I think we're preaching to the choir, or someone writing a piece on men who utilize call girls because the OP has vanished, has not added anything, and only signed up to post this thread.
I'm starting to smell a rat.
I'm starting to smell a rat.
James T, I was just thinking the same thing. Sammy posts a topic and has not contributed commentary to what is now a 5 page discussion. Hmmmmmmm. Hmmmmmmmm indeed.I think we're preaching to the choir, or someone writing a piece on men who utilize call girls because the OP has vanished, has not added anything, and only signed up to post this thread.
I'm starting to smell a rat.
I agree. If you are staying together for the children, you are essentially showing them the "how to" of unhealthy relationships. No matter what face the parents put on, the children are perceptive beyond belief and will smell it out for what it really is.It makes it 10 times harder if kids are involved. My own parents stayed together for many years after it was clear it wasn't working anymore, for fear of upsetting us. Kids are pretty aware of what's going on, and when my parents finally did divorce the main thing I felt was relief.
Who are you calling a jackass? Nevermind. Anyone who slings an insult like that and then proceeds to explain how his own life decisions were so much better....let's just hope those 3 or 4 women realize what a close call they had.you sir, are a jackass.
I'm afraid that I've found that in general, most women don't really care all that much what men feel. They care about how we make them feel. That's just how it is. That's what getting a dog is all about....dogs love you no matter what.Thank you....
Guys quit buying this garbage they feed you. Fact of the matter is they dont fuck you because they dont want to and they dont care about what you think or what you feel.
No, she is going to throw a cast iron frying pan, assuming you have one. First thing to get through your mind. She is not going to be interested in sex any more than she is now, if anything maybe less. Second thing is which is most important. Sex or being married.I think she would throw a kitchen utensil ... I'll let you guys know how it goes. Thanks again for all the input.
I agree with this.I'd skip the "permission" part and find sex elsewhere. It doesn't mean you need to dissolve your marriage, as it seems like most elements of your relationship are working. You don't have to be sexless, just because your wife choses too. Get it elsewhere and don't harbour any resentment toward her for being sexually incompatible.
Marriage isn't just two people sharing a bed and an address, dear.I have found personally for me, that the service I provide KEEPS marriages together rather than the gentleman having an affair with a co-worker, neighbour, fellow gym member etc.
This way...he can love his partner that he has committed to freely and not feel resentment because of something as simple as sex. Intimacy is something different.
At the very least a cuddle and a kiss has to be there or are you in a marriage or just a friendship that beats you being alone.
I doubt many wives would agree but a few might.I have found personally for me, that the service I provide KEEPS marriages together rather than the gentleman having an affair with a co-worker, neighbour, fellow gym member etc.
Good point. Seems like many of my buddies are in the same boat as me. All married about 15 - 20 years and wives think the bed is for sleeping only. God forbide if we try anything -- I don't mean grouping or anything like that but true foreplay.I'm also hearing this.... "she may be exhausted" line...
and really guys I dont buy it at all....guys in general need to stop buying this garbage thats being fed to us.
Shes tired? so what am I? Gone are the days when a guy can come home from work and put his feet up. You think your average guy could do that these days? Women nowadays wont stand for it. We have to do the same shit they do:
- Work
- Clean
- Cook
- Go to parent teacher meetings
- Take the kid to Hockey at some god forsaken hour
- Help with homework
...and if we are doing less wrk at home its only because we are doing more work at the office...but the hours put in are the same on both ends.
Any of you ever wonder how someone who is so "tired" can make time to do things she wants to do if she really wants to but she cant put aside 20-30 mins for a fun time with her husband? Nobody is asking them to run a marathon.
Guys these days are expected to drop everything they are oing to make the wife happy but they cant do that for us? and then insult the guy's intelligence by giving some lame ass excuse?
Sorry but I refuse to subscribe to that