I agree. Perhaps I'm being way to literal, but I'm not sure that's what I'm hearing SecretRendezvous and Gen saying but rather everything should be scripted out in advance.
Obviously one should talk about kissing and such things in advance, and I do.
However, I continue to find it puzzling that the statement can be made that something is for all intents a sex crime "Forcible Sexual Act" and yet the perpetrator has done this has no obligation to say no don't.
Obviously in some way we are having a Cool hand Luke “Failure to communicate and are talking past each other.
As I've already said the rules at SecretRendezvous are spelled out and clients should heed them.
I know that I am saying you NEVER do anything with a women without prior premission, meaning that you need to ask her first. It is not her job to list off all her don't to you. Escpaically with things that are not vanilla stlye sex. So anal, rimming, GS, CIM, fisting, bondage, etc. That is for All women, paid or not.
As far as the term "forcible sexual act" Tell me what you would call it? A guy shoots of his load down your throat without permission.... are you not "force" to take the load? Sure you can spit it back out, you are not being forced to swallow it, but you are being forced to take it in your mouth. It is a sexual act right, so please tell me what you would call it?
In my opinion it is a sexual assualt and a crime to do ANYTHING to a partner that they do not give premission for. As Gen said, it would be the same thing if I took a dildo and just shoved it up your ass without your prior consent.
I think you have more of an issue with this then I. Bottom line, anything that is done sexual with prior consent is an assualt and criminal. Disagree with my statement, or my calling it a "forcible sexual act" if you like. It is my opinion, and as I said, it will not change.