Why men eschew marriage in 2022

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Yeah. Maybe one day we will all realize that owning others (especially women) as property is just how things were and therefore that is correct....

WTF are you on, dude?
Don't project your pathological fantasies onto me and then act like I'm the one that's high.
 
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Sooner than later, society is going to do a 180 and recognize like it did throughout all of human history that men and women are equal but different. What applies to one, does not always apply to the other. And it has nothing to do with oppression or patriarchy, but biology.

For example, women are born with value while men have to create value, which fortunately lasts much longer when achieved. Men buy sex, women sell sex because vagina and tits have inherent value. That's the very foundation of TERB's existence.

It's so self-evident but a generation of radical feminist programming has made you blind to it. As a result, your kneejerk reaction will be one of disdain and horror rather than understanding.
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After a disgusting day from dealing with douchebags, crabby people and life in general, all of that magically disappears when a beautiful woman you don't know smiles at you for no reason.....
 

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It's not a weird assumption. Very few men have female friends that they don't want to have sex with. And many married women have sex outside of their marriage.

There's trust and then there is naivety.
You have to treat people on a case-by-case basis, not prejudice you bring to the relationship. If you have no actual reason to believe a person is being unfaithful (like even your intuition or something, anything beyond statistics and blanket assumptions), you should give them the benefit of the doubt. Because the other option is just controlling each other's lives out of mutual distrust.

I would never be with someone who tried to control who my friends are. I expect them to keep their insecurities mostly reigned in, and I do the same in return. If the relationship gets so shitty that you have no trust, no intuition for how your partner is really feeling, no confidence that you're making each other happy, to the point where every friend is a threat, just get out of it.
 
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Life happens in two ways at the same time. Some call it Parallel gender syndrome - I call it... I don't trust either side.

 
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This is already happening in China, that wave is coming to American soon. Are the women of N.A ready ?


 

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Absolute bullshit. Wilder adored Radner and they loved each other very much. He would never expect her to leave friends because that would likely make her very unhappy.....

My guess is that was a joke because he was a comedian after all.....
Acceptance will set you free. Watch the documentary then.
 

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Only a fool brings a foreign woman back to Canada. Those lessons were learned many years ago by observing Boomers get shafted when they did it.

Also, understand that if you marry a beautiful woman in the Third World, she will probably cheat on you, but it's better she does it there than here.
SO let me get this straight about the 1st line because this is the first I seen of this.

After WWII, soldiers brought their new wives over here. Then these " war soldier wives" pack it up and left for another man here? or she brought her real husband here after leaving the soldier?
 

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SO let me get this straight about the 1st line because this is the first I seen of this.

After WWII, soldiers brought their new wives over here. Then these " war soldier wives" pack it up and left for another man here? or she brought her real husband here after leaving the soldier?
WWII soldiers were part of the "Greatest Generation". They gave birth to the Silent Generations who gave birth to Boomers who came of age in the 70s, Vietnam War etc.
 

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After a disgusting day from dealing with douchebags, crabby people and life in general, all of that magically disappears when a beautiful woman you don't know smiles at you for no reason.....
That we can agree on.

You have to treat people on a case-by-case basis, not prejudice you bring to the relationship. If you have no actual reason to believe a person is being unfaithful (like even your intuition or something, anything beyond statistics and blanket assumptions), you should give them the benefit of the doubt. Because the other option is just controlling each other's lives out of mutual distrust.

I would never be with someone who tried to control who my friends are. I expect them to keep their insecurities mostly reigned in, and I do the same in return. If the relationship gets so shitty that you have no trust, no intuition for how your partner is really feeling, no confidence that you're making each other happy, to the point where every friend is a threat, just get out of it.
Fair point. Case by case basis is true. After all, I think every man would feel less threatened if her SO's male friends were effeminate, for example.

I suppose part of the issue is that men are territorial by nature. Not saying it's right or wrong. But it's a fact and no amount of social programming will change this predisposition. It probably has a very good evolutionary basis.
 

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Life happens in two ways at the same time. Some call it Parallel gender syndrome - I call it... I don't trust either side.

Short and sweet video. The chasm between what is preached versus reality has become too great to ignore.

I doubt the guy in the video is an incel or mgtow, and gets laid more than SexB on his best day. He's simply speaking truth.

I don't think being an incel or mgtow is the answer. The answer was posted on the first page by someone... the Third World is a massive stomping ground for traditional gender roles, traditional marriage, and complimentary pair bonding. Toxic femininity isn't a thing there.

No one is more hated than he who speaks the truth.” —Plato
 
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It depends on his reason for cheating. If it's purely sexual then it's okay because men and women have different needs. If his wife is taking care of the kids, she'll have no time and energy for him when he comes home from work and needs release.

Double standards exist between men and women because both sexes are completely different.
So she’s a cunt in this meme for cheating and getting divorced but men are allowed to cheat and it is ok…… got it!

She is allowed to care for his kids all day, care for him, get no attention because he is “tired” from work and she is not allowed to get attention else where. Because you know, men and women have different needs….. got it!

Sorry but if that is how you feel then women deserve all the money they get for raising kids. They deserve the house, the kids, the car, the money and he can sit alone in his little apartment while she bangs the next guy in house all while his kids hate him and he is left with nothing. Got it?

