Why married men go to meet escort providers?
- Thread starter aviator57
- Start date
massman said:
If you have ever had a stripper or escort for a friend and listened to what they really say about customers, you'd realize that most of them despise us and just see us as a ATM that spits out money. Sure they pay attention to you and act like they like you, but watch really closely, and you can see that deep down inside they would rather be elsewhere, if the rent didn't need to be paid.
Sad fact boys, but its the damned truth. They pray on the fact that guys want more sex then most women are willing to put out.
to me this is the worst - a nightmare in fact - a woman dramatically better than me at golf......worse - shed be asking me to cut grass, look after kids, cook dinner while she is improiving said handicap......uuuuugggggghhhhhsmylee52 said:
I agree massman, the best part of golf is that I am with a bunch of guys, no women to spoil the ambience. It would ruin it to play with any woman, whether an SP or an SO.massman said:
R.
Potang, what does it matter what they think, as long as they are really good actresses and indulge in MY fantasy? I'm not in the hobby for an emotional bond, but for the sex and the fantasy.Potang4U said:
R.
Also, my imagination is good enough that I can "fantasize" a middle-aged woman as a hot, tight 22-year old. And I'm not interested in swinging...I want it to be "all about me".Potang4U said:
R.
For once..
...you are right.
It does amaze me that so many guys thinks SPs are so different in this regard...YOU ARE PAYING THEM! They wouldn't look at your old sagging ass twice if you weren't.
I also find these threads interesting because in my actual life it tends to run opposite. Most of my long term SO have desired sex more than I did..not tons more (to the point where it became a problem in our relationship), but each of them had mentioned at one time or another that they wouldn't have minded getting some a bit more often. My current SO (or whatever you wanna call her...my own private Idaho) take pride in the fact that she has NEVER turned me down for sex...and you get a couple drinks in her, and she just wants to go to town...it actually annoys me a little that we can't go out and have a decent meal with a few drinks without her expecting me to make the earth move when we get back to my place...lol.
I also find it interesting to read all this because I have had a "situation" with more than one married woman...and have known more than I have slept with. To a woman they all complained that their husbands were lousy in bed, and also in attentive.
I think what one of you guys said actually hit it on the head...you like the idea of fucking a young gal (one who wouldn't even know you were alive if you didn't come with a couple hundred dollars) with no regard for her pleasure at all. I can't think of anything more self indulgent and absorbed, but at least dude was honest....
The thing is...are you prepared to live in a world where your wife thinks the same way? Because I am here to tell you...some of them do...
tired old perv said:
...you are right.
It does amaze me that so many guys thinks SPs are so different in this regard...YOU ARE PAYING THEM! They wouldn't look at your old sagging ass twice if you weren't.
I also find these threads interesting because in my actual life it tends to run opposite. Most of my long term SO have desired sex more than I did..not tons more (to the point where it became a problem in our relationship), but each of them had mentioned at one time or another that they wouldn't have minded getting some a bit more often. My current SO (or whatever you wanna call her...my own private Idaho) take pride in the fact that she has NEVER turned me down for sex...and you get a couple drinks in her, and she just wants to go to town...it actually annoys me a little that we can't go out and have a decent meal with a few drinks without her expecting me to make the earth move when we get back to my place...lol.
I also find it interesting to read all this because I have had a "situation" with more than one married woman...and have known more than I have slept with. To a woman they all complained that their husbands were lousy in bed, and also in attentive.
I think what one of you guys said actually hit it on the head...you like the idea of fucking a young gal (one who wouldn't even know you were alive if you didn't come with a couple hundred dollars) with no regard for her pleasure at all. I can't think of anything more self indulgent and absorbed, but at least dude was honest....
The thing is...are you prepared to live in a world where your wife thinks the same way? Because I am here to tell you...some of them do...
That's...
...twice in the same thread.
I cannot honestly say I have been a CLOSE friend with anyone in the sex industry. But as a few people hear who frequent this board know, my persona is somewhat different than "typical"...and hence I suppose I periodically am shared insights that perhaps others are not. Add to that the fact that I actually have dated a couple dancers in years past...and yeah, I would cosign on this.
