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Ross Eyerie

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Maybe I'm goin off on a rant here...I figured the fellow terbites here would have some insightful comments on this topic...

I haven't searched if it's been asked before... and I guess it applies to both men and women....

I'm sure most of us hobbyists are in some sort of a monogamous relationship.

I guess I'm wondering why do we still go out to find a sex partner (escort or mistress) if we're in a happy and satisfying relationship with someone?

Why do we do what we do?

Is it for the thrill of it? Are we selfish? Are we selfish in that we're not satisfied with one pussy? But we like the challenge of finding different pussy?

What are some of your thoughts and opinions?
 
Ross Eyerie said:
Maybe I'm goin off on a rant here...I figured the fellow terbites here would have some insightful comments on this topic...

I haven't searched if it's been asked before... and I guess it applies to both men and women....

I'm sure most of us hobbyists are in some sort of a monogamous relationship.

I guess I'm wondering why do we still go out to find a sex partner (escort or mistress) if we're in a happy and satisfying relationship with someone?

Why do we do what we do?

Is it for the thrill of it? Are we selfish? Are we selfish in that we're not satisfied with one pussy? But we like the challenge of finding different pussy?

What are some of your thoughts and opinions?
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Simple answer: natural selection.

Natural selection chose those males that spread their genes the most. Basically, males that mated with the most females had the most offspring, and so their genes were passed on more frequently. Those who were not interested in sex at all did not have children, and so that trait was not passed on. So it's in our genes.
 
its fun. I enjoy it. selfish? yes. probably bad and immoral too.
 
Ross Eyerie said:
I'm sure most of us hobbyists are in some sort of a monogamous relationship.
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wouldn't hobbying negate the monogamous portion of a relationship?
 
Ross Eyerie said:
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I'm sure most of us hobbyists are in some sort of a monogamous relationship.

I guess I'm wondering why do we still go out to find a sex partner (escort or mistress) if we're in a happy and satisfying relationship with someone?

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That's a pretty naive assumption...

If you,ve spent any time browsing around terb, you should know that your assertion is simply not true.

Hobbyists range from young, first time virgins to senior citizen veterens. Single, co-habiting, married, divorced, widowed. Happy or not so much. Some guys are in "happy" but sexless relationships, others just don't get enough and "need" to visit the ladies occasionally or regularly. Some single guys claim that life is less complicated and cheaper paying Sps than having a GF. Some guys feel guilty about hobbying, some guys think it's no different than getting a massage or a haircut. And on and on...........

There is no such thing as typical when it comes to hobbying.
 
Well...I don't hobby...

Ross Eyerie said:
Maybe I'm goin off on a rant here...I figured the fellow terbites here would have some insightful comments on this topic...

I haven't searched if it's been asked before... and I guess it applies to both men and women....

I'm sure most of us hobbyists are in some sort of a monogamous relationship.

I guess I'm wondering why do we still go out to find a sex partner (escort or mistress) if we're in a happy and satisfying relationship with someone?

Why do we do what we do?

Is it for the thrill of it? Are we selfish? Are we selfish in that we're not satisfied with one pussy? But we like the challenge of finding different pussy?

What are some of your thoughts and opinions?
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...but I fuck around because I am a womanizer.

I am certain it is a self esteem issue of some sort.

I have also been told that it probably relates to my ADHD.

And I know I "self medicate" with sex.

Is it selfish? Well...yes.

Is it about "the challenge"? Nope. I HATE "the challenge", even though I'd give myself a 6 or 7 out of 10 in regards to my competence at it.

Mostly it is about the fact that nothing beats pussy...except new pussy...
 
Yeah, the OP obviously doesn't know what he's talking about when it comes to hobbyists.

I for one am not involved with anyone and if I was, I wouldn't hobby. The reasons we hobby are as varied as the age of the terbites. There is no one set answer.

I hobby because I have neither the time nor inclination to "play the game" any longer so whenever I feel the need for some female company, I call up a hottie and have some fun.
 
MLAM said:
Mostly it is about the fact that nothing beats pussy...except new pussy...
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That pretty much sums it up for me.

It's certainly NOT about procreation in any way shape or form.
 
I love the variety and don't have time to wine and dine or even attempt to play the game. Plus a mistress is so much work and in the end I would get bored. Sp's are perfect, pay my coin, have my fun, and no strings attached.
 
I do it because it feels good...

Its that simple
 
Ross Eyerie said:
if we're in a happy and satisfying relationship with someone?

Why do we do what we do
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If you are happy and you're satisfied, then you don't.

If you "do what we do" then it means you are not truly happy/and or satisfied. You may think you are but you're bullshitting yourself.
 
The evolution explanation seems absurd to me. If we are mysteriously and unconsciously impelled to copulate due to genetic manipulation via natural selection, you'd think that men would be just as impelled to make sure the gal got pregnant. The philanderers seem to excel at thwarting the "survival of the fittingest" law.
 
What you are talking about...

mildandlazy said:
The evolution explanation seems absurd to me. If we are mysteriously and unconsciously impelled to copulate due to genetic manipulation via natural selection, you'd think that men would be just as impelled to make sure the gal got pregnant. The philanderers seem to excel at thwarting the "survival of the fittingest" law.
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...is the difference between instinct and the rational brain having ultimate control.

Tie Domi for some reasons wants to pick a fight with you in a bar.

Your body prepares you for the fight no matter what. Adrenalin rushes, senses heighten, etc.

Your rational brain tells you that, hey, your didn't really like that bar stool...or the girl it is next to that you used to date until 2 minutes ago, all that much anyway.

See how that works?
 
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