would any of you guys marry an SP?

John Wick

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First of all I don't know how anybody else would find out unless someone maliciously went looking not all secrets get out, there have been plenty of retired ladies that I know of that are living lives as civilians and have left the past in the past. If your family and friends did not support the choices you make and perhaps it's time to evaluate your family and friends. I think when it comes right down to it it doesn't really matter what's somebody did in the past its certainly true in my case
So you're the 1 out of ten I referred to above. Sorry, but it's naive to believe that that secret will never come out, just as it's naive to believe men will just abandon their families when opinion turns against them in favor of their former SP fiancee/wife. It all will inevitably turn very messy and lots of people will be caught in the crossfire. There maybe a contingent of pro-thinking men on TERB but they are certainly not representative of the widely held opposing viewpoints in general society. It's just the way it is still in 2023.
 

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I wouldn't marry an SP in this life. I have in my previous life. Back then it was different. The reason been the Gov't didn't help much back then like it does now.

perhaps when people have so many choices and can live a life they choose, they will choose the best for themselves regardless of the other person.
welcome to relationships in the west, where we don't need people since we can freeload from the government or from a person.
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Also learn that if a (SP) woman's fate is to be single and enjoy what she can, she will either stay single or divorce. Chasing Syndrome.
 

Mr Deeds

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So you're the 1 out of ten I referred to above. Sorry, but it's naive to believe that that secret will never come out, just as it's naive to believe men will just abandon their families when opinion turns against them in favor of their former SP fiancee/wife. It all will inevitably turn very messy and lots of people will be caught in the crossfire. There maybe a contingent of pro-thinking men on TERB but they are certainly not representative of the widely held opposing viewpoints in general society. It's just the way it is still in 2023.
No it's not and if that's the way your family and friends are in your life then I feel sorry for you.
 

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This thread started in 2015. Anyone married their SP then ?

We know your reason was not her young fuckable body at your disposal but the wonderful personality.

So she still has that wonderful personality but I'm curious ....



Any regrets ???
 

dirtyharry555

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You know you guys make me laugh with your outdated double standard bullshit. How is dating or marrying a retired SP any different from marrying or dating a civilian. You're saying these women are okay to fuck but God forbid you should actually carry on a relationship with one because for some reason you think they're less of a human being. You think your body count makes you more of a man and yet a woman's body count makes her less desirable. Grow up
I think you've mischaracterized my view, and however "outdated" you think that it is, it remains the norm (i.e. outside of TERB Land) and it always will be.
 
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Absolutely.

What matters is the person, not what they did at some point in their life. Who that person is today, not yesterday.

who am I to judge anyone.
we are allowed to be free

And who are any of us, especially given. Every here uses SPs…why would anyone marry or date us..if that is the standard.
 
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John Wick

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No it's not and if that's the way your family and friends are in your life then I feel sorry for you.
I guess we'll just have to agree to disagree on this point.
 
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John Wick

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Absolutely.

What matters is the person, not what they did at some point in their life. Who that person is today, not yesterday.

who am I to judge anyone.
we are allowed to be free

And who are any of us, especially given. Every here uses SPs…why would anyone marry or date us..if that is the standard.
Interesting point. How do you think the conversation would go if a guy went to his current wife and told her he'd been a big hobbyist before they got married, but had stopped after the wedding? Do you think most women in that situation would be cool about it and just shrug it off as you've described above? How do you think her family and friends would react once she told them about it? No biggee, right?
 

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I think there is still alot of hate for sex workers from society that would make marrying a sex worker difficult...escorting is not 100 per cent legal, in the court battle bill c 36 the government said they do not want Canada to be a country for prostituition and make it socially acceptable...to an extension people judge others for being sex workers and marrying sex workers.
 

John Wick

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I think there is still alot of hate for sex workers from society that would make marrying a sex worker difficult...escorting is not 100 per cent legal, in the court battle bill c 36 the government said they do not want Canada to be a country for prostituition and make it socially acceptable...to an extension people judge others for being sex workers and marrying sex workers.
This. 100% ^^^^^^^^^
 

The Oracle

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Nah would never date or marry a sex worker.

In the past I've dated quite a few. Have much respect for their plight.

What i've learned is that the overwhelming majority have deep seated issues.

None of which they brought on themselves I might add. There's reason they're doing what they do.

The stories i've heard are heart wrenching. Best to keep everything professional or friendly.
 

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I wouldn't marry an SP in this life. I have in my previous life. Back then it was different. The reason been the Gov't didn't help much back then like it does now.


Also learn that if a (SP) woman's fate is to be single and enjoy what she can, she will either stay single or divorce. Chasing Syndrome.
I have noticed anecdotally through working with teenage girls in the justice system that girls who do SP tend to have a higher frequency of mental health issues. specifically bpd.
 

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Most sex workers are either single mothers or disabled mostly with mental illness. Disability benefits are inadequate it forces women that are disabled into sex work. It forces men that are disabled into MAID. This seems to be changing into could a man marry a mentally ill woman. Ableism...
 
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@angrymime666 & @Escortlover24 thank you for your input this verifies what I have been researching for awhile when I got involved in past lives.

Simply put if a person SP'ed in the past life unwilling, in the next life they come with "Trauma". Yes they can be healed, so in the next life they are not a SP.
 
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