X CLub - Swinger Club

[BenDover]

I think that the point of the conversation here is to let others know what Xclub is like and how fun it is to be with other like minded couples... Yes, sometimes a guy may bring a paid companion or two... In reality who cares. People are there to have a good time together and the last thing on someones mind is debating the legality of the choice some guys date. Big deal. Just go to have fun. If you hit it off with another couple and get together there's a reason for that. Most people are a good judge of character and have the instinct to quickly figure out if the others are a couple or a paid companion. We go there to "see and be seen", dance, have a few drinks with some fun people and then have a great time playing in the back room. I don't go there to judge others... What a way to kill the atmosphere and spoil a fun night out

 

[colt]

Never been to one of these clubs, and I am thinking about setting up a date with an SP to do so, maybe this weekend too?

. I'm not really looking to have crazy orgy sex. I'm actually mildly repressed (except when I let loose with my hobby now and again.) I do want to see what's behind the curtain and spend a bit of time with a great SP in a sexually-charged environment (as opposed to the hotel room with me afterwards!)

Might just go to a strip club instead (and for those who are paying attention, this is the third semi-related thread.)

Thoughts / comments / flames?

Thanks!

If you are not dead set on having sex with women other than your date maybe Oasis is a better fit for you? Not a "swingers club" - more of an adult entertainment venue where couples are welcomed/encouraged to engage in sexual activities on the premises. I have never been there but it has been spoken positively on here and there has never been any mention of any kind of stigma related to bringing an SP.

 

[fmahovalich]

And who can comment on which night is better at M4 on the Lakeshore....Fri or Sat.

 

[katcalla]

I don't go there to judge others... What a way to kill the atmosphere and spoil a fun night out

:thumb::thumb:

It's not really that.

Having been to swing clubs many times, Swingers want to swing with other proper couples, married or otherewise attached. They don't want to swing with a guy who brought a hooker. They see it as a) he's a loser that he doesn't have his own woman and b) he's looking to have sex with multiple women and he's not offering up anything in exchange. He's just paid for a call girl and now he wants to bang everyone else's wife. In short, he's viewed as a single male and single males are a dime a dozen in the swinger's world.

If a guy on this board figures he wants to go to a swinger's club, he'd do well to present the SP as his GF or wife and keep the real story a secret.

The other thing you have to remember is that the swinging clubs can get a little cliquish. There is a regular crowd. If a 3 male comes in with a 9 female for the first time and no-one has seen them before or knows their story, people are suspicious that she's a working girl.

In general, from what I've seen, SPs are not welcome in swing clubs.

There's a good point in your comment about single males being dime a dozen in sex clubs. But I think there's a big difference between them and the gentlemen who actually go through hiring a lady to accompany him.
I also don't think swingers community looks down on a guy who is not bringing his wife but a paid companion instead-swingers of all people should know how hard it is to find a partner who would be into swinging like you. But perhaps this topic/poll is better suited for fetlife.

Oh, and as far as I am concerned, if I agree to visit a swingers club with my client, I assume I am up for grabs if he's too busy with another lady.

Occasionally I am amazed how discriminating some folks in fetish community can be.

 

[JMrandomstuff]

Hi Kat - if you are on FetLife, I'd love to friend you there. If OK, PM me.... Thanks.

 

[littleone12]

I like X-Club. I've only been as a couple back a few years ago. I've heard friends complain that it can be cliquey, but I found people to be pretty friendly. The night I went it was a range from 30s-50s. I found people to be more attractive overall than some of the other clubs I had been to.

 

[PeterJman]

I had a great time there.. many stuck up people and very strict with single men.. but that is a good thing i think, because some guys get out of hand.

Hot couples, and very willing, just be polite!

 

[Petzel]

I thought Wicked allowed single males on Friday but not on Saturday, or was that Sweet Cheeks (aka Happy Hedonist)?

Yes, Happy Hedonist for a few years now but it used to be called something else.

 

[wigglee]

How would you disguise yourself to look like a couple?

I'd simply go in with an inflatable doll by my side...."Don't mind her, she needs a couple drinks to loosen up."

 

[gtamassage]

I know SPs are welcome at x club on foot fetish night . Why no other time? Don't ask how I know.