up that comment was meant for you. You are the lotto winner.

Thanks to your degree you got a husband just not in the way people normally expect.
 

mrsCALoki

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Sorry got the threads mixed up that comment was meant for you. You are the lotto winner.

Thanks to your degree you got a husband just not in the way people normally expect.

:) yes and I am very lucky, and a little insecure and scared I will lose him and everything. But I did win the lottery.
 

Moviefan-2

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HH was not the OP. HH was in chat trying to pick up someone in PM. We were laughing at him in PM and commented in Chat that a lot of clients were creepy and easy to dislike. He changed that to "ALL" and "ALL" and was the OP for this thread. No big deal. Frankcastle did not seem to know who the OP was and teased him :)
At the risk of sounding like a WK, the quote above is consistent with Mrs. Loki's initial post in this thread. Without knowing what happened in Chat, I'd be prepared to give her the benefit of the doubt.

Besides, some of what she has written is probably true. Such as this comment from the first page of the thread:

Men who have swollen heads, and try to intimidate and insist they are wonderful and nice guys seldom are. Men who write reviews geared to impress other men are just not something we women respond to. We might want the free advertising, but repelled by most of the men who do it.
For what it's worth, a lot of guys also don't care for the "Penthouse Forum" reviews that look like they were written to impress others.
 

kenpachi

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:) yes and I am very lucky, and a little insecure and scared I will lose him and everything. But I did win the lottery.
Who cares if you loose everything. You are only 25 years old, so you have plenty of time to make money by whoring yourself. And what if prostitution become illegal? I guess you might need social assistance like all the "losers"

I'm sorry for my harsh comments mrsCALoki, please be mindful that not men who are on "welfare" are "losers". Hope you have a great life.
 

mrsCALoki

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Who cares if you loose everything. You are only 25 years old, so you have plenty of time to make money by whoring yourself. And what if prostitution become illegal? I guess you might need social assistance like all the "losers"

I'm sorry for my harsh comments mrsCALoki, please be mindful that not men who are on "welfare" are "losers". Hope you have a great life.
I am sorry if I offended you, I am sorry if you are on welfare, I am sorry I am prejudiced and do not find men on welfare appealing.


My father drove into me that if you had to ask for charity you are a failure. I know that in Canada it is not seen that way. I see it that way if I look in a mirror. A beggar in many countries is seen as something worse than in whore. We all have cultural biases. I am sorry if you ran full speed into mine.
 

kenpachi

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I am sorry if I offended you, I am sorry if you are on welfare, I am sorry I am prejudiced and do not find men on welfare appealing.
No wonder your previous BF liked you when you did not talk or your mouth was full. When you go out and meet Mr. Loki's friends/business associates. Does he stuff your mouth with something to keep you quite? Or does he like getting humilated by your comments?
 
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