Wife said she likes black guys

[Celticman]

Wait, what? This on an SP review board? ... auntie Em???

Nope. Auntie Em is having dinner at my place. She is dessert

 

[Celticman]

Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.

Couple of questions.

Would you like to watch your wife/SO make love to another woman?

Do you see escorts or MPAs?

 

[GameBoy27]

I will only say this to the OP. In my (sadly) former days in the swing club scene in T.O. I had this guy say to me, "if you're comfortable seeing your partner with someone else and you are secure in your relationship, swinging will take you to a new level of excitement and closeness in your relationship. But if you are insecure in your relationship or yourself, then swinging will blow it apart"

I believe this to be true.

Seems like jtk, Celticman, Perry Mason and I are all happy members of this club!

 

[dreamblade]

I'm always amazed at the amount of idiocy some of you exhibit.

1) The hot dog and hallway commenters: For guys who have seen various vaginas (since this is an escort review board), you show a staggering lack of knowledge of female anatomy. Remember, a baby comes out of there, which is bigger than any cock, black or otherwise.
2) sleeping/fucking/dating others does not equate unhappiness in your relationship. There are other relationship models out there, practiced very successfully, and I, for one, am tired of hearing your monogamist bullshit.
3) OP: Maybe the cuckold porn idea is a good one, if you're both new to the kink. Another suggestion would be going to Oasis and seeing others play. Just be sure to discuss it, don't be afraid to voice misgivings, be honest in your reassurance, and remember, it's ok to back out if it's really uncomfortable.

 

[IM469]

My wife and I have enjoyed MFF threesomes and had fun with other couples (same room sex) and I have to say it's made our sex life better. We both can't wait for our next adventure.

Just to toss up a different perspective (begging forgiveness of DB)- I will suggest that the latter part of statement is proof positive that your marriage is leaking and slowly sinking. Is your partner really comfortable or only holding on to a drifting husband to be part of his world ? If you both can't wait for the next adventure can I conversely suggest that the thought is 'God, please save me from the boredom of this partner' ? Is home a mundane place of mutual convenience more aptly titled a shared residence ?

Is the concept of open relationships that prevalent among women - or is the couple typically involve a submissive partner who gives in ? The art of self-centered pleasures and bringing the submissive partner for absolving the guilt ?

So educate me ! I know my SO and I am very familiar towards her attitude towards sex. I know that I if I dragged my SO to an open adventure - she loves me enough that she might go. While I turn my eye towards fucking her friend, she will be in an awkward position of having pressure put on her to do something that would only be one step down from rape. Maybe if I dragged her to enough of them - she will build up an endurance but at that time things will change. It has nothing to do with monogamy and everything to do with intimacy.

Could be my age - I'm trying to resolve the same feelings a priest might have in a strip joint.