Wondering if clients are feeling the same way lately....

[SlickRickBBD]

Hey folks,


Just wondering if anyone is having the same issue I’ve been having for a bit now.

Lately I’ve found myself heaitating booking SPs, both Indy and Agency. Its mostly because I’m just not sure of how the dates are gonna go.

Rates have gone up considerably since when I use to heavily frequent seeing providers. Now I have no problem with with providers making extra income if they feel they deserve and warrant it. In today’s world, everything has gone up, so I get it. My worry is, and it’s something I’m reading more in reviews and online conversation, is that it seems more clients are paying these larger rates and walking away unsatisfied with their date experience. I’m not one going into dates with a listed of menu items or a checklist. I am very much go with the flow. I guess the only thing that is a must for me is DFK. I prefer a GFE experience sprinkled with PSE elements, if we click.

I think I just fear spending so much money theses days on experiences that just don’t hit or are below average. Lack of money is not the issue. I just would prefer not taking chances dropping a grand and walking away from a date disappointed. My last couple of dates have been good. The SPs I have listed as my RSVPs (must sees) are higher in rate. so I’m planning those date a little bit more , and searching for reviews and info to make those more memorable. when I look at Agency SP dates, some of the reviews of ladies I’m interested in seeing are all over the map and has me questioning if I should pull the trigger. I usually am one to take review info and know that everyone’s experience is different but I also hesitate booking thinking it may be better to go with someone else.

Does anyone else feel the same and if so what have you done to combat it? Are you reading more reviews? Interacting with potential ladies? Are you just taking chances and biting the bullet? Should I just focus on ladies I’ve seen and enjoyed in the past? I guess I’d prefer to know I’m spending money on an experience I know I’m going to enjoy. If any providers on here have opinions or suggestions too, please chime In..

Any info or suggestions are appreciated.

slick.

 

[dotdotdot69]

There's 2 SPs who I see now when I'm in the mood for some and it's not often since I'm not an addict. I enjoy the connection, personality and service. I'll lurk LL at times, but don't really care anymore. The past 5 years I got back into this hobby and it's been dull and waste of time/money. 99% were non-repeats and a few good ones are quite the drive away since around here it's extremely dry and dull. So when I'm in the mood I'll make the well over 1 hour drive. I'd say stick to the good ones you are enjoying. Even the few SBs I hooked up with were meh and not repeating. For me it's been more so the waste of time and a session where service lacked. We're generally paying to "play" and that "play" requires a good act at said cost. Being mechanically and dull/dry as a first impression generally leads to no repeat. I go months without seeing anyone especially due to the weather on the hwy and accidents closing lanes because it's not worth it.

There seems to be a few great reviewed ones I'd want to see around GTA or Ottawa, but the thought of travelling that far is meh. Then the drive back lol. I might eventually try it and see and just crash the night in a hotel.

 

[shack]

Just wondering if anyone is having the same issue I’ve been having for a bit now.

Lately I’ve found myself heaitating booking SPs, both Indy and Agency. Its mostly because I’m just not sure of how the dates are gonna go.

When has this ever NOT been the case?

Only you can do your own risk assessment.

 

[tobermory]

Should I just focus on ladies I’ve seen and enjoyed in the past? I guess I’d prefer to know I’m spending money on an experience I know I’m going to enjoy.

This ^^^

I find if you see someone regularly they. get to know what you like and you develop chemistry, and I never come away disappointed.

for some it’s the variety they crave but even with a lot of research and advance communication you have some misses when you go from one lady to the next, since everyone’s different. I think that’s the cost of doing business with that approach.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

I am feeling sad. A second ATF dumped me. Without going deep into details, she had become restrictive with her pussy and would only allow ass. I tried to sweet talk her into normal sex because I know she did it with her faves. We struck a deal. She need some maintenance work done around her place which was minor but would have been expensive if she called someone. I offered to do the work. she said "If you give me good service, I will give you good service" So pussy sex was back on the table. Did the work. Including a couple of trips 30 K both ways to fix and finish. Immediately after which she told me that she wouldn't see me anymore. After 15 fucking years.
I am clean and not bad looking and not fat or ugly or even bald. Fuck.!

 

[dotdotdot69]

She probably doesn't want anyone down there for a while due to discomfort or something and probably just lured you into a deal that favours her obviously. Hopefully you got some while doing the work but still lol. Live and learn.

