Will you still love a woman when she is no longer beautiful physically ?

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Then you get divorced and loose the house.

Love VS infatuation are two different things.
In the 1800's people corresponded by letter and met their spouse like this. NOT ALL, which still happens today with Dating Apps.

Marrying a hot women ( beautiful outside but ugly inside) or thin is dangerous because of these reasons, they will leave for another guy, cheat on you, or cuckoo syndrome and you raise another men's children. I have seen this.

Will you still love a woman when she is no longer beautiful physically ?
No, I say hit the gym.

Oh shit - I see who the poster is.

Show us yourself !!! Goodness. I feel like we need some stats here. You hit the gym Jim

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Yes. Clients here are older devouring hot younger babes. Many of us tolerate our wives but the true love disappeared several years ago as the wives had children and their bodies became unappealing. Viagra doesnt even help guys and their wives.

I mean she probably wants the lights off to imagine someone else too …

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I didn't say they didn't exist. Plenty of people have fallen in love with people they've only ever interacted with through text.

Yes they can share and be vulnerable and it builds intellectual connection that strengthens when physical comes into play. Many times we are deluded by the pheromones at play and that’s why when they stop we no longer want to court
one another

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

I'm super curious ... obviously you are quite the photography expert and can help me understand how these random image selections from google images are fake edited.

You also seem to miss the point - I supplied image extremes to illustrate that a layer of bullshit exists in the suggestion that physical attractiveness plays little or no importance to the initial dating.

It's human nature and you shouldn't be ashamed about it. You don't take that last glance in the mirror before hitting the club to make sure your personality shows through. You may learn to appreciate more about your mate over time but let's not try to rewrite history into the motivation you had when you first met.

Yikes. I’ve been to a club less than a handful of times. That is not where one should ever desire to find a mate. That’s your problem. the mirror is just to reflect the positive messaging from within I need to exude. Sex is primitive and yes part of nature. But really it’s about finding connection. You can have sex with anyone and anything it appears these days (men are having sex with towels and countertops apparently). So maybe you’re chasing the wrong thing and finding the wrong women who don’t have any idea what they’re chasing either in being in such places.

you missed the point -then said my point after you tried to claim I can’t say they are fake photos. Just because they are on the internet doesn’t make them real people. thank you for denying and then confirming. I don’t need to be a photographer to know this

 

[superstar_88]

Not every womans love language has to do with food. Not every woman eats steak. Not
every woman is into eating out. Women are creative if you include them in your stresses to find a solution in times of hardship. It’s why vows should be honoured and honesty about life. A partnership to traverse through together
if you made her feel guilty for your job loss and made it about her instead of taking the time to grieve and then find a new opportunity then of course it affected your relationship and the four horsemen came riding in. If you talked in a manner that showed vulnerability but a deserve to resilient then it would be different

It was metaphorically speaking but you took it directly as food and only food.
Be it expensive gifts, vacations, bills, what have you.

 

[angrymime666]

“And so it was written “
you should read the alchemist or something.
what you say becomes your reality

Your choices become your reality

 

[IM469]

Yikes. I’ve been to a club less than a handful of times. That is not where one should ever desire to find a mate. That’s your problem. the mirror is just to reflect the positive messaging from within I need to exude. Sex is primitive and yes part of nature. But really it’s about finding connection. You can have sex with anyone and anything it appears these days (men are having sex with towels and countertops apparently). So maybe you’re chasing the wrong thing and finding the wrong women who don’t have any idea what they’re chasing either in being in such places.

you missed the point -then said my point after you tried to claim I can’t say they are fake photos. Just because they are on the internet doesn’t make them real people. thank you for denying and then confirming. I don’t need to be a photographer to know this

For clarity, let me address these two comments separately.

Yikes. I’ve been to a club less than a handful of times. That is not where one should ever desire to find a mate. That’s your problem. the mirror is just to reflect the positive messaging from within I need to exude. Sex is primitive and yes part of nature. But really it’s about finding connection. You can have sex with anyone and anything it appears these days (men are having sex with towels and countertops apparently). So maybe you’re chasing the wrong thing and finding the wrong women who don’t have any idea what they’re chasing either in being in such places.

What problem ? I don't go to clubs - it was an example. I wasn't advocating clubs - it could be the gym, class, work. If you lift your mindset off the words in the paper, I was questioning the premise that initial contact was motivated by personality. You can engage in an intellectual pushback on my suggestion but please don't use the authenticity of sample photos or going to a club look for a date.

The depth of your own delusion is 'the mirror is just to reflect the positive messaging from within I need to exude' - really ?? You really believe that ? You are not worried about spinach in the teeth, what a prospective mate may see ?

