chances are no matter who you marry she ain't going to be no virgin,and no cherry will be waiting for you to pop,i think you marry the one you have the most in common with and want to spend the rest of your life with regardless of there past if you know at least theres no secrets,how many guys are married to former sp's and don't even know it,that must be a little stressfull for the women worried if he ever found out would it change things. As to can she keep working as an sp after... NO FUCKING WAY,thats like telling your wife its ok to keep banging her ex boyfriends, ain't gonna happen. but there are people ok with that and if they can handle it then there is not a problem who are we to judge.