La Villa Spa

X CLub - Swinger Club

BenDover

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sounds HOT! I squirt too but can't by myself. Need a special man that knows how to do it. Haven't squirted in nearly a year:( I need rough play for that and a lot of guys just don't know how to finger my G-spot right. When they do, I soak everything:D
We had an amazing time when we went last. She finally begged me to fuck her hard. At this point you really have no idea who is watching and listening to you... maybe that's part of the whole experience. My wife was soaked, the bed was soaked under her and she was squirting again with every thrust. It was soaking my legs and squirting past my knees. It had never been that much before. we turned over and then realized how many people were watching us. The hottest part was when my wife said loudly that she wanted to feel me cum in her ass. She was so wet that there was no need for lube, and we went wild pushing back into me as hard as she could... we loved that we were being watched and were exhausted when we finished.
 

Ridgeman08

50 Shades of AJ
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plus I love eating pussy:thumb:
sounds HOT! I squirt too but can't by myself. Need a special man that knows how to do it. Haven't squirted in nearly a year:( I need rough play for that and a lot of guys just don't know how to finger my G-spot right. When they do, I soak everything:D
OK... anyone else just pop WOOD! :eyebrows:
 

BenDover

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Feb 23, 2004
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Going to xclub this Saturday. It's been too long since we've gone and it's an amazing way to let loose. Should be a good hot wet night as usual.
 

JMrandomstuff

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Sep 9, 2012
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Just west of GTA
Never been to one of these clubs, and I am thinking about setting up a date with an SP to do so, maybe this weekend too?

Anybody who's been there, or done that, advice please? I'm mid 40s, "mid-looking," and I don't have washboard abs. Don't have a beer keg sized gut either, but maybe one of those Heineken mini-kegs at worst. I'm not really looking to have crazy orgy sex. I'm actually mildly repressed (except when I let loose with my hobby now and again.) I do want to see what's behind the curtain and spend a bit of time with a great SP in a sexually-charged environment (as opposed to the hotel room with me afterwards!)

Might just go to a strip club instead (and for those who are paying attention, this is the third semi-related thread.)

Thoughts / comments / flames?

Thanks!
 

james t kirk

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If you do go, make sure you go on a Saturday night when only couples are allowed.
 

ivantheperv

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Please don't bring an escort (SP) to the swingers club. It is disrespectful to us swingers, it endangers the club and everyone in there. Since escorts are (unfortunately) still illegal, bringing one to a legal on premise swingers club creates legal issues for the club owners and patrons. The club owners fought long and expensive battle with the supreme court to legalize on premise swingers clubs in Ontario. Single incident of club being associated with prostitution can set us back many years. Find a partner and enjoy this great lifestyle. Happy swinging.

B&Y
 

TROOPS

Banned
Jul 1, 2012
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In my bum
Please don't bring an escort (SP) to the swingers club. It is disrespectful to us swingers, it endangers the club and everyone in there. Since escorts are (unfortunately) still illegal, bringing one to a legal on premise swingers club creates legal issues for the club owners and patrons. The club owners fought long and expensive battle with the supreme court to legalize on premise swingers clubs in Ontario. Single incident of club being associated with prostitution can set us back many years. Find a partner and enjoy this great lifestyle. Happy swinging.




B&Y

Too bad for you, many escorts do frequent these place on their down time, but you wouldn't even know they were escorts, so whats the big deal.

Many swingers also take ads out and sp on the side too.
 

katcalla

Independent Escort
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www.katcalla.com
Please don't bring an escort (SP) to the swingers club. It is disrespectful to us swingers, it endangers the club and everyone in there. Since escorts are (unfortunately) still illegal, bringing one to a legal on premise swingers club creates legal issues for the club owners and patrons. The club owners fought long and expensive battle with the supreme court to legalize on premise swingers clubs in Ontario. Single incident of club being associated with prostitution can set us back many years. Find a partner and enjoy this great lifestyle. Happy swinging.
I would like to know how exactly does my visit to the swingers club with a client is disrespectful to swingers and how would it endanger the club and everyone in there? How is my visit to the club different with the client as opposed to on my own or with my partner? What if I am a swinger in my personal life?
Also, escorting is absolutely legal. No offence, but you seem to have no idea what you are talking about.
 

