I travel for work a lot - at home maybe 2-3 months non-consecutive a year. Impossible to maintain a real relationship, cant even have houseplants.
Why do you hobby?
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Working on yourself first is the key. My religion was being active. I am not tall so even tho I looked ok women like tall guys. It was hard but via those physical activities, active girl like active guys. You can do the same via your new passion.
i managed to have my cactus died
.Did had quite a few adventures at different conventions. Dude your wife attends convention? Be wary haha
For me, it's more of an occasional thing. I've identified a few factors that lead me to engage in this hobby, most of which are related to stress—whether from work or relationships.
Typically, I only dabble for about two months before stepping back until I feel the need for that kind of outlet again.
That said, there are times when I simply have the urge to experience something different or seek something my partner doesn't provide.
Typically, I only dabble for about two months before stepping back until I feel the need for that kind of outlet again.
That said, there are times when I simply have the urge to experience something different or seek something my partner doesn't provide.
Losing my virginity was on my bucket list. That's how I got in. Fast forward to today. I managed to not see someone in November but I already withdrew the cash for some action.
The main motivation to seeing an escort is because I don't meet enough women my age who I'm comfortable asking out. I love feeling a woman while she performs sexually. It's hot and a dopamine stimulator. I don't think it's worth waiting around for years and going mentally crazy from the lack of sexual satisfaction (assuming the person does not watch porn). When some people pay $1900 in rent, a few hundred dollars isn't setting me back financially.
What prevents me from seeing an escort? My car does not come in for another month or two, I don't live in a city center, I got addicted to porn again (been trying to quit but whenever I relapse I justify it by saying that the escort wasn't worth it). Hopefully the next escort I see makes quitting porn worth it.
The main motivation to seeing an escort is because I don't meet enough women my age who I'm comfortable asking out. I love feeling a woman while she performs sexually. It's hot and a dopamine stimulator. I don't think it's worth waiting around for years and going mentally crazy from the lack of sexual satisfaction (assuming the person does not watch porn). When some people pay $1900 in rent, a few hundred dollars isn't setting me back financially.
What prevents me from seeing an escort? My car does not come in for another month or two, I don't live in a city center, I got addicted to porn again (been trying to quit but whenever I relapse I justify it by saying that the escort wasn't worth it). Hopefully the next escort I see makes quitting porn worth it.
Very similar experience to mine - prior to relationship and marriage I hobbied because I didn't want to date and it was just easier, when we started dating the sex was fun but vanilla (not that I'm a freak, but the same routine of mish, doggy no oral either way etc. gets boring) after marriage it stopped for years, so I hobbied, but we still had fun, traveled etc. then she decided it was time for kids so we had just enough sex to get 2 then it stopped again for years, so I hobbied, now it's like maybe 3-4 times a year, not enough for me, so I hobby, infrequently i.e. only when I need it and it's not coming at home.For me it's complete lack of sex with my wife. I do not hate her, she is great company and we are good friends. First few years after getting married I tried a lot to initiate for sex but it felt so one-sided, feels like she is just forcing herself to do it so stopped completely. She has zero sex drive, zero. Man has need so started 8 yrs back and going on. If she ever genuinely comes forward for sex I will stop hobbying. I have never had emotional attachment with anyone else and not looking for it. I am willing to go old with my wife. However, I also don't want to deny myself with the pleasure of life.
LOL every time I rub one out to porn I feel like I saved $300 since I no longer need to see a MA/SP for a few days, rinse and repeat.
I see I’m not the only one !!! When it gets too complicated, I tell myself the same thing too thinking I’m suddenly the smartest person on the planet. But the week after I find myself being the same dumb a** doing it doggy style in a random hotel room