 

[LTO_3]

I am feeling sad. A second ATF dumped me. Without going deep into details, she had become restrictive with her pussy and would only allow ass. I tried to sweet talk her into normal sex because I know she did it with her faves. We struck a deal. She need some maintenance work done around her place which was minor but would have been expensive if she called someone. I offered to do the work. she said "If you give me good service, I will give you good service" So pussy sex was back on the table. Did the work. Including a couple of trips 30 K both ways to fix and finish. Immediately after which she told me that she wouldn't see me anymore. After 15 fucking years.
I am clean and not bad looking and not fat or ugly or even bald. Fuck.!

You got what you wanted, her pussy, while doing the renos for her at a fraction of the cost for her. Once the renos where done, she was done with you. Sad to say that but you should have had a contingency plan after the work was done. Have seen and heard similar things like this happen a few times over the years. Sorry that this happened to you.

LTO_3

 

[dotdotdot69]

I'd never do that amount of work for someone just for pussy and mingle time. I'd want some funds in return and if not then too bad so sad. Overly nice get taken advantage of easily. You're lucky you didn't marry her. People like that just play you for years then don't care how you feel and will quit seeing ya at the drop of the hat. I know a guy who went all out for his ex-wife and she left him for someone else. He found someone else years ago, but just lives a small average life now and she's fine with it.

 

[superman2006]

Go for 30mins/45mins session on mid tier girls. They are usually at 160-200/hh. If you liked them then repeat them on longer dates. I found many higher tier girls’ services are lacking. They are at higher rates because there are more bookings for either their looks or youth. Some of them are really overhyped here( wouldn’t mention names).

Another option is to go for low volume indies, some of them are really good and the overall experience generally felt less transactional as these girls don’t get many clients like the agency girls, they depend on regulars, so they are willing to put on more effort to convert you into a regular.

 

[onomatopoeia]

I am feeling sad. A second ATF dumped me. Without going deep into details, she had become restrictive with her pussy and would only allow ass. I tried to sweet talk her into normal sex because I know she did it with her faves. We struck a deal. She need some maintenance work done around her place which was minor but would have been expensive if she called someone. I offered to do the work. she said "If you give me good service, I will give you good service" So pussy sex was back on the table. Did the work. Including a couple of trips 30 K both ways to fix and finish. Immediately after which she told me that she wouldn't see me anymore. After 15 fucking years.
I am clean and not bad looking and not fat or ugly or even bald. Fuck.!

Snapple?

 

[seanzo]

I've noticed a pretty steep drop in SPs overall where I live, especially post COVID. LL is very sparse, lots of fake and questionable ads. Get a lot of traveling SPs that come to town however my general experience with them over the past ten years or so have been hit or miss, emphasis on the miss. Traveling to Toronto has become increasingly unpalatable due to costs, traffic and the overall state of the city. I've got maybe four GTA based SPs on my to do list that I do eventually plan on seeing but after that there's a good chance I'm just going to stop all together. The juice just isn't worth the squeeze anymore

 

[Jenesis]

When has this ever NOT been the case?

Only you can do your own risk assessment.

That was my thought. You want a guarantee before booking???? How is that suppose to work???

And clients make the session too. They have to remember they have a responsibility as well.

I have had nothing but great reviews because I deliver on what I say I will. But a few weeks back I got a mediocre review from a guy. The issues though:

1 - he booked a BNG but admitted that he has a hard time cumming from a bbbj.

2 - he has seen all the BNG girls in Durham and none of them are good or amazing. All are just “ok”

3 - he was close to cumming and “moaned in the right way” but I didn’t go harder or faster. Sorry but if you are moaning, I’m going to keep doing exactly what I am doing because clearly you are liking it. If you want the pace to change, you need to speak up.

4 - he stayed for 20 minutes on a 15 minute BNG which I have timestamped. He said he got 16 minutes but was upset when 10 minutes into the bbbj, I told him time was running out. What was I suppose to do. It is a BNG. You need time to get dressed to leave, you took time to say Hi and get undressed. There is only so much time in 15 minutes.

When everyone, trying to help him out, told him he should book longer or should have extended, that he should have communicated he wanted faster or harder when he was getting close, etc - he said he was being “attacked”.

He was the downfall for his own appointment. I did everything I was suppose to do. So if you are having multiple bad sessions, even with doing your research - maybe you have to look inward.

