If it's dating for companionship and sex alone, then yes. Now, if the girl wants to quit the biz and find something else to do to be with the guy (at least while they're dating) that's a different story. The subject of this thread will change to "Would you date a former SP?"
would you date an SP?
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Why not ? What big difference would it be than booking her for an hour or so ? Unless you are embarrassed to be seen in public with her or are afraid you might get carried away and can't stop yourself from seeing her.
I guess those who are married or have a S/O might have other reasons.
I guess those who are married or have a S/O might have other reasons.
I've never dated an SP before, however, if all the stars were in alignment, sure.
I have only been seeing one SP in the last year. I find her to be very charming, intelligent, funny and sexy (though interestingly, she's not the nastiest woman I have ever known in bed.). I've often thought about her from the point of view of what she would bring to a relationship and have come to the conclusion that she's marriage material. (I'm not saying that I'm out to marry her, I'm saying that she has what any man would look for in a wife.)
I would be completely ok with her past, that would not be an issue for me. I wouldn't even care less if we were out and she ran into an old client. There's stuff to sweat in this life and stuff not to worry about.
I have only been seeing one SP in the last year. I find her to be very charming, intelligent, funny and sexy (though interestingly, she's not the nastiest woman I have ever known in bed.). I've often thought about her from the point of view of what she would bring to a relationship and have come to the conclusion that she's marriage material. (I'm not saying that I'm out to marry her, I'm saying that she has what any man would look for in a wife.)
I would be completely ok with her past, that would not be an issue for me. I wouldn't even care less if we were out and she ran into an old client. There's stuff to sweat in this life and stuff not to worry about.
Absolutely. In fact, I have already.
SPs are just people like the rest of us. How can I judge a girl in the business when I participate in the hobby and see lots of other girls in the "real world"?
So long as she's smart, well-spoken, kind, caring, honest, genuinely has similar values, interests and outlooks as myself, takes care of herself and presents well and is as open sexually in "real" life as she is in her job, then she's another potential partner.
SPs are just people like the rest of us. How can I judge a girl in the business when I participate in the hobby and see lots of other girls in the "real world"?
So long as she's smart, well-spoken, kind, caring, honest, genuinely has similar values, interests and outlooks as myself, takes care of herself and presents well and is as open sexually in "real" life as she is in her job, then she's another potential partner.
would you date an SP
I had, it was crazy, trust me, every place time we were in public places, she saw former clients!
I couldn't control her playing the room, I learned my lesson!
When the money is showered on them it not easy to give up the worlds oldest profession.
I had, it was crazy, trust me, every place time we were in public places, she saw former clients!
I couldn't control her playing the room, I learned my lesson!
When the money is showered on them it not easy to give up the worlds oldest profession.
No difference here
It's like anything else - it depends on the person.
This is something I have done and would do again if the opportunity arises.
What she does during her daytime certainly would hover over a relationship but if it is kept separate and without emotional attachement to her clients why not.
Outside her incall or outcall she is just a woman. Often doing what she can to survive given what she has to work with.
In many cases the women I have met that are working are educated, have used the "job" to further themselves and their families financially and do not play games in their personal relationships. Most have something else to rely on but use the job to get what they want and need faster at a huge personal sacrifice.
For obvious reasons a working girl tends to take better care of themselves physically and health wise and once they get used to doing that it carries on in their lives forever.
Most have developed a sense of style and and understanding of the better things in life.
A working girl with who you have a relationship and is truthful to you upfront about what she does will not lie to you about other things - she has opened herself up to you and has no reason to hold back on other things.
So yes, I am ready anytime - if I can add a couple of more friends in my life like I have now - then show me the door - I'm on my way to find her.
A little more wisdom from the Doc
It's like anything else - it depends on the person.
This is something I have done and would do again if the opportunity arises.
What she does during her daytime certainly would hover over a relationship but if it is kept separate and without emotional attachement to her clients why not.
Outside her incall or outcall she is just a woman. Often doing what she can to survive given what she has to work with.
In many cases the women I have met that are working are educated, have used the "job" to further themselves and their families financially and do not play games in their personal relationships. Most have something else to rely on but use the job to get what they want and need faster at a huge personal sacrifice.
