Why is she your ATF?

[TigerFlex5]

Gentlemen:

You meet that girl for the first time, you had fun.
You come back a second time!!!
You go again, repeat, and repeat, and repeat again... over and over and over again.

Suddenly, you realize that you are addicted to her!
You accepted your faith.

Question : When is she become your ATF? And why?

Everything is on the table... attractiveness? chemistry? services? affordability? connection? availability? What else?

Tell me _____

 

[Bigbigguy]

Gentlemen:

You meet that girl for the first time, you had fun.
You come back a second time!!!
You go again, repeat, and repeat, and repeat again... over and over and over again.

Suddenly, you realize that you are addicted to her!
You accepted your faith.

Question : When is she become your ATF? And why?

Everything is on the table... attractiveness? chemistry? services? affordability? connection? availability? What else?

Tell me _____

For me the attractiveness got my attention, the personality & services got me to go back for 2nd & 3rd encounter & by then connection & chemistry kept me returning…. Her retirement ended future encounters unfortunately but I still admire her & wish her well in life…., and who knows, retirements frequently are not lasting in the business

 

[arius2021]

For me for sure I need to be attracted but the most important it connection and chemistry, if it's there I will want to repeat over and over.

What will stop me seeing her is availability and affordability.

I do like variety, but I always repeat for amazing experience!

 

[prohibido]

For me for sure I need to be attracted but the most important it connection and chemistry, if it's there I will want to repeat over and over.

What will stop me seeing her is availability and affordability.

I do like variety, but I always repeat for amazing experience!

ATF is Selena from Alpha. Gorgeous, smart and interesting. Seen her before, during and after COVID, in the club and outside the club even after she left Alpha. Can't even remember how many times.
Unfortunately, she's not responding back. She moved on
ATF' is Fiona/Mya/Camila from Alpha. It's the same lady with 3 different name. The chemistry and service and the DFK and DatY were incredible. She moved on as well

 

[2beornot2be]

Chemistry, connection and attractiveness are definitely number one for me. I believe if affordability and availability are your main criteria, something will be lacking in the most important areas. I understand your question obviously but what does ATF means ?

 

[interferon]

For me the attractiveness got my attention, the personality & services got me to go back for 2nd & 3rd encounter & by then connection & chemistry kept me returning…. Her retirement ended future encounters unfortunately but I still admire her & wish her well in life…., and who knows, retirements frequently are not lasting in the business

For me it's what attractiveness means to me first, then more important becomes personality / atitude, but I think the #1 factor is that she understands me, doesn't judge.

 

[ArgoHater]

I understand your question obviously but what does ATF means ?

All Time Favourite

 

[2beornot2be]

All Time Favourite

Thank you. It makes more sense than Google’s answer; Automatic Transmission Fluid lol

 

[the general]

Thank you. It makes more sense than Google’s answer; Automatic Transmission Fluid lol

I don't know, both create lubricant.

 

[2beornot2be]

Going back to the original question, she’s my ATF because she’s the best woman I ever met. Since I met her, she’s my go to, non-stop, week after week. I used to like variety but consistency and what evolves from it is best. You can buy a lot of superficial aspects with money but you can’t buy respect. It’s something that either you have or you don’t and I believe that everything grows from that. Respect is the roots of whatever is going to come next. I treated her with respect, from day one, like a gentleman should and the rest followed naturally like every human interaction should ensue. It’s definitely a different lifestyle than what we are molded into as a society but I never treated her differently because of her choices. She’s the most beautiful and influential person I have ever met in my life. It all started with respect guys

 

[Tango Urilla]

My ATF is my current one who comes over 2-3 times per week. She is my ATF because she is consistent every visit, dresses sexy, always looks sharp (never in sweats and glasses) and keeps in shape. She is always on time and on point and I reward her well for it. A true professional!

 

[luckyme101]

My ATF has become my SB. We have been seeing each other for a long time. We met today in a restaurant for our 9th anniversary celebration.

