Would you go to swing club?
- Thread starter Zoot Allures
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Why? Just so I can get rejected there also... or be latched onto by some soggoth
Just because one if a fugly chud doesn't mean one doesn't have the standards to match.
Just because one if a fugly chud doesn't mean one doesn't have the standards to match.
Yeah I've heard as much. Life in not a porno movie.
The funny thing is that while something like a swingers' club or an orgy is a little out of my comfort zone, one of my biggest fantasies is to have sex on a balcony and if it won't get the lady in trouble with her landlord or condo board, put on a show for the neighbors.
I think it would help me to see her in a sexual encounter where someone else desires her.
I'm free Tuesdays and Fridays
Lolz. Thanks for the offer, but I think I'd hire a male SP pro first and watch. Over the past year in my Stag Fantasy research, I've checked out so many dicks that my Internet history must be confusing the fuck out of Microsoft. I just have to figure out how to get the wife interested... I get the rejection of a random dude, but it sort of baffles me why she'd say no to professional. Fuck, life is short! (She is/was bi, and I've had no luck getting her interested in a female SP either..)I think it would help me to see her in a sexual encounter where someone else desires her.
I'm free Tuesdays and Fridays
I was the guest of the owner and wife of one of the Toronto swing clubs a few years ago. It was quite nice to spend most of the time in the pool as the owners introduced me to friends. I was known to them due to my website libchrist.com, and I have been a featured speaker at the old Lifestyles convention and filled a convention room a few years on the topic "Swinging Christians, not a Biblical Conflict." Interview tapes and presentations were available from the Lifestyles Organization for many years.
How this started was interesting. The minister with theological degrees who co-founded with me decided to call to perhaps be an exhibitor at the largest swing convention in the US. It turns out the person on the phone was the daughter of the founder, and shortly after, we received a call from the head organizer wanting us to be a speaker instead, and we did for a few years.
But I was never a participant in the usual swinging things since I am more into intimacy and sensuality than the usual sex stuff. Just recreational sex of swinging was never my interest. The "recreation" aspect was to protect from jealousy which was/is a HUGE issue with many men, even some in our group that were more friends with benefits vs the typical swinger.
Also hosted a Liberated Christians Couples group in my home with about 200 members. Ironically "what to do for single men" issue is what got me interested in sexwork since unless exhibitionists, most couples and swing clubs do not want single men. When we were featured on the front page of Phoenix New Times (the backpage folks), we had zillions of emails from single men, that we could not help other than suggest escorts etc.
How this started was interesting. The minister with theological degrees who co-founded with me decided to call to perhaps be an exhibitor at the largest swing convention in the US. It turns out the person on the phone was the daughter of the founder, and shortly after, we received a call from the head organizer wanting us to be a speaker instead, and we did for a few years.
But I was never a participant in the usual swinging things since I am more into intimacy and sensuality than the usual sex stuff. Just recreational sex of swinging was never my interest. The "recreation" aspect was to protect from jealousy which was/is a HUGE issue with many men, even some in our group that were more friends with benefits vs the typical swinger.
Also hosted a Liberated Christians Couples group in my home with about 200 members. Ironically "what to do for single men" issue is what got me interested in sexwork since unless exhibitionists, most couples and swing clubs do not want single men. When we were featured on the front page of Phoenix New Times (the backpage folks), we had zillions of emails from single men, that we could not help other than suggest escorts etc.
The only thing wrong in the Bible about prostitution was the idolatry of the page prostitutes in the temples, worshiping the fertility gods, etc. It had nothing to do with sex. "Great men of the bible" had many wives and concubines and "women too numerous to number."
Likewise, the abortion issue was not an issue until about 20 years ago when the conservatives made up the issue. Show me one passage in the Bible that is against abortion that is not simply foreknowledge! Abortion was common in biblical times with very crude means. According to biblical Christianity, there is no soul till birth - or, in the Jewish view, a number of days later. A fetus is not a baby but a soulless fetus - the soul is what is unique and personhood. Many conservative Christians, Thieme etc, before all the uproar, wrote books about this.
