What not to do if you see a sp in public!!!!`

Insidious Von

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A client once followed an sp to a location where we were going to meet - unbeknownst to her until the last minute. When he saw the gorilla she was going to be with, he buggered off.
 

Mazinga

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I don't want to start a lot of controversy but if discretion is so important to the OP wouldn't it make sense to not post pictures on the web with her face, or a face with a cock in it? Being stalked is a different story but having a pic with your face showing may be spotted by an acquaintance or someone with an axe to grind could easily copy that pic and post it elsewhere. Just sayin.
 

T.O.tourist

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I never go out in public. Just kidding! My worst fear is running into my BOSS at an SC. I think the proper protocol in that situation is we do not make eye contact and the junior member leaves the SC ASAP and erase the incident from his memory.
Do you think your boss would recognise you in your flowing white robe and coors light baseball cap?
 

Ladyraven

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I don't want to start a lot of controversy but if discretion is so important to the OP wouldn't it make sense to not post pictures on the web with her face, or a face with a cock in it? Being stalked is a different story but having a pic with your face showing may be spotted by an acquaintance or someone with an axe to grind could easily copy that pic and post it elsewhere. Just sayin.
My face is out there yes.. does not give anyone the right to do what he did and is still doing to me. yes i have spoken to the police. I hope he is reading this and fucking pisses off
 

bammab007

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This entire industry is built upon, and depends upon discretion, from both sides, provider & client.

Maybe this will help you understand the situation more easily:

hamiltondude and Mrshamiltondude are out shopping.
Would you like it if a provider came up and started talking to you in front of your wife (repeatedly, despite being told politely to get lost) ?

Not married ?
How about you're out with your mom or dad helping them pick up some stuff, and the same situation arises.

Mom & Dad are dead?
You're out with your boss grabbing some stuff for the office party, or you're out with a niece.

Do you really want to have to explain the circumstances as to how you know this woman that seems quite familiar with you ?

Interactions between provider and client are to take place within the hour (or appointment time), and through texts/emails/phone calls, whatever works to set up the rendevous. That's it, period, end of sentence. A thank you email or communication is okay, if warranted, but again, discretion is the key !!
I woud say it used to be discreet. But when you have pictures of your face with a penis in youe hand with a caption reading something o the effect of "I suck cock better then anyone else", well, all bets are out the window on discretion. sorry.
 

Alex_Ontario

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Dude, shes a human being!! if she cant stand the possibility of some outside publicity (Just like movie starts shouldnt be movie stars if they dont want to be approached by 'fans'), then maybe shes in the wrong business. You cant expect EVERYONE to react to seeing an SP out and about like you or i would.

I bet you would change your tune pretty qucikly if you were out with Mr. hamiltondude and an SP came up and approached you. Then one could say why see SPs if you run the risk of bumping into them in public? Do you see how twisted this logic is?
 

Ladyraven

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I woud say it used to be discreet. But when you have pictures of your face with a penis in youe hand with a caption reading something o the effect of "I suck cock better then anyone else", well, all bets are out the window on discretion. sorry.
and where in the hell are you seeing the picture with that as a caption???? I have never put anything like that on anyof my pics.. the penis is in my hand....not my in my mouth.. and who fucking cares where it is.. DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO HARRASS SOMEONE.. thats like saying a rape victim deserved it cuz of of what she was wearing.. some of you guys are idiots
 

HOCKEY_GOD

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DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO HARRASS SOMEONE.. thats like saying a rape victim deserved it cuz of of what she was wearing.. some of you guys are idiots
yeah, yeah I agree ladyraven!

I have never put anything like that on anyof my pics.. the penis is in my hand....not my in my mouth.. and who fucking cares where it is..
By the way, my cock in your mouth is far better than my cock in your hand... just saying.
 

wazup

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You ladies have to realize that this board and the hobby is filled with society's rejects, so don't be surprised when one of them approaches you in public. It would make their day/week/life to get some sort of attention from you.

As for the girls approaching a john in public, they would be more likely to tear up a manhole cover and be neck deep in sewage than talk to us.
 

fun-guy

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You ladies have to realize that this board and the hobby is filled with society's rejects, so don't be surprised when one of them approaches you in public.
That's the sad reality of this industry.

btw, good thing you removed your last post bammab007, I saw it for a minute, that probably would have got you banned.
 

