I wonder about this thread. Is some the divide here between guys who are looking for specific sex acts/PSE and guys looking for GFE?
I was talking to an SP about the types of clients she has and she said that some guys immediately want to discuss the menu and get to it. Some even stay for half their time because once they're done they leave. Other guys want to talk for a while and get to know the girl and take things slower.
SPs are also different here too. Some SPs do not want to talk the clients more than just what's needed to do the session and even up-charge for 'GFE'. Others won't start with you until you've established some kind of connection. I personally love SPs who talk about their lives and remember things about me during the next session. I love hearing about their dream projects or about their favorite family members or weird quirks. It feels like a relationship. It's just that we're both clear we're not here for anything more than the boundaries/rules already established.
I'm just thinking about the posts where some guys are like "you're an idiot, it's just a business, get what you need and leave" and others are like "falling for SPs is part of the experience and it's cool (just don't take it too far)." Maybe all this is more about the different types of people who participate than the right way to approach things?
I was talking to an SP about the types of clients she has and she said that some guys immediately want to discuss the menu and get to it. Some even stay for half their time because once they're done they leave. Other guys want to talk for a while and get to know the girl and take things slower.
SPs are also different here too. Some SPs do not want to talk the clients more than just what's needed to do the session and even up-charge for 'GFE'. Others won't start with you until you've established some kind of connection. I personally love SPs who talk about their lives and remember things about me during the next session. I love hearing about their dream projects or about their favorite family members or weird quirks. It feels like a relationship. It's just that we're both clear we're not here for anything more than the boundaries/rules already established.
I'm just thinking about the posts where some guys are like "you're an idiot, it's just a business, get what you need and leave" and others are like "falling for SPs is part of the experience and it's cool (just don't take it too far)." Maybe all this is more about the different types of people who participate than the right way to approach things?