Do all Sp's feel this way?

[Simon Templar]

If I am listening to what most SPs say and they are honest...

If a girl sees maybe 25 guys a week, 15 are regs 10 are new. She really enjoys 4-5, 15 or so are just ok, have some redeeming features and about 4-5 a week are a real problem that makes them almost gag, and question once again how long they can do this. Then it starts again.

 

[Carrie Moon]

If a girl sees maybe 25 guys a week, 15 are regs 10 are new. She really enjoys 4-5, 15 or so are just ok, have some redeeming features and about 4-5 a week are a real problem that makes them almost gag, and question once again how long they can do this. Then it starts again.

wow.. the # of times I've seen a client that might make me want to gag is pretty rare.. the girls who are gagging 4-5 times a week are not being selective enough. That will make a girl hate her job...

The nice thing about being an independant and your own boss is you don't have to see anyone who will make you want to throw up.. period.

 

[Hiding]

Not all SPs feel this way, and she may not have felt that way before leaving the business.

I've been in the industry for awhile now (since I was 19, I'm 21 now) and I've learnt:

1. I don't have to get off to be enjoying myself and I'm unlikely to get off from DATY in a session - it feels good and its a nice warmup, but its rare its the main event
2. I loveloveLOVE 'servicing', NSA sex, and having a dirty little secret.
3. I have a wicked network of women(/Andy ) behind me who share a similar secret and passion for their work and lives.

I'm young and I've met some of the most influential people in my life and worldview through work (demien2k5 this is definitely you!). Where else would I have met this variety of people this intimately? Dawn mentioned last week to be that she loves the vulnerable side of people one gets to see at work and its certainly true: I get a window into a side of people I would NEVER get anywhere else.

Yes, I've been to dinner off the clock, with men who are regular clients, with men who aren't regular clients, and with men I've met through TERB that I've never/would never want to see as clients. I usually run 10-15 minutes over time (Mirage has got to hate me for this) especially with someone I know, I want to know what's happening in their lives and get my update! I've fully reminded clients of their wives' birthdays and their wedding anniversaries.

I'm not stupid or uneducated (well I might be but I'm working on that), I don't do drugs, drink copious amounts of alcohol, I'm not in debt, dress like a skank and I don't have promiscuous sex outside of the industry. I'm a normal girl who likes to fuck and gets her submissive rocks off on the idea of being paid to serve someone.

The day this feels like a job and I don't want to go in I'm quitting. Its that simple, other girls are able to do it as a job and have fun but right now I couldn't go into a session viewing it as work.

 

[moresex4me]

Not all SPs feel this way, and she may not have felt that way before leaving the business.

I've been in the industry for awhile now (since I was 19, I'm 21 now) and I've learnt:

1. I don't have to get off to be enjoying myself and I'm unlikely to get off from DATY in a session - it feels good and its a nice warmup, but its rare its the main event
2. I loveloveLOVE 'servicing', NSA sex, and having a dirty little secret.
3. I have a wicked network of women(/Andy ) behind me who share a similar secret and passion for their work and lives.

I'm young and I've met some of the most influential people in my life and worldview through work (demien2k5 this is definitely you!). Where else would I have met this variety of people this intimately? Dawn mentioned last week to be that she loves the vulnerable side of people one gets to see at work and its certainly true: I get a window into a side of people I would NEVER get anywhere else.

Yes, I've been to dinner off the clock, with men who are regular clients, with men who aren't regular clients, and with men I've met through TERB that I've never/would never want to see as clients. I usually run 10-15 minutes over time (Mirage has got to hate me for this) especially with someone I know, I want to know what's happening in their lives and get my update! I've fully reminded clients of their wives' birthdays and their wedding anniversaries.

I'm not stupid or uneducated (well I might be but I'm working on that), I don't do drugs, drink copious amounts of alcohol, I'm not in debt, dress like a skank and I don't have promiscuous sex outside of the industry. I'm a normal girl who likes to fuck and gets her submissive rocks off on the idea of being paid to serve someone.

The day this feels like a job and I don't want to go in I'm quitting. Its that simple, other girls are able to do it as a job and have fun but right now I couldn't go into a session viewing it as work.