Terminator2000

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and where in the hell are you seeing the picture with that as a caption???? I have never put anything like that on anyof my pics.. the penis is in my hand....not my in my mouth.. and who fucking cares where it is.. DOES NOT GIVE ANYONE THE RIGHT TO HARRASS SOMEONE.. thats like saying a rape victim deserved it cuz of of what she was wearing.. some of you guys are idiots

Um....

if you hate it so much. Being approached in public. You could always work a desk job. Just saying.
 

Natalie

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Um....

if you hate it so much. Being approached in public. You could always work a desk job. Just saying.
Try not to be too harsh.....it has happened to me and more than once is too much. Not to derail the subject but how many threads have been started from the men about us ladies calling back at the wrong time or not being discreet enough as to not block our number when doing so.
 

Ladyraven

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Um....

if you hate it so much. Being approached in public. You could always work a desk job. Just saying.
have you read anything I have wrote???????????????????????/ go back and read from the begining.. for fuck sakes... I did not care if he approached me.. I GAVE A SHIT BECAUSE HE WOULD NOT LEAVE ME ALONE.. HE HAS HOPEFULLY STOPPED HARASSING ME. but from last night , like around 9 till just a couple hours ago he has been harrassing me.. but i guess if I was a 25 year old blond college student who was not a SP then things would be different..

just saying
 

Terminator2000

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Try not to be too harsh.....it has happened to me and more than once is too much. Not to derail the subject but how many threads have been started from the men about us ladies calling back at the wrong time or not being discreet enough as to not block our number when doing so.
I used to work at a grocery store as a grocery clerk and there used to be regular customers that would come in every week and harass me with non-grocery related issues - like telling me about the problems in their life and asking if i want to go out for a smoke break or asking if i want to grab a coffee. It happens at every job, dude. Even secretaries get harassed on the job or from clients/customers, or cashiers - OMG! you think part-time cashiers don't get harassed by customers while on the job or if they're spotted by guys who shop at their store? Especially if the cashier is a female and is good looking?

It's not just because you're an SP.
 

Ladyraven

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I used to work at a grocery store as a grocery clerk and there used to be regular customers that would come in every week and harass me with non-grocery related issues - like telling me about the problems in their life and asking if i want to go out for a smoke break or asking if i want to grab a coffee. It happens at every job, dude. Even secretaries get harassed on the job or from clients/customers, or cashiers - OMG! you think part-time cashiers don't get harassed by customers while on the job or if they're spotted by guys who shop at their store? Especially if the cashier is a female and is good looking?

It's not just because you're an SP.
yes thats the same thing for sure.. NOT!!!
 

HOF

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I completely agree that this guy is idiot, and I understand that you're concerned or afraid. In the real world, there are many undesirable people, who are not concerned about privacy.

In fact LR, you have stated many times in your daily advertisements that "your cock could be in the next sig pic." with a smile on your face, and you welcome your clients to photograph you too. The point is that whether you like it or not, you've become a public figure in what is supposed to be a private world. Other than allowing you to vent, I'm not sure this thread is going to benefit you; other than to put more undesirable types onto you.

You stated that you've contacted the police now after being harrassed, so let them do their job. What I still have difficulty with is you could have asked the cashier to call 911 for police. They would have been there real fast. Other than asking the cashier for that sort of support, he/she isn't going to be able to do much more.

Instead of dealing with this matter quietly and quickly, you've chosen to air the episode, and you get angry with members that aren't on your defence. You reply with constant foul language, coping strategy, but it doesn't help your case. It demonstrates that you're easily frustrated and incites others against you.

At this point, your thread has lost purpose and usefulness and you're the front-runner for the "EMM" award this month. Maybe a good time to close it before you get more frustrated?

There is no malice intended by my post. I agree the guy is an idiot, and you have to remember this village has many.
 

HOF

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LOL yes I was even more famous when I was working at a small rona when I was 16, lots of people were talking to me at the bank or at shoppers, that wasnt a problem, but some dudes were folowing me with their car while I was walking home sometimes, that's the difference between being nice and being a stalker. I had huge privacy problem a guy did a fb about me so I know a little bit what you're living, I hope for you that he's gonna stop or that the police will stop him.
Keissy's signature picture just hi-jacked your thread unintentionally!
 
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