Why aren´t most dancers open for business?

[solitaria]

No matter how often you post it or how hard you try explaining it, this is a principle which most Terbites on the SC page will probably never accept or understand.

I guess I must be dumb for thinking the hot-looking strippers that do fuck me for cash are just doing me for the cash and on top of that are most definitely doing all the other guys who are offering her the same amount of cash.

The posts that you read about YMMV in the vast amount of cases are from guys with incredibly low self-esteem wanting to believe that they are getting something the majority of other guys aren´t because that is the only confirmation they are getting and it is a desperate attempt to rectify their egos. Yeah if you are hot-looking you will undoubtedly get more girls to sleep with you based on your looks but you won´t get that many more girls to decide to fuck you for money since its a different criteria all together. It´s always about one or the other; she is either fucking you because she is attracted to you or she is fucking you for your money and if you have offered her cash for sex it shouldn´t take an Einstein to figure out which one she is fucking you for and if you feel special because a girl that wants your money paid you attention and told you so you are a complete fucking mark.

Basically if you are looking for confirmation through a conquest the only valid feedback is from the girls that you find outside the clubs that don´t play for pay. If the only hot girls you have dated are strippers then you aren´t a player and it is not really dating.

 

[Meesh]

The posts that you read about YMMV in the vast amount of cases are from guys with incredibly low self-esteem wanting to believe that they are getting something the majority of other guys aren´t because that is the only confirmation they are getting and it is a desperate attempt to rectify their egos.

And you know this how? Done a research paper?

 

[Hard Idle]

I guess I must be dumb for thinking the hot-looking strippers that do fuck me for cash are just doing me for the cash and on top of that are most definitely doing all the other guys who are offering her the same amount of cash.
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No, it's not dumb, it's just extremely limited.

Some strippers have set prices and offer the same services to everyone, other's don't.

The point of doing pleasure work in the SC is that they can do as much or as little as they feel like.

Yes, the lines in the sand are very arbitrary. Some dancers need to have certain rules or restrictions in order to keep a stright face when they say they are not in the sex business. Call it the Clinton/Lewinsky Non-Intercouse clause.

Rules - wether they are service restrictions, or erratic attendance, not exchanging phone numbers ect. - are probably a way for a stripper to tell herself she is not on the slippery slope to becoming one of those girls - a sex work dead ender.

Many customers also have petty rules they live by: refuse to buy gifts, won't follow a dancer to another club, won't pay for break songs, won't schedule visits ... all things which might increase their mileage with a flexible-rules dancers, but they won't do it just so that they can claim "I'm not a sucker! I'm a smart customer! I've got this under control..."

 

[MindJohn]

So I was sitting in the Brass Rail after work and I was wondering why the higher end eye candy there won’t fuck for money.

The answer to this is simple, and yet completely overlooked by so many here:


They don't have to !!


You see, in many ways the sex industry resembles real life.

 

[canbreathethroughearsmale]

Well, I've dj'd in the strip bar business, and if a girl wants the freedom to provide that type of service, she doesn't do it there. Yes, she could go home with someone after, but if on schedule, one has to follow a schedule too. If they are in it to be an SP at a strip club, the only ones who you are going to get that way, are ones that don't want to set up shop or join an agency in my opinion. Others just want to make money taking off their clothes because they don't want the rest. If a girl is staying at the rooms provided to them if they are out of town or just stay there, alot are very strict on checking the rooms as well, so it also makes it harder. That's just my opinion on this subject anyway

 

[solitaria]

Finally some more people that read my post. It´s amazing how many people didn´t answer my simple question of why most dancers choose not to fuck for money but instead made it about something entirely different like how I am a loser wanting sex for money or how it is about charm and looks with the irony of stating that on an escort board being completely lost on them.

 

[RTRD]

Because...

And you know this how? Done a research paper?

..he knows everything.

For example, how he assumes that anyone who has every dated a striper outside the club must have paid for it...or how "most" dancers chose not to fuck for money when most of us know "most" dancers at some point or another do it...

 

[booboobear]

With that line of thinking, why not ask the girl serving you coffee at Timmies why she won't fuck for money?

Some will .

 

[booboobear]

When the Timmy's girl says, "What would you like?" Isn't that "just degrees" too?

The "biological necessity" you referred to above is really the need to procreate; there's nothing 'necessary' about fucking for fun. .

This is where you are totally wrong regular sex is known to lower blood pressure and stress and is a necessity . The fact that most single and married men don't get enough is a direct cause of stress related rage .

 

[booboobear]

An invasion of the body , I can't stop laughing you are hilarious.
Exactly how many women have told you this.


I really think you should get a tv show giving advice on women's bodies hah hahahhhhhha

 

[RTRD]

I forget...

An invasion of the body , I can't stop laughing you are hilarious.
Exactly how many women have told you this.


I really think you should get a tv show giving advice on women's bodies hah hahahhhhhha

...how many long term relationships with women have you been in again?

When was the last time you slept with a woman and spent the night talking to her, versus her gathering her things and money and leaving?

If you don't think that making the decision to open you legs and allow someone physically inside of you involves a bit of contemplation, then you don't know most women....

I gentlely remind you that most women are not SPs, and most women do not take sex - even causal sex - lightly. They are pretty selective about who they have it with.

Now why don't we go back to pretending the other doesn't exist - or haven't you noticed that I NEVER respond to your posts unless they are directed at me (even those that reference me)...but you insist on commenting on mine?

 

[booboobear]

...how many long term relationships with women have you been in again?

When was the last time you slept with a woman and spent the night talking to her, versus her gathering her things and money and leaving?

If you don't think that making the decision to open you legs and allow someone physically inside of you involves a bit of contemplation, then you don't know most women....

I gentlely remind you that most women are not SPs, and most women do not take sex - even causal sex - lightly. They are pretty selective about who they have it with.

Now why don't we go back to pretending the other doesn't exist - or haven't you noticed that I NEVER respond to your posts unless they are directed at me (even those that reference me)...but you insist on commenting on mine?

Well I obviously haven'th had your vast experience and of course he 20 women or 200 women you have had represent all the women lets say aprrox 3 billion or 2 billion. As far as women being selective yes I have seen exactly how selective they are , they screw whom they want not necessarily good people , character is not a criteria for most women screwing , physical attraction is . If you should have learned anything from your vast experience it is that . Women do not reason they react . I still say invasion of their body ha.
I suppose an sp can screw 1000 men but not another one who might be invading her body who is not paying , lets see if you understand that .