Why is she your ATF?

Bradder780

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I need to elaborate on my story. I got into the hobby with Snoop Dogg’s mentality of « we don’t love them hoes ». Doing one, doing another. Everything changed with one word she told me. One little single word changed everything….. she told me her name. That’s when I realized that I was doing it wrong for her, myself and for everybody. I am not shy or scared of saying it now, I love her. That’s why she’s my ATF because I f**king love her
I was the same, for twenty years it was come and go and a few regulars.
About 18 months ago I met someone who changed my whole world. We both say I love you and it is meant in so many ways.
We are in a hybrid type relationship, I’ve met friends and family and so has she with mine.
She’s called me cying looking for that shoulder and I’ve returned that with my very own troubled thoughts to her listening ear!
So loving a provider is no different than loving anyone else, you have your reasons and it’s amazing!
This girl is by far my ATF and I am hers! ❤
 

Turd Ferguson

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My ATF is a very sweet young and beautiful Woman with whom I met at CMJ about 7 years ago?

Booked my first session with her and I will never forget that day. I am twice her senior but her maturity level was that of a Woman with an old soul?! Intelligent and just great to be with.

I used to see her about once a month.

Her kisses and her lips are incredily soft. Not to go into too much detail, she is the most attractive, affectionate, sexy, comforting and lovely woman I've been with. We had this sexual chemistry that was incredible!

Maddie K!

A Woman that I will remember till the day I die!
 

prohibido

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Selena from Alpha the half Asian one that left 2-3 years ago. Only had one session but wow...I'll keep my lips shut but wow. Never thought I would get service like that in my life.

If anyone knows anything about her pm me plz
How can you only see her once🤯
AFAIK she graduated from uni and I hope she's working in her field!
 

asuran

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ryan_ott

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Been seeing my all time favorite since 2020 as often as she vists. She is the only one I have seen since about 21.
Attraction being the first thing that made me want to meet her. But genuine attitude and overall.personaliy keep me coming back to 1138
 
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themooser

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Been seeing my all time favorite since 2020 as often as she vists. She is the only one I have seen since about 21.
Attraction being the first thing that made me want to meet her. But genuine attitude and overall.personaliy keep me coming back to 1138
who?
 

jeandoe2

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My ATF was due to attractiveness, professionalism and always taking my outfit requests seriously. Unfortunately retired!
 
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dr77ysb

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Thanks for starting such an interesting and positive thread. It really made me pause and reflect on my own journey in this space, which has evolved quite a bit over time. The reasons why I initially started hobbying are very different from what keeps me engaged now.

There are several reasons why I would say she is my All-Time Favorite (ATF). Physical attraction was the initial spark—that’s just human nature, and how most of these connections begin. But what has made her truly stand out is the way our sessions have naturally evolved. Nothing feels forced or overly structured. We just let things flow, and that level of comfort has created a very genuine connection.

What’s also made a lasting impression on me is getting to know her—not just her alter ego in this industry, but the smart, ambitious, driven person behind the persona. I’ve been fortunate to meet some incredibly sharp professionals through this journey, and it’s reminded me to never judge a book by its cover.

I find myself drawn to people with vision, passion, and purpose. While we all need to earn a living, she strikes a rare balance: she’s fair and reasonable when it comes to rates, values building a long-term arrangement, and consistently shows appreciation for that loyalty. That’s not something I take for granted.

Ultimately, she’s my ATF because I genuinely enjoy being around her. We have real conversations, we share laughs, and we’ve even gone on social dates where there are no expectations—just two people spending quality time together. There’s a mutual respect that goes beyond the typical provider-client dynamic.

When I’m with her, even if just for a fleeting moment, she makes me feel seen, appreciated, and like the luckiest guy in the world. That kind of connection is rare—and it’s why she’ll always be my favorite.
 

Sonic Temple

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Gentlemen:

You meet that girl for the first time, you had fun.
You come back a second time!!!
You go again, repeat, and repeat, and repeat again... over and over and over again.

Suddenly, you realize that you are addicted to her!
You accepted your faith.

Question : When is she become your ATF? And why?

Everything is on the table... attractiveness? chemistry? services? affordability? connection? availability? What else?

Tell me _____
For me its is simple - she becomes my ATF the moment I realize that I no longer need to say anything - the comfortability of silence.....and the fact that she truly wants to be where she is at that moment in time.
 

Mandalorian

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Great thread. Thought provoking, actually.

Unfortunately I didn’t even know my ATF was one until it was all over and then the sadness made me realize what I had.

She was simply awesome, and crossed that line I had always so easily enforced between my hobby life and civvy life. We became friends. I enjoyed the almost weekly text chats about life, gave her advice about things and helped her out here and there as long as it was able. Circumstances made me her last client of the night so I often drove her home after her shifts at the club and we stopped for snacks or coffee on the way. It always felt very natural. She would relay her stories about work or school to me and sometimes shared love letters from other clients. Funny how she crawled into my heart over such ordinary things.

At the time when I was booking with her regularly I was also seeing other providers who treated me well, which was why I didn’t think she was my ATF but after she (and the others)retired I only miss her. Thus she’s in a class of one.

I hope she’s doing well, wherever she is. 🥹
 
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tgif44

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Great question. For me it's about 1a. Connection / Chemistry and 1b. "My Type" (i have a preference towards mature (30s/40s) brunettes, D Cup, Athletic, hold a great conversation, and make it feel like we're long lost lovers). Over the years i have prioritized repeat visits with those that meet the criteria (and some that are close) but my ATF remains Demi from circa 2008-2012 (she has long since retired .. sister was Danica who was also an SP ... only remaining online fragment y is https://toronto.sugarnights.com/escorts/demi-2). Can I have 4 ATF - Others over the years that compete with Demi are Crystal Carter (retired 3 years ago), Dalila Delarose (recently retired but website still active - https://dalilad.me/home) and while not brunette, my visits with Angel Monroe (retired ... solos, duos, and a trio - duo/trio always organized fully by her) we're out of this world (trio included Vienna Dao (retired) and Veronica Sway (active)). This simply gets me thinking of others that could join this list! If those in this post that are retired happen to see it - hope you are doing well and know you are very missed - searching for that next "it factor" but you're hard to replace!
 
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My ATF is Evangeline from alpha because she is a very smart young girl who has a very bright future. She is real, for me she is very open and has a great attitude. She’s a sweetheart, she makes each encounter feel like we aren’t even at a massage place. Her voice and her laugh is mesmerizing not to mention she is absolutely beautiful, she has an impeccable sense of style. I wish I could take her home to take care of her but I will keep my boundaries out of respect. I’m very happy I met this gorgeous young lady and I can’t wait to keep making more memories.
Awe wow thank you so much my love
 
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