Maybe it's hate for some. Not for me. What comes across as hate may be an acknowledgement of reality. Humanity is not "wired" for prostitution. It's a marginal activity in which we try to apply "norms" to an unusual set of circumstances. I'm sure that you're a perfectly ok person, but I feel nothing toward you as all I want is your body(tool) and the skill with which you use it. And you "feel" the same toward me- you want a body through your door to collect your pay. It's wholly transactional. The experience is completely devoid of any normal connection. The unfortunate souls may fool themselves that it is or can be more, but you know very well that that verges on impossible as you have little respect (in the absence of a better description) for men who pay for sex just as the average john has even less "respect" for a woman in your profession.
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Maybe it's hate for some. Not for me. What comes across as hate may be an acknowledgement of reality. Humanity is not "wired" for prostitution. It's a marginal activity in which we try to apply "norms" to an unusual set of circumstances. I'm sure that you're a perfectly ok person, but I feel nothing toward you as all I want is your body(tool) and the skill with which you use it. And you "feel" the same toward me- you want a body through your door to collect your pay. It's wholly transactional. The experience is completely devoid of any normal connection. The unfortunate souls may fool themselves that it is or can be more, but you know very well that that verges on impossible as you have little respect (in the absence of a better description) for men who pay for sex just as the average john has even less "respect" for a woman in your profession.
That is such a negative way to look at things and certainly not my feelings regarding the industry or the people in it.
I don't respect you less because you are a purchaser of sex. Not at all.
I get the reality of the exchange but it can be so much more then what you limit it to.
Maybe hate is not the word to use for you because it is not something directed to just the women. You have such a negative outlook on the whole thing. Men, women, transaction alike. It's sad.
I have to ask, do you regret your sessions afterwards? I have read it on here before. That some men enjoy the act while it is all happening and then have regret as soon as they get to their car.
If that is too personal just tell me to STFU. Lol.
LOL!!! Regret? Never!(unless the service was wanting). I really appreciate what you do, just as I really appreciate what a skilled plumber or carpenter does. I know what I want and I try to obtain it. I have had plenty of conversations with the professional ladies and what I say is completely rooted in reality. The johns are the means to an end just like you have your function to me. A lot of people attempt to sugar coat it, but, in the end, it is what it is. And, I might add, it's for the best.
I don't know if I buy it. Sorry. There just seems to be so much contempt.
I have respect for tradesmen as well. Others don't. They think it is beneath them. I don't get those people either. I'm just not the type to lose respect for someone based on their job. Except maybe an executioner, and that is a maybe because I have never really thought about it before.
For you to have less respect for me because I'm an escort, yet you see escorts on a regular and for you to look down on men purchasing sex when it is what you do seems highly contradicting and I don't see how you can't deep down feel regret for your actions when you feel such negativity towards the industry as a whole.
But we are getting way way off topic here. So sorry. That is my bad.
Maybe about as much as it would be if she was not his personal attraction type.
So what?
A person who needs a plumber and plumber who needs a client does mean they have less respect for the other because one is paying and one is servicing. And if they do, it is equally as sad as the contempt here. And it equally makes nonsense to me either.
"No money, no honey." It is what it is. Nothing more and nothing less. It is the same with almost every profession/professional (not just sex).
Yeah but the plumber doesn’t pretend to be into the client and the plumber doesn’t ask for amazon gift cards because nobody’s sink is broken this week.
Look. As I said, I appreciate what you do as I avail myself to your services. As for the "respect" thing- it is what it is. Neither you nor I are responsible for it(the contempt for the johns is a well known phenomenon). But, that's just part of the social construct, not worth losing sleep over.
Maybe it's time to widen his horizon a bit. A really skilled and in demand professionals often require"incentives" beyond pay.
Why would anyone partake in a skype or any other social media screen sharing sessions to talk with an SP.
:crazy::crazy::crazy:
Considering the circumstances, it’s not a bad idea. The only thing I see wrong with this particular SP’s approach is that she’s basing her Skype rates on her actual rates, and not on the new market that she’s navigating.
She’s no longer in the SP business, she’s in the cam girl business. Maybe her model will work and I’ll be wrong, but I doubt it very much.
Time will tell.
I am just wondering if girls who want to get $200 for a skype date, asking for a "loan" to be repaid with services (at the standard price) at a later day or just for financial help would be willing to offer a free weekly services for a guy who got unemployed for a few month but who promise top pay it all back as soon as he will find the new job? Any SP who has ever offered a session with payment to be at some unspecified future time (and not because the client forgot to bring the money, but because he was in financial distress at that time), please, speak up.
LOL! Charlotte is too funny!
'If you send me a long email, please make sure you send me a tip or a gift to say thank you as appreciation for me reading it.'
Where do they come up with this stuff!?
Priceless but it's true.
Stocks are down and most are taking a shit-kicking on the bottom line as many are self-employed. Yet they are being called assholes and douchebags by some ladies for not just throwing $$$$$ at them by pre-booking with payment or donations.
Of course, you see some simps bragging how they give to their queens. LMAO
Camming is exceptionally tough to make money in. Not only are you competing against all other cammers who are also online, but you also don't take bookings like you would as an SP. You can't just go about your day waiting for a booking. You have to be live in front of the cam every second of every hour so that viewer(s) see you and hopefully spark up something that leads to enough 'tips' to make it worthwhile. Alternatively, you can just have sex on cam and you will definitely get viewers. You could make next to nothing or a lot depending on who's around to watch.
Another reality of camming vs escorting is that cam girls show their face. Not all escorts are prepared to do this.
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