Hello everyone,
I am new to this forum and am considering crossing over to the dark side, by I have a pretty major concern.
I have always been very faithful in all my relationships. It's as if a switch goes off, and although I may find other women attractive (and do, always), there is no question of cheating, even flirting. So I have never cheated, on anyone.
So, now that my marriage is over and having no moral dilemmas or financial problems I am considering sleeping with some willing beautiful women. However, every time I work myself up to do it I panic at the last moment. The point is this:
Will doing this irreversibly change my view of women, relationships, and fidelity?
It is important for me to be the same in any future relationship, ie a faithful, loving partner. I would like to think that getting sexual satisfaction like this while being single does not set a precedent for cheating in the future (simply put, b/c it's not cheating). However, being male I do not have a high opinion of the male mind regarding stepping back from readily available sexual gratification, once the line has been crossed.
Any opinions / experiences would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks.
I am new to this forum and am considering crossing over to the dark side, by I have a pretty major concern.
I have always been very faithful in all my relationships. It's as if a switch goes off, and although I may find other women attractive (and do, always), there is no question of cheating, even flirting. So I have never cheated, on anyone.
So, now that my marriage is over and having no moral dilemmas or financial problems I am considering sleeping with some willing beautiful women. However, every time I work myself up to do it I panic at the last moment. The point is this:
Will doing this irreversibly change my view of women, relationships, and fidelity?
It is important for me to be the same in any future relationship, ie a faithful, loving partner. I would like to think that getting sexual satisfaction like this while being single does not set a precedent for cheating in the future (simply put, b/c it's not cheating). However, being male I do not have a high opinion of the male mind regarding stepping back from readily available sexual gratification, once the line has been crossed.
Any opinions / experiences would be greatly appreciated. Many thanks.