For obvious reasons a working girl tends to take better care of themselves physically and health wise and once they get used to doing that it carries on in their lives forever.
Most have developed a sense of style and and understanding of the better things in life.
A working girl with who you have a relationship and is truthful to you upfront about what she does will not lie to you about other things - she has opened herself up to you and has no reason to hold back on other things.
So yes, I am ready anytime - if I can add a couple of more friends in my life like I have now - then show me the door - I'm on my way to find her.
A little more wisdom from the Doc
Its nice to know that its still possible for SPs to have a relationship. Although I guess its going to take a very liberal and understanding guy and some special connection to make it work.
I think some of you guys need to take a long hard look at the situation if you can say yes so easily. You girlfriend is fucking and sucking different guys everyday. Sometimes 5 plus a day, sometimes 2 at a time. Sometimes taking it in the face and sometimes in the mouth.
If you can handle it so easily then you're either living in some delusional pretty woman dream world, or you the most mature man alive.
If you can handle it so easily then you're either living in some delusional pretty woman dream world, or you the most mature man alive.
I opted for the 1st option, but then again who am I kidding.
Initially it may be ok, but with time I'm sure that I would get all possessive and emotional and then the shit will hit the fan. And that is what will happen in the real world what with all it's open-mindedness & all.
Initially it may be ok, but with time I'm sure that I would get all possessive and emotional and then the shit will hit the fan. And that is what will happen in the real world what with all it's open-mindedness & all.
Hmmm this is so interesting!
This thread in so interesting in many levels, simply because if I meet the right person who strikes me as my possible soulmate in any situation or place, I would consider quitting the business ASAP. But my concerns are: how serious would he take me for if he knew I was an SP, or met him at the scene, or if he find out I was former SP? Will he continue to see other SPs while I date him if he was a client? How would I feel if he was SP and table has turned? (There are some male SPs out there, believe me) Will he take advantage of me financially simply because of my possible income? There are so many things I can think of.
Many questions runs through my head and I would have to say I am just as borderline with this question as majority of people are.
In the meantime, I will just stay single and contribute to making you happy
This thread in so interesting in many levels, simply because if I meet the right person who strikes me as my possible soulmate in any situation or place, I would consider quitting the business ASAP. But my concerns are: how serious would he take me for if he knew I was an SP, or met him at the scene, or if he find out I was former SP? Will he continue to see other SPs while I date him if he was a client? How would I feel if he was SP and table has turned? (There are some male SPs out there, believe me) Will he take advantage of me financially simply because of my possible income? There are so many things I can think of.
Many questions runs through my head and I would have to say I am just as borderline with this question as majority of people are.
In the meantime, I will just stay single and contribute to making you happy
Been there, done that, and hopefully I’ve learned my lesson.
Sadly, once a girl has taken your money for sex there is no way back.
Any SP worth her salt can mind fuck with the best. Her job is to make you believe that for a few minutes you are the most important person in her life. But it is only escapism, just minutes later she is creating the same illusion for the next client. So you should not lose yourself in the fantasy. If she agrees to date you, there is an ulterior motive.
Sadly, once a girl has taken your money for sex there is no way back.
Any SP worth her salt can mind fuck with the best. Her job is to make you believe that for a few minutes you are the most important person in her life. But it is only escapism, just minutes later she is creating the same illusion for the next client. So you should not lose yourself in the fantasy. If she agrees to date you, there is an ulterior motive.
If I really love her, and we both know being an SP is what she really wants then yes, absolutely. I had a recent 3-year relationship with a gorgeous Hungarian girl who was an SP and still danced occasionally for the first few months we were together. I told her I'd support her if the dancing was best for her, but she decided it wasn't anymore and quit. I loved her and would have married her if we were meant to be, which in the end we were not but it was close. I admit I found the whole thing kind of sexy, but then again I'm very open-minded and had experience in the lifestyle so I'm a little outside the norm. I never liked jealousy anyways, whether it was me or the woman I'm with. I think loving someone means accepting the person for all that they are.
