When SPs call you "hon" or "honey"

d_jedi

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I don't mind it, but prefer to be called by my name. It can be very hot when an attractive woman's screaming your name :)
OTOH, sometimes when I'm called "hon" or "sweetie" or whatnot.. I wonder in the back of my mind.. do you even remember my name? And that's not a good feeling..
 

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I don't mind it, but prefer to be called by my name. It can be very hot when an attractive woman's screaming your name :)
OTOH, sometimes when I'm called "hon" or "sweetie" or whatnot.. I wonder in the back of my mind.. do you even remember my name? And that's not a good feeling..
I don't use my real name when seeing SPs or MPAs, and it would be weird if they call me with whatever name I told them. I don't know ... maybe I feel guilty for lying? Or just awkward to be called by a fake name?

I have no problems with hun or anything like that, depends on who calls me. One of my favs called me "babe" in a very endearing way (she had a cute girly voice) and I loved it.
 

69Shooter

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Hun/Hon is the worst! I hate that word more than ladies hate the word "moist". There's a girl at my work who calls everybody hun (including her boss and her boss' boss, and the janitor). It drives me insane everytime I hear it.

I also don't like being called sweetie. Reminds me of old people calling little kids by that nickname.
I'm okay with "hon" but I draw the line at "hun". BTW, in what context do you ever use the word "moist" with an SP, "Wow, you really have a moist pussy"?
 

VirginJohn

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Wow. This thread is a riot. How can anyone obsess on a woman calling them "hun", or worry that they are demasculated (emasculated is the correct term) if an escort calls them that -- when in fact, it could be argued it's emasculating you are paying her in the first place. A masculine alpha male would have women paying to see him.

I cranked called a bunch of escorts back in 2003, and basically said "hi, how are you?". If I were searching for an escort based on her voice, the friendliest one that said "honey, or sweety" would probably be the first choice. The one that said **** you and hung up the phone that advertised 'greek' service would make me think she just got greeked and is taking it out on the next caller on the phone. This thread is crazy.

"Honey" and the value of the encounter goes down the tubes, lol! "She said "honey", now I feel ripped off, lol! seriously.
 

VirginJohn

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It's fake and annoying.
What isn't fake about a pretext where a woman is charging money? Isn't that what someone into this stuff would be paying for? Does "hon", or "honey", give it away that the interaction is fake, or breaks the spell? Is that a trigger word? A safe word?

If I saw an old man just leave, evidence of traffic, or a woman say she had two army guys just do her, then wouldn't that me more of a spell breaker than a lady saying "honey"?
 

Brandon123

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Hon is the new Hi. It just makes the gf experience a little more personal even thou it's not real. Enjoy it, I know i do. :)
 

SammSin

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The worse is dating a SP or MPA or having them as friends and having them call you hun

I tell them to leave that SP MPA shop talk for work
 

krayjee

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Nothing is as bad as a Korean SP called you Uncle. Thank God she called me after the session. LOL.
 

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What isn't fake about a pretext where a woman is charging money? Isn't that what someone into this stuff would be paying for? Does "hon", or "honey", give it away that the interaction is fake, or breaks the spell? Is that a trigger word? A safe word?

If I saw an old man just leave, evidence of traffic, or a woman say she had two army guys just do her, then wouldn't that me more of a spell breaker than a lady saying "honey"?
There's no pretense in paying a woman for sex. It is what it is. Hun/Honey/Baby/etc is a term of endearment. Call me John and leave it at that.
 

VirginJohn

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There's no pretense in paying a woman for sex. It is what it is. Hun/Honey/Baby/etc is a term of endearment. Call me John and leave it at that.
Well, there is different strokes for different folks. Guess, a GFE would be something that I'd look for in terms of service and something you'd avoid. If you didn't pay for a GFE then I guess that is a problem with you.
 

Halloween Mike

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Personally im indifferent to it. I won't be offended if she call me that, but i don't "enjoy it" per say. I wouldn't call her "baby" or something like that unless we get pretty close after multiple repeats and get along well. So it kinda feel weird being called a similar thing. But again like i said i don't mind it either.

Holy poop i just realized i necroed a thread... sorry. Kinda forgot i did a search and that was THAT page that was open, didn't looked at the dates.
 

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It depends on how many times we've met, and if conversation before or after seems genuine.
Sometimes it can be nice, but when you realize she does it to everyone, even before meeting, it quickly loses value.

Same goes with "babe" or "love" or "dear".
 

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On seeking arrangement, if they call me hun, babe, love etc. from the get-go, I stop chatting because I know that they are pros.
 
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