Wife said she likes black guys

out4fun

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This seems to be a pretty big porn genre. Look up cuckold videos on any porn site and you'll see a bunch of white milfs feeding on black cocks while their husbands watch and film. It all seems pretty intriguing and hot. It makes me wish my whore of an ex wife would have got fucked in front of me instead of just getting fucked behind my back!
 

Perry Mason

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No photos, no details... it did not happen!

And have you given any thought to working on a heavy duty tan?

Perry
 

Fifi_ulla

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This is a cuckold situation in the making as out4fun stated.

The real question is how would you feel seeing a guy potentially more muscular than you and/or with a bigger cock than you fucking her hard potentially over and over again. Even if he is less physically attractive, how would you feel if you see her enjoying it and responding more to him than she does to you? Is it reciprocal - ie Are you allowed to fuck a girl in front of her in return?

This is a slippery slope but if it turns you on - go for it.
 

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Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.
ditto.
 

Vermeer27

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Unless you are a sub, I wouldn't go there. She might find it isn't what she thought it would be, or she might decide that you are redundant. I have seen situations like this get out of hand.
 

Perry Mason

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Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.
I think they used to call men with these kinds of perspectives chauvinist pigs! :rolleyes:

Do you really think that what is sauce for the goose is not sauce for the gander?

Perry
 

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Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.
Wait, what? This on an SP review board? ... auntie Em???
 

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Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.
I think they used to call men with these kinds of perspectives chauvinist pigs! :rolleyes:

Do you really think that what is sauce for the goose is not sauce for the gander?

Perry
+100 ^^^

Just because a couple wants to add another single or couple into the mix doesn't mean they aren't satisfying each other. If they're both into it, all the power to them. My wife and I have enjoyed MFF threesomes and had fun with other couples (same room sex) and I have to say it's made our sex life better. We both can't wait for our next adventure.

To state their marriage is irrevocably broken based on her fantasy is absolutely ridiculous.
 

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Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.
How is this much different than a wife who wants a 3 way with her man and an SP?

Yes, often the wife "enjoys" the physical pleasure from the SP as well. But I bet you, more often than you'd think, the real satisfaction is the enjoyment of being "dirty" with her husband.. And watching her husband get off on it..

While I don't think I could ever watch my wife with another dude, I've certainly fantasized about it at one time or another.. Often our hottest fuck sessions are when she's telling me about other men she's fucked and what their cocks felt like and how dirty she was etc.,. And, despite my SP fetish, I believe the two of us are very much happy in our marriage..

If the OP thinks he's man enough to watch his wife with another man, and still love and adore her, then all the power to him..

Besides, women find courage, power, and confidence attractive in men.. What shows more confidence than letting a physically larger man fuck your wife?
 

Mable

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I have found that there are many women out there who like variety in the bedroom just like us guys. Why not explore this with her. As long as you are not insecure in your manhood and performance or a jealous, possessive guy why not have fun with your wife's (mate's) and your sexuality. I have found that it has made relationships much better and not just in the bedroom. And, if your stuff with your mate is that bad that she finds another man then I think it is better to find out now. That kind of problem always surfaces and better to deal with it now than 10 years later. And, if your sex with her is that unsatisfactory, she will just screw around behind your back anyway. Nothing is a turn on in a relationship more than total honesty and watching the other enjoy. I know North America or anglos are not progressive in this way. Too bad. And yes my mate knows everything I do. I have always insisted on this as I refuse to denegrate my reputation and that of men generally by being dishonest, like the like of John Edwards, Arnold, Slick Willy aka Bill Clinton etc, etc..
 

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Further to what others have opined, she won't have an incentive to cheat one day if you deny her fantasy. Ask her if you can take photos of her stuffed by BBC so you two can relish them during foreplay when you two are alone (she may not allow this off the bat for her own discretion so don't insist on this).

Perhaps one of the greatest intimacies is to know your SO's darkest fantasies (no pun intended).

It might augment your relationship.

For starters, watch cuckold porn to test the waters. You need NOT take it to the extreme (i.e., cleaning up afterwards).
 

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Aside from what others have already said in this thread I don't have much else to add...except that you can't put a nail where a spike has been.
 

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Hey, do black guys actually like your wife? Do you know the answer?
 

james t kirk

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Sexual satisfaction is a necessary ingredient of any successful marriage. So if your wife likes black guys because you obviously do not provide her enough satisfaction, then let her go marry one. Because, to be blunt with you, it seems to me your marriage is irrevocably broken. Where does it end once you embark on this slippery slope? Get rid of her and go find someone who can find complete satisfaction in you.
You're kidding right?

This is TERB you know. You know, the board where guys talk about and rate pay for play sex.

You strike me as a very traditional and chauvinistic male. You believe it's ok for you to fuck around, but there will hell to pay if she does. The old double standard.

Did you ever think that his wife is fairly happy and she just wants to fuck a black guy for fun. Maybe he has a big cock, or maybe she just likes black guys, but for whatever reason, this is what she wants. Doesn't mean she's going to pack in the marriage, or that his marriage is "irrevocably broken". Maybe she just want's a 3-some and he's cool with that.
 

james t kirk

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I think they used to call men with these kinds of perspectives chauvinist pigs! :rolleyes:

Do you really think that what is sauce for the goose is not sauce for the gander?

Perry
You beat me to it (and others I now see too).

I'd be totally down with my female SO fucking a well endowed guy. As long as it's "just sex" I would even find her raw sexuality intriguing.

I would highly doubt my SO would ever leave me just for a big cock. (I offer her far more than just that. And if she would leave me for just a big cock, then really, what does it matter.)
 

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I will only say this to the OP. In my (sadly) former days in the swing club scene in T.O. I had this guy say to me, "if you're comfortable seeing your partner with someone else and you are secure in your relationship, swinging will take you to a new level of excitement and closeness in your relationship. But if you are insecure in your relationship or yourself, then swinging will blow it apart"

I believe this to be true.
 

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I think I'll definitely start with the cuckold porn and kinda test the waters from there I suppose. Both very happy and I hope this leads to somewhere good in the future!
 

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I will only say this to the OP. In my (sadly) former days in the swing club scene in T.O. I had this guy say to me, "if you're comfortable seeing your partner with someone else and you are secure in your relationship, swinging will take you to a new level of excitement and closeness in your relationship. But if you are insecure in your relationship or yourself, then swinging will blow it apart"

I believe this to be true.

100% true. Based on my (good) experience.
 

Perry Mason

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I will only say this to the OP. In my (sadly) former days in the swing club scene in T.O. I had this guy say to me, "if you're comfortable seeing your partner with someone else and you are secure in your relationship, swinging will take you to a new level of excitement and closeness in your relationship. But if you are insecure in your relationship or yourself, then swinging will blow it apart"

I believe this to be true.
I don't believe it... I know it!

It is my experience, too.

Perry
 
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