 

[Pepe_Grande]

I am feeling sad. A second ATF dumped me. Without going deep into details, she had become restrictive with her pussy and would only allow ass.

I would consider that an upgrade! That's like hitting the jackpot, right @Mr.Gr33k ?

But I get you brother.

 

[squeezer]

I am feeling sad. A second ATF dumped me. Without going deep into details, she had become restrictive with her pussy and would only allow ass. I tried to sweet talk her into normal sex because I know she did it with her faves. We struck a deal. She need some maintenance work done around her place which was minor but would have been expensive if she called someone. I offered to do the work. she said "If you give me good service, I will give you good service" So pussy sex was back on the table. Did the work. Including a couple of trips 30 K both ways to fix and finish. Immediately after which she told me that she wouldn't see me anymore. After 15 fucking years.
I am clean and not bad looking and not fat or ugly or even bald. Fuck.!

Dude, you don't pay to have drama and no sex LOL You need to know when to move on. The rule is or should be bang n go when you're paying.

After 15 years, anyone, a hot girl or hot guy, can become ugly. LOL

Back to the OP's post. I find the ladies service-wise the same as they've always been. Ymmv can come into play, but in general, service wise I don't see a difference. Yes, it's tough to find a decent looking provider in Ontario for $250/ HR , the average now is $300.

 

[dotdotdot69]

I've never gone over $250 the odd time I've done a H. In my early 40s, fit, have hair, decent looking and don't care to mingle with the 20 plus year olds who come across entitled. And I've never been into the spinner types. YMMV. I prefer average to BBW with someone who's facially at least attractive, good personality and is good at the service. I'll also communicate things on my end if I see the person again and they aren't listening to what I've communicated because they are either stubborn or perhaps airheads who easily forget I'll never repeat.

The ladies on here younger who are asking $300 for a H and get it then great. I've got the pockets for it but it's not my cup of tea. Nor would I spend 4 figures on someone who's dolled up in their youth putting on a show when the ladies over 40 IMO for their price offer a service that's better because they tend to understand the customer. Not hating on anyone who in this line of business and people can charge what they like, but I stick to what's worked for me after experimenting things the past couple of years.

 

[onomatopoeia]

If a guy is getting a BJ, and the Escort is telling him that his time is almost up, what he hears is glu-klu-ga-ka-gla ,and it's understandable if he doesn't understand.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

 

[Jami77]

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It depends on the plumber. I bet this guys never has to fix his neighbours sink...



Maybe the key is if you neighbour wants her sink fixing make sure you arent wearing a shirt and coveralls when you do it.

 

[Knuckle Ball]

I am feeling sad. A second ATF dumped me. Without going deep into details, she had become restrictive with her pussy and would only allow ass. I tried to sweet talk her into normal sex because I know she did it with her faves. We struck a deal. She need some maintenance work done around her place which was minor but would have been expensive if she called someone. I offered to do the work. she said "If you give me good service, I will give you good service" So pussy sex was back on the table. Did the work. Including a couple of trips 30 K both ways to fix and finish. Immediately after which she told me that she wouldn't see me anymore. After 15 fucking years.
I am clean and not bad looking and not fat or ugly or even bald. Fuck.!

This is not the first time I have heard of these kinds of arrangements turning sour. I think keeping things on a cash basis avoids problems like these.

 

[moredale7]

There's 2 SPs who I see now when I'm in the mood for some and it's not often since I'm not an addict. I enjoy the connection, personality and service. I'll lurk LL at times, but don't really care anymore. The past 5 years I got back into this hobby and it's been dull and waste of time/money. 99% were non-repeats and a few good ones are quite the drive away since around here it's extremely dry and dull. So when I'm in the mood I'll make the well over 1 hour drive. I'd say stick to the good ones you are enjoying. Even the few SBs I hooked up with were meh and not repeating. For me it's been more so the waste of time and a session where service lacked. We're generally paying to "play" and that "play" requires a good act at said cost. Being mechanically and dull/dry as a first impression generally leads to no repeat. I go months without seeing anyone especially due to the weather on the hwy and accidents closing lanes because it's not worth it.

There seems to be a few great reviewed ones I'd want to see around GTA or Ottawa, but the thought of travelling that far is meh. Then the drive back lol. I might eventually try it and see and just crash the night in a hotel.

Said the man who registered just days ago,hmmmmmmmmm