TROOPS

Banned
Jul 1, 2012
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I would like to know how exactly does my visit to the swingers club with a client is disrespectful to swingers and how would it endanger the club and everyone in there? How is my visit to the club different with the client as opposed to on my own or with my partner? What if I am a swinger in my personal life?
Also, escorting is absolutely legal. No offence, but you seem to have no idea what you are talking about.
*golf clap*
 

Hangman

The Ideal Terbite
Aug 6, 2003
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Please don't bring an escort (SP) to the swingers club. It is disrespectful to us swingers, it endangers the club and everyone in there. Since escorts are (unfortunately) still illegal, bringing one to a legal on premise swingers club creates legal issues for the club owners and patrons. The club owners fought long and expensive battle with the supreme court to legalize on premise swingers clubs in Ontario. Single incident of club being associated with prostitution can set us back many years. Find a partner and enjoy this great lifestyle. Happy swinging.

B&Y
Cool story, bro. Why not help fight the criminalization of sex work by supporting the current legal battles SP's are taking to the courts, instead of spouting this ridiculous nonsense? That's just hypocritical.

"Escorts are illegal?" I didn't know human beings could be outlawed.
 

Hangman

The Ideal Terbite
Aug 6, 2003
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+1000

well said :) I was actually in a discussion with a club's owner about this. No money exchanges hands on the premises. You wouldn't have any idea who we were or what we were doing... just like everyone else there.
Oh, they'd know who we were if we went, Jessica. We'd be "that amazingly hot couple having Olympics-level sex all over the damn place."
 

JMrandomstuff

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Sep 9, 2012
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Just west of GTA
I would like to know how exactly does my visit to the swingers club with a client is disrespectful to swingers and how would it endanger the club and everyone in there? How is my visit to the club different with the client as opposed to on my own or with my partner? What if I am a swinger in my personal life?
Also, escorting is absolutely legal. No offence, but you seem to have no idea what you are talking about.
I was going to concede the point, but I am glad Kat spoke up.

I was going to paraphrase Groucho Marx and say I wouldn't want to belong to a swingers club that would have me for a member. But I REALLY wouldn't want to belong to one that wouldn't have Kat. Honestly, the club's loss.
 

oldjones

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He must be thinking escorts would go there & solicit ..... which they do not. They come with a partner.
Even if they did solicit, I can't see how that would be illegal in any way unless the private club was operating as a public place. But it's for the owners to make rules about what activity is or isn't permitted.

If couples did often make commercial arrangements about attendance and on-premises sex that would likely contravene the bawdyhouse provisions of the Code, as I understand them, but I can't see how the police would detect such deals and enforce the Code, if the deals were done off-site. Nor would that be easier for the owners. Just try to imagine how the Crown might prove one prostitution deal, or even several, made elsewhere that the owners were ignorant of would make the operators more culpable than say a hotel owner.

It's very sensible and commendable of the operators—for profit business-people?—to want the atmosphere to be club-like and non-commercial, but that shouldn't be read to arbitrarily exclude anyone on the basis of what they do (or what someone imagines they do) elsewhere.

Surely if escorts are too dangerous to be allowed, then so are pooners, no matter who they're with. "Just because she's your wife doesn't mean you didn't promise her something to come here and have sex. Sorry"
 

james t kirk

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Even if they did solicit, I can't see how that would be illegal in any way unless the private club was operating as a public place. But it's for the owners to make rules about what activity is or isn't permitted.

