I was at a point in my life where my thought was 'is that all there is?' So I decided to see someone, an Indy MP. SO-So experience (at least for me, I didn't know what I was doing) with the top rated MP in the London area. So then I tried a SP, couldn't get the lady I wanted so made a second call -complete disaster. Tried a couple more times, ups and downs. Finally connected with the lady I originally wanted to see and we clicked. Have been seeing her for the last 9-10 years. We are now good friends and our time is off the clock although I try to take care of her, emotionally and physically (listening to her problems and trying to talk through them; take her out for meals, cash for incidentals -I'm not her sugar daddy) We have become very close and look forward to our time together. If things were different in my personal life, I would very much consider a more lasting relationship.