I think not. Now if you want to have a fair and balanced conversation - I’m game but I doubt you do
 
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So she’s a cunt in this meme for cheating and getting divorced but men are allowed to cheat and it is ok…… got it!
As stated before, men and women are different. For example, men who are able to sleep around are seen by men and women as more desirable, while women who sleep around are seen by men and women as less desirable.

Why?

1. Because a woman's value is wrapped up in her physical beauty and giving herself away to many men means that she doesn't value herself and/or lacks foresight.

2. It takes tremendous skill for a man to sleep around whereas a woman just has to open her legs and hundreds of dicks will come running to fill her up.

3. When women have sex, they're emotionally invested in doing so whereas men can have lots of sex with lots of women without any emotional connection. In other words, a man cheating with a woman is rarely the same as a woman cheating with men.

“'A key that opens many locks is a good key, a lock that opens for any key is a bad lock."


She is allowed to care for his kids all day, care for him, get no attention because he is “tired” from work and she is not allowed to get attention else where. Because you know, men and women have different needs….. got it!
It's not attention that he seeks. It's sexual release. And yes men and women have starkly different needs with respect to that. The oldest profession exists for that reason.

Sorry but if that is how you feel then women deserve all the money they get for raising kids. They deserve the house, the kids, the car, the money and he can sit alone in his little apartment while she bangs the next guy in house all while his kids hate him and he is left with nothing. Got it?

I think not. Now if you want to have a fair and balanced conversation - I’m game but I doubt you do
You're comparing men and women as though they're the same when in fact they're like apples and oranges.

What do women want from men? Strength, protection, status, finances, intellect.

What do men want from women? Femininity, kindness, loyalty, support, non-promiscuity, and submissiveness.

When modern women sell themselves to men in conversation they hype up their educational credentials and job. Yet most men couldn't care less about any of that. A woman can be broke, a high-school dropout, and jobless, yet a man can love her and settle down with her if she possesses the traits mentioned above. This would be undesirable and unacceptable the other way around for most women. What men look for in women is different from what women look for in men.
 
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As stated before, men and women are different. For example, men who are able to sleep around are seen by men and women as more desirable, while women who sleep around are seen by men and women as less desirable.

Why?

1. Because a woman's value is wrapped up in her physical beauty and giving herself away to many men means that she doesn't value herself and/or lacks foresight.

2. It takes tremendous skill for a man to sleep around whereas a woman just has to open her legs and hundreds of dicks will come running to fill her up.

3. When women have sex, they're emotionally invested in doing so whereas men can have lots of sex with lots of women without any emotional connection. In other words, a man cheating with a woman is rarely the same as a woman cheating with men.

“'A key that opens many locks is a good key, a lock that opens for any key is a bad lock."




It's not attention that he seeks. It's sexual release. And yes men and women have starkly different needs with respect to that. The oldest profession exists for that reason.



You're comparing men and women as though they're the same when in fact they're like apples and oranges.

What do women want from men? Strength, protection, status, finances, intellect.

What do men want from women? Femininity, kindness, loyalty, support, non-promiscuity, and submissiveness.

When modern women sell themselves to men in conversation they hype up their educational credentials and job. Yet most men couldn't care less about any of that. A woman can be broke, a high-school dropout, and jobless, yet a man can love her and settle down with her if she possesses the traits mentioned above. This would be undesirable and unacceptable the other way around for most women. What men look for in women is different from what women look for in men.
Then this meme shouldn’t mean shit and he should be happy and free to fuck who ever he wants now, but that is not the message being displayed, now it is?

And I am not comparing. Not at all. Just stating that every story seems like a sad story when it is only one sided. That was the point.

I bet the wife in that “meme” had a completely different heart tugging story about her marriage and if told in a certain way, everyone would be all upset for her. It is all bullshit narratives with bullshit agendas.

Men are not hard done by like this meme suggests. And neither are women. That is the point.

Moving on since you are so hard up missing my point entirely and don’t seem to be having the same conversation I am.
 

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Then this meme shouldn’t mean shit and he should be happy to free to fuck who ever he wants now, but that is not the message being displayed, now it is?
No. He's a father in a marriage. Why would he be happy with a broken marriage and unable to see his kids? We're talking about a family here.

And I am not comparing. Not at all. Just stating that every story seems like a sad story when it is only one sided. That was the point.
You're free to tell your own story or post about it. The meme resonates because of how many men have been through it. I have friends that experienced this and every man likely knows a man that has.

I bet the wife in that “meme” had a completely different heart tugging story about her marriage and if told in a certain way, everyone would be all upset for her. It is all bullshit narratives with bullshit agendas.
Let's hear it.

Men are not hard done by like this meme suggests. And neither are women. That is the point.
Some men are, like the one the meme speaks to.

Moving on since you are so hard up missing my point entirely and don’t seem to be having the same conversation I am.
I feel the same way.
 
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I feel the same way.
Then that was a lot of wasted typing because dude - I just said moving on. Didn’t even read what you wrote. So again, moving on now

EDIT - shit my bad dude. You needed the last word and that was your issue. Have at it man. All yours.
 

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I don't think being an incel or mgtow is the answer. The answer was posted on the first page by someone... the Third World is a massive stomping ground for traditional gender roles, traditional marriage, and complimentary pair bonding. Toxic femininity isn't a thing there.
so do you reckon it's best to go overseas and bring a woman over or wait until somebody brings her over and she divorces him and then meet her when she has his money and knows how to drive and speaks English?
 
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