If couples did often make commercial arrangements about attendance and on-premises sex that would likely contravene the bawdyhouse provisions of the Code, as I understand them, but I can't see how the police would detect such deals and enforce the Code, if the deals were done off-site. Nor would that be easier for the owners. Just try to imagine how the Crown might prove one prostitution deal, or even several, made elsewhere that the owners were ignorant of would make the operators more culpable than say a hotel owner.

It's very sensible and commendable of the operators—for profit business-people?—to want the atmosphere to be club-like and non-commercial, but that shouldn't be read to arbitrarily exclude anyone on the basis of what they do (or what someone imagines they do) elsewhere.

Surely if escorts are too dangerous to be allowed, then so are pooners, no matter who they're with. "Just because she's your wife doesn't mean you didn't promise her something to come here and have sex. Sorry"
It's not really that.

Having been to swing clubs many times, Swingers want to swing with other proper couples, married or otherewise attached. They don't want to swing with a guy who brought a hooker. They see it as a) he's a loser that he doesn't have his own woman and b) he's looking to have sex with multiple women and he's not offering up anything in exchange. He's just paid for a call girl and now he wants to bang everyone else's wife. In short, he's viewed as a single male and single males are a dime a dozen in the swinger's world.

If a guy on this board figures he wants to go to a swinger's club, he'd do well to present the SP as his GF or wife and keep the real story a secret.

The other thing you have to remember is that the swinging clubs can get a little cliquish. There is a regular crowd. If a 3 male comes in with a 9 female for the first time and no-one has seen them before or knows their story, people are suspicious that she's a working girl.

In general, from what I've seen, SPs are not welcome in swing clubs.
 

NHFL

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Please don't bring an escort (SP) to the swingers club. It is disrespectful to us swingers, it endangers the club and everyone in there. Since escorts are (unfortunately) still illegal, bringing one to a legal on premise swingers club creates legal issues for the club owners and patrons. The club owners fought long and expensive battle with the supreme court to legalize on premise swingers clubs in Ontario. Single incident of club being associated with prostitution can set us back many years. Find a partner and enjoy this great lifestyle. Happy swinging.

B&Y
I have to say that I can kind of see the point of the bolded statement. I would suspect that one of the generic arguments against swingers clubs by mundane and dim-witted politicians and the NIMBY suburban set would be that they promote prostitution. Therefore, I could see the reason why clubs would want to take extra special care that there is NO association with prostitution at the club.

Of course, we on Terb know that money hasn't exchanged hands at the club itself (thus not a bawdy house), and therefore the act of prostitution is legal in the club - but try explaining that to politicians and NIMBY's.
 

Ridgeman08

50 Shades of AJ
Nov 28, 2008
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They even have specific terms for such arrangements... The "paid" date is called a "ticket".
 

NHFL

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Even if they did solicit, I can't see how that would be illegal in any way unless the private club was operating as a public place. But it's for the owners to make rules about what activity is or isn't permitted.

If couples did often make commercial arrangements about attendance and on-premises sex that would likely contravene the bawdyhouse provisions of the Code, as I understand them, but I can't see how the police would detect such deals and enforce the Code, if the deals were done off-site. Nor would that be easier for the owners. Just try to imagine how the Crown might prove one prostitution deal, or even several, made elsewhere that the owners were ignorant of would make the operators more culpable than say a hotel owner.

It's very sensible and commendable of the operators—for profit business-people?—to want the atmosphere to be club-like and non-commercial, but that shouldn't be read to arbitrarily exclude anyone on the basis of what they do (or what someone imagines they do) elsewhere.

Surely if escorts are too dangerous to be allowed, then so are pooners, no matter who they're with. "Just because she's your wife doesn't mean you didn't promise her something to come here and have sex. Sorry"
I don't disagree with anything you've said, but try EFFECTIVELY explaining that to a moralistic zoning board under pressure from NIMBY's and you can see why the poster made his point. I don't think he's discriminating, condescending or rude - I just think he's trying to avoid the ire of others who may not understand, or care to understand, the way that we do.
 
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