There is a post somewhere that is supposed to be a quote from an SP on another board....it pretty much sums up how (many..if not most...and of course not all) feel about their clients. And we have ALL read the ranting of ladies that retire, and those who post anonymously (remember "Fabulous" anyone?). You guy WANT to believe they are the rare exception, and want to pretend that when the ladies tell you as much they aren`t doing so to serve their purposes. I am inclined to think the exceptions are the ones who DON`T feel the way these ladies who shared their truth feel...
ETA: Here is the thread
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=2234623#post2234623
tired old perv said:
...twice in the same thread.
I cannot honestly say I have been a CLOSE friend with anyone in the sex industry. But as a few people hear who frequent this board know, my persona is somewhat different than "typical"...and hence I suppose I periodically am shared insights that perhaps others are not. Add to that the fact that I actually have dated a couple dancers in years past...and yeah, I would cosign on this.
There is a post somewhere that is supposed to be a quote from an SP on another board....it pretty much sums up how (many..if not most...and of course not all) feel about their clients. And we have ALL read the ranting of ladies that retire, and those who post anonymously (remember "Fabulous" anyone?). You guy WANT to believe they are the rare exception, and want to pretend that when the ladies tell you as much they aren`t doing so to serve their purposes. I am inclined to think the exceptions are the ones who DON`T feel the way these ladies who shared their truth feel...
ETA: Here is the thread
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=2234623#post2234623
Well here goes.
I'm a wife, meet all three originally posted criteria , PLUS I'm bi and don't mind being watched PLUS We are swingers, PLUS in I'm a high paid professional (non-SP)
And yet my SO still needs to sneak around and frequent MPs EVENTHOUGH I had explicitely made it known to him that a once in a while visit would by no means ruffle my feathers....
Care to analyze??
Cheers
I'm a wife, meet all three originally posted criteria , PLUS I'm bi and don't mind being watched PLUS We are swingers, PLUS in I'm a high paid professional (non-SP)
And yet my SO still needs to sneak around and frequent MPs EVENTHOUGH I had explicitely made it known to him that a once in a while visit would by no means ruffle my feathers....
Care to analyze??
Cheers
All I can think of is that it is the desire for more variety that he is looking for. However...you certainly have given him many times more variety than most guys can even dream of getting (with their wife's approval) so I do understand why it is hard for you to understand it. And frankly hard for me to understand it.Faye999 said:
Maybe suggest to him that he take you along for your own MP experience while he is getting his.
Why men cheat is because their S/O forgot how they got them, especially after
the "I dos"! Being at the top of the food chain, men look for reasons to justify their indiscretions because they hear the word NO tooo often. I have a number of long time friends that are married and the following is the long and short of their situation: The first one has a wife with a Playboy figure but she has so much mental bagage and feminism B/S. We often discuss his episodes at MPs and with civilians: The second one's wife hasn't given him a bj since their wedding night five years ago. I can't wait until he tells me that hes been cheating on the road: The third one sleeps with the enemy. I don't know how he does it after spending $25,000 going through a bitter seperation just to get back together one year later. I can't wait to hear about his wondering eye. We have a saying amoungst us, That Jack always tells the truth. It's just a matter of time and the right amount of alcohol.
Do what makes you happy, life is too short.
the "I dos"! Being at the top of the food chain, men look for reasons to justify their indiscretions because they hear the word NO tooo often. I have a number of long time friends that are married and the following is the long and short of their situation: The first one has a wife with a Playboy figure but she has so much mental bagage and feminism B/S. We often discuss his episodes at MPs and with civilians: The second one's wife hasn't given him a bj since their wedding night five years ago. I can't wait until he tells me that hes been cheating on the road: The third one sleeps with the enemy. I don't know how he does it after spending $25,000 going through a bitter seperation just to get back together one year later. I can't wait to hear about his wondering eye. We have a saying amoungst us, That Jack always tells the truth. It's just a matter of time and the right amount of alcohol.
Do what makes you happy, life is too short.