And some wonder why we love this lady? Nice post, Becky, thanks for being you!

 

[amber-jade]

wow.. the # of times I've seen a client that might make me gag is pretty rare.. the girls who are gagging 4-5 times a week are not being selective enough. That will make a girl hate her job...

rare gift of no gag reflex ?

 

[moresex4me]

rare gift of no gag reflex ?

You've met Becky?

 

[smylee52]

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I can only recall one SP putting a number on it but she put it at around 15 . She enjoyed on average 1 in 15 dates with men . The rest were just work .

Now she's been in the business for at least 6 years and prefers girls so it's easy to see why she feels that way . Even though she confided in me because she said she enjoyed my company I didn't have the heart to tell her that her lack of enthusiasm was very evident when I first met her .

 

[Carrie Moon]

rare gift of no gag reflex ?

I wish!

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I can only recall one SP putting a number on it but she put it at around 15 . She enjoyed on average 1 in 15 dates with men. The rest were just work .

Now she's been in the business for at least 6 years and prefers girls so it's easy to see why she feels that way. Even though she confided in me because she said she enjoyed my company I didn't have the heart to tell her that her lack of enthusiasm was very evident when I first met her.

Women who are gay still can work as escorts of course. Some women choose the line of work simply for the cash and obviously in that case they will likely hate their jobs.. esp. if they dislike sex or men in general.

 

[D-Fens]

I agree with with Dupree (hey that rhymes) It can't be just about the money. It's so easy to get caught up with just making as much money as possible to the point they are seeing 6-7 guys a day. These girls need to have other things in their lives Have limits as to how many guys you will see in a day. Take days off. (Do Sps really need to be working 7 days a week don't they earn enough that they don't have to? i don't get it) Too many guys and you suffer from burn out become bitter and jaded to the point where you probably cant stand the sight of a penis let alone putting one in your mouth (like this girl the op is refering to)

Sps can't let this job take over their lives they just can't.

 

[Twinklegirl]

wow.. the # of times I've seen a client that might make me want to gag is pretty rare.. the girls who are gagging 4-5 times a week are not being selective enough. That will make a girl hate her job...

The nice thing about being an independant and your own boss is you don't have to see anyone who will make you want to throw up.. period.

agreed, Carrie (nice pic btw).

I loved being an SP. I loved the clients I saw, they were all respectful, fun and clean. The money is good, but as for paying for education....obviously she didn't learn how to spell, so not sure what courses she took. She can't even spell "resources" correctly, and it's in the title of her new Mexican job.

 

[tool_man05]

wow.. the # of times I've seen a client that might make me want to gag is pretty rare.. the girls who are gagging 4-5 times a week are not being selective enough. That will make a girl hate her job...

The nice thing about being an independant and your own boss is you don't have to see anyone who will make you want to throw up.. period.

Hi Carrie, Just wondering how you know if the client is not someone you want to see? Do you wait until they arrive and turn them away? Just curious.
tool_man

 

[Carrie Moon]

Hi Carrie, Just wondering how you know if the client is not someone you want to see? Do you wait until they arrive and turn them away? Just curious.
tool_man

No.. I should have clarified that. What I meant was I don't have to see them a 2nd time. Whereas when I worked a 'square job' I didn't have the luxury of not dealing with clients that our company represented.

But..I can usually tell simply by the phone conversation whether I'll get along with someone or not. It's why I insist on a client calling me before booking and rarely accept bookings solely by email. Any guy can be unappealing to the eye.. but his demeanor will be what makes me not want to see him.

I've told many a caller to simply 'have a nice day' and then hang up on them when they give me the willies over the phone.

Now.. if a guy is someone I don't want to see a 2nd time I make sure to put them in my phone with something to remind me of who they are and then make myself unavailable when they call. If they persist in trying to see me I will tell them exactly why I don't want to see them again. In some cases it's actually worked out to where they change whatever behaviour turned me off and we work it out so that we're both happy and agree to revisit.

There have been occasions where someone of course gets thru my radar that I would rather not have seen and then I provide the best customer service that I can. I simply suck it up because I have worked a lot of other jobs over the years that gave me less monetary satisfaction and more headaches.