Would you go to swing club?
- Thread starter Zoot Allures
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I forget what podcast thing I was watching, but the girls were calling really big cocks as “vacation dicks”…. Great every now and then, but not one they want to take on a regular basis.
Makes sense to me. I wonder what the reverse male/female equivalent would be?
I've been to Oasis and M4 in the past 2 months, because my female partner was interested. As a non-pretty human being who isn't female, I got absolutely no attention.
M4, during an event where single men were welcome, the ratio of men to women was about 3:1. The entry price was $40 for couples, $80 for single men, and free for single ladies.
As for Oasis, we attended when single men were not welcomed, only couples and females. I'm not positive, but I'm guessing that female presenting trans folk were also welcome. As a male, I got the impression that I wasn't really supposed to be there unless I was with my female companion. I messaged someone who seemed to represent Oasis on another message board, but they never replied. The price was $15 for women, and $100 for men.
I'm not in a rush to return to either venue.
M4, during an event where single men were welcome, the ratio of men to women was about 3:1. The entry price was $40 for couples, $80 for single men, and free for single ladies.
As for Oasis, we attended when single men were not welcomed, only couples and females. I'm not positive, but I'm guessing that female presenting trans folk were also welcome. As a male, I got the impression that I wasn't really supposed to be there unless I was with my female companion. I messaged someone who seemed to represent Oasis on another message board, but they never replied. The price was $15 for women, and $100 for men.
I'm not in a rush to return to either venue.
Someone representing Oasis finally replied. At Couple/Ladies Only events, male partners are expected to be within sight of their female partners. So, if the lady wants to play with someone else, her guy is supposed to hold her panties and watch or get the fuck out. Definitely not returning, but I doubt that Oasis would call that a "loss".
I've been once. It was with a client a few years back . I forget the name of the spot but it was somewhere near etobicoke / mississauga.
I remember when we got there i was SUPER nervous. There was alot of people there and some were naked and some werent. I remember we couldnt get a private room & we were running out of time so we had to do the deed out in the open. It started off pretty good but then people started surrounding us. Men & women. The men kept touching me during the deed & im not going to lie it was really uncomfortable. The guy I was with kept having to shoo their hands away from me.
I remember at one point the guy I was with asked me if i was playing with his balls while i was on top of him . I laughed and said " sweetie my hands are beside your head ". The look of shock & disgust on his face when he realized it was the men playing with him was priceless. It got to the point where a security guard had to step in and tell the spectators to step back and give us some space. Needless to say we finished quickly and got out of there.
Would I go back ? Maybe .
I remember when we got there i was SUPER nervous. There was alot of people there and some were naked and some werent. I remember we couldnt get a private room & we were running out of time so we had to do the deed out in the open. It started off pretty good but then people started surrounding us. Men & women. The men kept touching me during the deed & im not going to lie it was really uncomfortable. The guy I was with kept having to shoo their hands away from me.
I remember at one point the guy I was with asked me if i was playing with his balls while i was on top of him . I laughed and said " sweetie my hands are beside your head ". The look of shock & disgust on his face when he realized it was the men playing with him was priceless. It got to the point where a security guard had to step in and tell the spectators to step back and give us some space. Needless to say we finished quickly and got out of there.
Would I go back ? Maybe .
I would go if I had a like-minded wing lady to join me until then I will hold out for my dream of Cap d'Agde France as the place I want to go and swing.
I understand why men like going to swing clubs because there are opportunities of having free sex, who doesn't want it, I want it too. What I don't understand is why some women like going to such places, you know women are just looked by men as a piece of meat there, I somehow think this is demeaning to women, kind of like women deliberately let men take advantage of them.
So women can't like sex with different men only men can? People, be they men, or women, have different sex drives and motivations for engaging in sex. I would love to have a unicorn companion who was game to swing, hobby or open relationship with no petty jealousies life would be more fun with less drama around sex.
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Been to Oasis a number of times with ladies and always had an enjoyable time. Done several orgies as well.
Went to M4 twice (at their old location), and neither I nor my date were that impressed with the place (having also been previously to Oasis in comparison).
My travel companion and I went to Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee last month. It wasn't a busy night, but the facilities there are great and we had a really good time.
As with everything, it all depends on your comfort level. No judgement passed either way.
Went to M4 twice (at their old location), and neither I nor my date were that impressed with the place (having also been previously to Oasis in comparison).
My travel companion and I went to Secrets Hideaway in Kissimmee last month. It wasn't a busy night, but the facilities there are great and we had a really good time.
As with everything, it all depends on your comfort level. No judgement passed either way.
I been to a couple of times in oasis back when they had student night Mondays 
My wife and I went 5 or 6 times to M4 pre Covid. I'm thinking between 2016 and 2018. We did not do any swapping but did enjoy ourselves quite a bit. The first time was sensory overload watching other people fuck right beside you but it was kinda hot. We've discussed going back but likley will not. Bit of the been there done that situation.
They clean the spaces regularly, so there is no smell. And you have wipes, cleaning solutions and condoms everywhere too.