Maybe you are not good looking. Maybe the constant rejection has eliminated looks and out of necessity for companionship - you will find a personality that is enduring over time. In time the beautiful will find themselves at the same level that you started. You are ahead of the curve. That could be a valid argument - looks were not an option so I had to look for personality.

you missed the point -then said my point after you tried to claim I can’t say they are fake photos. Just because they are on the internet doesn’t make them real people. thank you for denying and then confirming. I don’t need to be a photographer to know this

This is off topic but in the interest of accuracy - I didn't claim you didn't know they were fake photos. When you stood on your soap box and declared them fake I was fascinated. All I asked you to do is teach me how to you knew these random photos from the internet were fake. BTW: knowing does not involve statistics or assumptions. Please enlighten me.

 

[bazokajoe]

Here is a question, will she still love you when you get older, put weight on, get grey hair or go bald/balding?

 

[massman]

Here is a question, will she still love you when you get older, put weight on, get grey hair or go bald/balding?

Valid, related question, but different topic.

 

[Goodoer]

Chiming in again... When the rare time comes around that my wife actually wants to have sex, I seem to naturally try and remember what she looked like when we met. I assume she does the same. She still seems to climax. I do not cum (ever lately).

I think this falls under Attraction... Assuming she's been (relatively) faithful, I have the benefit of extracurricular SPs whereas she does not. If she was my only outlet, I'm assuming I'd be able to cum.

Love is something different and falls into multiple categories. You can give out Love.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Your choices become your reality

A choice begins with a thought …

 

[StephenHKing]

Generally on this board we are all men who have separated love from sex. Regarding sex we won’t pay to fuck a girl who’s slightly overweight, unattractive or unable to feign interest. Our best sessions are those in which we can mimic the early parts of a romantic relationship, where for a slice of time we can release ourselves into a momentary form of love that we willingly terminate when we close the door and leave.

Real love we give a much wider berth to. Romance fades without effort, and real women are all too human when the door opens and closes more than just once, and hours become days become years and then decades.

I’m always interested in the fundamental dichotomy between loving a partner enough to build and maintain a life while simultaneously surreptitiously fucking 20-year-olds to keep the prostate healthy.

 

[princekwekua]

My girlfriend was as hot as the hottest girls around. We used to go at it nonstop. Her looks and the rampant sex were important reasons why I fell in love with her. Two children later, her body fell apart and no longer as attractive. But then society expects that I love her the same way and stick with only her even when viagra could offer no assistance? No way. My regulars are super hot just like my wife used to be in those days and fortunate they put up with an old geaser like me for a few dollars. Just thinking about them give me a rise. Just ask Bill Clinton.

 

[shack]

My girlfriend was as hot as the hottest girls around. We used to go at it nonstop. Her looks and the rampant sex were important reasons why I fell in love with her. Two children later, her body fell apart and no longer as attractive. But then society expects that I love her the same way and stick with only her even when viagra could offer no assistance? No way. My regulars are super hot just like my wife used to be in those days and fortunate they put up with an old geaser like me for a few dollars. Just thinking about them give me a rise. Just ask Bill Clinton.

Show me a good looking woman and I'll show you a guy who's tired of fucking her.

 

[angrymime666]

A choice begins with a thought …

Thoughts are great but meaningless with action.

 

[angrymime666]

Here is a question, will she still love you when you get older, put weight on, get grey hair or go bald/balding?

Love ends when the value your u bring is gone.

I don't believe in love. Value and respect yes

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Generally on this board we are all men who have separated love from sex. Regarding sex we won’t pay to fuck a girl who’s slightly overweight, unattractive or unable to feign interest. Our best sessions are those in which we can mimic the early parts of a romantic relationship, where for a slice of time we can release ourselves into a momentary form of love that we willingly terminate when we close the door and leave.

Real love we give a much wider berth to. Romance fades without effort, and real women are all too human when the door opens and closes more than just once, and hours become days become years and then decades.

I’m always interested in the fundamental dichotomy between loving a partner enough to build and maintain a life while simultaneously surreptitiously fucking 20-year-olds to keep the prostate healthy.

I imagined pet cemetery by The Ramones playing in the background while reading this.

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Love ends when the value your u bring is gone.

I don't believe in love. Value and respect yes

Where’s your respect for English language grammar?

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

Thoughts are great but meaningless with action.

Something’s missing ?

 

[Muchadoaboutnothing]

My girlfriend was as hot as the hottest girls around. We used to go at it nonstop. Her looks and the rampant sex were important reasons why I fell in love with her. Two children later, her body fell apart and no longer as attractive. But then society expects that I love her the same way and stick with only her even when viagra could offer no assistance? No way. My regulars are super hot just like my wife used to be in those days and fortunate they put up with an old geaser like me for a few dollars. Just thinking about them give me a rise. Just ask Bill Clinton.

Lol a few dollars ? Has it been decades ?
your wife isn’t a vehicle. She gave you heirs to whatever your legacy is. She didn’t fall apart.