would you date an SP?

[Miss Maya Blue]

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eagleman....you are certainly not alone. quite a few men that i have met actually find my 'work' quite sexy.

would i date a guy that used SP's? well, I have. on a few occasions clients have become more...but admittedly, if i knew they were serious hobbiests i would be a little wary.

my thoughts on my guy seeing escorts? im actually all for it, if thats what he needs. most men are not 100% monogamous, 100% of the time. in any long term relationship, a little sexual variety is nothing to be afraid of. so long as we are solid, i wouldn't feel threatened by him seeing an SP, mostly because I understand that the dynamic is sexual, not emotional.

 

[eagle1man]

Hey Maya ...I'm not surprised that quite a few men find your work sexy. Well hell ...you're sexy!!! Of course, what separates the men from the boys in this situation is whether they still feel that way when their heart is on the line in a committed relationship. I met my ex without any knowledge of her involvement in the business, but it wouldn't have deterred me at all. We had chemistry and nothing would have stopped what we had ...we had some good times.

I like your attitude towards your man and other women because it's a balanced approach. Having said that, I actually prefer playing together in the lifestyle rather than separately. I won't hobby when I'm in a LTR. For a couple years I played with a bisexual girlfriend in the lifestyle, and found that way more fun and interesting, and it brought us closer together, not apart. Again, others may find that weird but it worked for me. BTW Maya, I've always found you one of the most interesting people on this board because of your approach to life. To be honest, I have a thing for creative artists, and you are certainly a most beautiful one . You take care out there.

 

[amber-jade]

we liked the idea of this topic so much,

we bought the company


.
amber-jade / justin
xxx

 

[Firebot]

I have. At least it's an honest relationship and I'm not being hypocritical about it. I can't see how people can try to push a moral high ground on this thread when all of us here are clients and doing the same play as those SPs, and very often behind a SO's back.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

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i think someone is flirting with me....

 

[genie888]

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everybody needs loving..

 

[petemeat]

No I wouldn't. Remember, part of paying the SP is to leave. I don't want to spend an extended time with an SP. Let's warm up, flirt, flick, suck, fuck, post-coital chat, get dressed and leave.

See ya next time....

 

[Top Northerner]

Maya ... would you date a male SP? Not an ex-SP but a working SP? Just wondering.

I have dated a few dancers and was fine with their occupation. One I fell deeply in love with and she I. The only problem was I didn't get along with her female lover. In hindsight I should have simply accepted that that was what she needed and that our relationship could accomodate that. A little bit of therapy was needed after I broke off that one.

Now back up and at it again though

 

[Insidious Von]

If she doesn't lie to me I would and I very nearly did.

There was an sp I used to meet on a regular basis and each time she never failed to put a smile on my face. Once she got her degree, she began working in her field and announced her retirement. I phone her up, got her voicemail and wished her the very best of everything in her future. She phoned me back and told me she still wanted to see me. Not being a man prone to illusion I made sure that I always had a donation when we met. Over time the relations got hotter and the donations got smaller. Then, suddenly, she retired outright.

Unbeknowst to me at the time, she was conducting her own form of The Bachlorette. Over time she would drop one of her "VIP clients" and I finished runner up. What worked against me was that I didn't live in Ottawa - but even then I could have claimed the prize. Her future husband had told her that she had to break off relations with me. She did, but she did it in such a way that hinted she would become my SO if I took her by force. I wasn't prepared to do that.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it.

 

[Sir Alex]

Definitely yes if it is Ms. Maya Blue, a real classy lady in all respects!
Only a real lucky man would get a chance to date her.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

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i would date a male SP. i'd be especially excited if it meant we could work together.

these two are my heros. its too bad..i think they have retired. their website no longer works.

http://www.sexyindependentescorts.com/london-escort/couple-gisela-luciano.html

 

[Dinovoedge]

Never in a million years. Too many skeleton's in her closet and maybe a few are still there.

 

[Slaven]

Yes

Everyone is a unique individual. What you do does not necessarily define who you are.

 

[to-guy69]

It would be curious to see results from a poll for dating a retired SP versus an active SP.

 

[loco2.0]

Absolutly not if we met through the hobby.

If met outside the hobby then she is just a civilian girl to me, and SPing is just her profession. Once I have contracted her services, then her civilianhood is gone.....I donnu if that makes any sense But not meeting her at a hotel room for the first time would make a helluva difference to me, but then I know there are too many problems involved in keeping the relationship alive afterwards.

An ex SP on the other hand that would be a no brainer!

 

[justhavingfun]

... once I have contracted her then her civilianhood is gone.....I donnu if that makes any sense

I don't know about that! Loco2.0 I think it sounds a bit loco!

 

[Frosty]

I have. At least it's an honest relationship and I'm not being hypocritical about it. I can't see how people can try to push a moral high ground on this thread when all of us here are clients and doing the same play as those SPs, and very often behind a SO's back.

Speak for yourself, I ain't cheating on anybody.

 

[eagle1man]

i think someone is flirting with me

Who ...who's flirting!? hehe

OK, OK, Maya ...if I'm being honest then I admit I have a thing for you. It's not just that you're obviously very sexy and beautiful. For me, you've got something special that stands out from all others. From viewing your website and reading your posts over time, I've noticed that you're exactly the kind of woman I would be with in my personal life. I've been very fortunate to have had very sexy, gorgeous artistic girlfriends (two artists, two singers and two model/actresses). My last long-term girl was a former SP and dancer, and is now a singer/actress. I believe I have something in common with creative souls ...an appreciation for the sensual side of life. From appreciating natural and created art, to fine cuisine and wine, and of course the sensuality of our bodies from simple massage to exploring our sexuality in all its variety. Anyway, I don't know why I'm writing all of this, especially publicly but what the hell ...it's the truth.

The other truth unfortunately for me is that I'm in no position financially to afford your $700 minimum ...at least not in the immediate future. So you've been like my fantasy girl. But as I said before, really you're someone I'd have in my personal life rather than as my paid companion ...I would date you. Anyway, enough said as it's a little embarrassing to say all of this so publicly. You take care, Maya.

 

[Miss Maya Blue]

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lol. thanks for the kind words, eagleman.

 

[Herodotus]

Umm, eagle1man, perhaps a PM would have been more appropriate?

(Or a love letter on linen, vellum or parchment? LOL!)