 

[snagglepuss]

My ATF has become my SB. We have been seeing each other for a long time. We met today in a restaurant for our 9th anniversary celebration.

SB???

 

[ricco_o]

SB???

sugar baby

 

[2beornot2be]

I need to elaborate on my story. I got into the hobby with Snoop Dogg’s mentality of « we don’t love them hoes ». Doing one, doing another. Everything changed with one word she told me. One little single word changed everything….. she told me her name. That’s when I realized that I was doing it wrong for her, myself and for everybody. I am not shy or scared of saying it now, I love her. That’s why she’s my ATF because I f**king love her

 

[TheRiddlerMan]

I need to elaborate on my story. I got into the hobby with Snoop Dogg’s mentality of « we don’t love them hoes ». Doing one, doing another. Everything changed with one word she told me. One little single word changed everything….. she told me her name. That’s when I realized that I was doing it wrong for her, myself and for everybody. I am not shy or scared of saying it now, I love her. That’s why she’s my ATF because I f**king love her

Respect, friendship maybe in some cases but love? That's not part of this world. That would be a big flashing danger sign for most providers.

 

[Assblaster]

There are a few ladies that I absolutely adore and respect that are on my go to list. But I also know it's a business for them I keep it professional and don't ever get caught up with feelings. I'll enjoy my visit until the next time because in-between my visit there are probably a few hundred other clients had their visit.

I definitely have my ATF but I only see them every few months/once in a while as a treat lol

 

[$magnum]

I would my atf for the pas four years is a stripper I met became friends even lived with me she has a regular job today and I would say just a fun good hearted person that we share activities day to day things

 

[Ryeguyonthefly]

I have been hobbying off and on since the 90s. Just over a year ago, I met my ATF. My approach before meeting her had always been to have some fun with a beautiful lady but always remember, that I am paying for a fantasy. Don't let feelings or attraction distract you from remembering that she is paid to offer a fantasy experience.

However, I met my ATF and this changed some things for me. My first experience with her was meant to be the same as my previous experiences with others. When she first walked into the room, I just had rush of excitement that I rarely felt with others. She was absolutely gorgeous with a smile that lit up the room. She had an energy about her that made me feel that there was no other place she would rather be. At one point in this very first meeting, she looked deeply into my eyes which felt like an eternity and I was hooked.

Still, I kept reminding myself that this was all fantasy and not to let attraction or feeling cloud this judgement. But man, how I loved this fantasy. Over the next year and a bit, I saw her as often as I could and our connection grew with each visit. After a while, I lost the focus of keeping fantasy and reality separate and I began to let feelings for this person become real even though i knew it was not going to be reciprocated. I didn't really care as I was enjoying each experience with her. We talked about this on a number of occasions in order to ensure that boundaries were being respected. The last thing I wanted to do was mess this up by crossing boundaries.

I did not think that this type of connection and experience was possible in this industry but am I ever glad that I found it. I am fully aware that it is just a fantasy and that any feelings are one sided, but I am definitely enjoying it!

 

[FLaPenna]

Respect, friendship maybe in some cases but love? That's not part of this world. That would be a big flashing danger sign for most providers.

There are many facets of love, and even more when it comes to feelings. Look into the kinds of love recognized by some of the Greek, Roman, Asian and Middle East writers. Don't think of love as one dimensional. There is erotic love, love between friends, familial love, unconditional love, enduring love, obsessive love, companionate love, playful love, affectionate love, romantic love, consummate love, fatuous love, the list goes on and on, and they develop in stages which can be very enjoyable and rewarding as they evolve. You shouldn't hesitate to explore them with your hobby partner. Many SW experience some of these facets with clients. It need not be obsessive/possessive/all consuming etc. Explore the facets, keep them to yourself or discuss them, whatever you believe to be right and healthy. Read, broaden your mind, don't hold back and explore.

If you try and steer clear of developing "feelings" or experiencing "love" you are going to miss the boat.

I teach classes in love languages as a life coach.