Thats the best policyI would have thought that a client would NOT want to be seen to know an SP in private life. I always thought the idea was that you pay for NOT having to spend all your time and money on the SP.
Thats the best policyI would have thought that a client would NOT want to be seen to know an SP in private life. I always thought the idea was that you pay for NOT having to spend all your time and money on the SP.
Do you think your boss would recognise you in your flowing white robe and coors light baseball cap?I never go out in public. Just kidding! My worst fear is running into my BOSS at an SC. I think the proper protocol in that situation is we do not make eye contact and the junior member leaves the SC ASAP and erase the incident from his memory.
Don't forget the flip flops and my purse. (Damn robe has no pockets.) Hee, hee, hee.Do you think your boss would recognise you in your flowing white robe and coors light baseball cap?
My face is out there yes.. does not give anyone the right to do what he did and is still doing to me. yes i have spoken to the police. I hope he is reading this and fucking pisses offI don't want to start a lot of controversy but if discretion is so important to the OP wouldn't it make sense to not post pictures on the web with her face, or a face with a cock in it? Being stalked is a different story but having a pic with your face showing may be spotted by an acquaintance or someone with an axe to grind could easily copy that pic and post it elsewhere. Just sayin.
I woud say it used to be discreet. But when you have pictures of your face with a penis in youe hand with a caption reading something o the effect of "I suck cock better then anyone else", well, all bets are out the window on discretion. sorry.This entire industry is built upon, and depends upon discretion, from both sides, provider & client.
Maybe this will help you understand the situation more easily:
hamiltondude and Mrshamiltondude are out shopping.
Would you like it if a provider came up and started talking to you in front of your wife (repeatedly, despite being told politely to get lost) ?
Not married ?
How about you're out with your mom or dad helping them pick up some stuff, and the same situation arises.
Mom & Dad are dead?
You're out with your boss grabbing some stuff for the office party, or you're out with a niece.
Do you really want to have to explain the circumstances as to how you know this woman that seems quite familiar with you ?
Interactions between provider and client are to take place within the hour (or appointment time), and through texts/emails/phone calls, whatever works to set up the rendevous. That's it, period, end of sentence. A thank you email or communication is okay, if warranted, but again, discretion is the key !!
Dude, shes a human being!! if she cant stand the possibility of some outside publicity (Just like movie starts shouldnt be movie stars if they dont want to be approached by 'fans'), then maybe shes in the wrong business. You cant expect EVERYONE to react to seeing an SP out and about like you or i would.
and where in the hell are you seeing the picture with that as a caption???? I have never put anything like that on anyof my pics.. the penis is in my hand....not my in my mouth.. and who fucking cares where it is.. DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO HARRASS SOMEONE.. thats like saying a rape victim deserved it cuz of of what she was wearing.. some of you guys are idiotsI woud say it used to be discreet. But when you have pictures of your face with a penis in youe hand with a caption reading something o the effect of "I suck cock better then anyone else", well, all bets are out the window on discretion. sorry.
yeah, yeah I agree ladyraven!DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO HARRASS SOMEONE.. thats like saying a rape victim deserved it cuz of of what she was wearing.. some of you guys are idiots
By the way, my cock in your mouth is far better than my cock in your hand... just saying.I have never put anything like that on anyof my pics.. the penis is in my hand....not my in my mouth.. and who fucking cares where it is..
That's the sad reality of this industry.You ladies have to realize that this board and the hobby is filled with society's rejects, so don't be surprised when one of them approaches you in public.
and where in the hell are you seeing the picture with that as a caption???? I have never put anything like that on anyof my pics.. the penis is in my hand....not my in my mouth.. and who fucking cares where it is.. DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO HARRASS SOMEONE.. thats like saying a rape victim deserved it cuz of of what she was wearing.. some of you guys are idiots
Try not to be too harsh.....it has happened to me and more than once is too much. Not to derail the subject but how many threads have been started from the men about us ladies calling back at the wrong time or not being discreet enough as to not block our number when doing so.Um....
if you hate it so much. Being approached in public. You could always work a desk job. Just saying.
have you read anything I have wrote???????????????????????/ go back and read from the begining.. for fuck sakes... I did not care if he approached me.. I GAVE A SHIT BECAUSE HE WOULD NOT LEAVE ME ALONE.. HE HAS HOPEFULLY STOPPED HARASSING ME. but from last night , like around 9 till just a couple hours ago he has been harrassing me.. but i guess if I was a 25 year old blond college student who was not a SP then things would be different..Um....
if you hate it so much. Being approached in public. You could always work a desk job. Just saying.
I used to work at a grocery store as a grocery clerk and there used to be regular customers that would come in every week and harass me with non-grocery related issues - like telling me about the problems in their life and asking if i want to go out for a smoke break or asking if i want to grab a coffee. It happens at every job, dude. Even secretaries get harassed on the job or from clients/customers, or cashiers - OMG! you think part-time cashiers don't get harassed by customers while on the job or if they're spotted by guys who shop at their store? Especially if the cashier is a female and is good looking?Try not to be too harsh.....it has happened to me and more than once is too much. Not to derail the subject but how many threads have been started from the men about us ladies calling back at the wrong time or not being discreet enough as to not block our number when doing so.
yes thats the same thing for sure.. NOT!!!I used to work at a grocery store as a grocery clerk and there used to be regular customers that would come in every week and harass me with non-grocery related issues - like telling me about the problems in their life and asking if i want to go out for a smoke break or asking if i want to grab a coffee. It happens at every job, dude. Even secretaries get harassed on the job or from clients/customers, or cashiers - OMG! you think part-time cashiers don't get harassed by customers while on the job or if they're spotted by guys who shop at their store? Especially if the cashier is a female and is good looking?
It's not just because you're an SP.
Keissy's signature picture just hi-jacked your thread unintentionally!LOL yes I was even more famous when I was working at a small rona when I was 16, lots of people were talking to me at the bank or at shoppers, that wasnt a problem, but some dudes were folowing me with their car while I was walking home sometimes, that's the difference between being nice and being a stalker. I had huge privacy problem a guy did a fb about me so I know a little bit what you're living, I hope for you that he's gonna stop or that the police will stop him.