Where do you prefer?

Where do you prefer to see your lady?

  • Hotel/motel

    Votes: 51 56.0%
  • Air BnB

    Votes: 2 2.2%
  • Private residence.

    Votes: 38 41.8%

  • Total voters
    91
  • Poll closed .

Sonic Temple

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Personally condos is great - get the buzz code and walk right in and even a friendly smile to the the security. If they decide to stop me - I let them know - 'you saw me get buzzed in.....right'. End of story.
 
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sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
Personally condos is great - get the buzz code and walk right in and even a friendly smile to the the security. If they decide to stop me - I let them know - 'you saw me get buzzed in.....right'. End of story.

Sometimes the security can be really nosy.

Personally, I would be scared to host in a condo. If someone finds out .. you're busted and could get kicked out & if the place is yours , well you can kiss your lease goodbye.
 

Don Draper

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My place. My place only. Nothing else is possible.

My bed. My sheets. My music. My booze. My food. My ambience. I am the perfect host and will not have it any other way.

The thought of an incall with sheets stained with cum of the guy who was there 30 minutes prior is repulsive on so many levels. Disgusting.

Incalls are for losers who are hiding from spouses and can only fuck for 15 minutes. Lucky if that many minutes.

Freedom IS the most precious commodity.
 

sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
My place. My place only. Nothing else is possible.

My bed. My sheets. My music. My booze. My food. My ambience. I am the perfect host and will not have it any other way.

The thought of an incall with sheets stained with cum of the guy who was there 30 minutes prior is repulsive on so many levels. Disgusting.

Incalls are for losers who are hiding from spouses and can only fuck for 15 minutes. Lucky if that many minutes.


Freedom IS the most precious commodity.
I strongly disagree with your comment about incalls. They are not losers. They are men who can not host from their place for obvious reasons.

Its nice that you are able to host though.
 

GeeBee

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My place. My place only. Nothing else is possible.

My bed. My sheets. My music. My booze. My food. My ambience. I am the perfect host and will not have it any other way.

The thought of an incall with sheets stained with cum of the guy who was there 30 minutes prior is repulsive on so many levels. Disgusting.

Incalls are for losers who are hiding from spouses and can only fuck for 15 minutes. Lucky if that many minutes.


Freedom IS the most precious commodity.
I'm not sure who's incalls you've been in, but you clearly need to start seeing some different SP's.

Done right, a woman's incall is a comfortable place for both her and her client. It reflects her personality and is a place where she feels safe and secure, much more so than a hotel or a client's home. The best experience with an SP is when she's happy :) FYI my preference is to spend 3 hours with my chosen companions and we usually seem to fill the time quite nicely thank you.

She also may just have a toy drawer full of surprises :)
 

Don Draper

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I strongly disagree with your comment about incalls. They are not losers. They are men who can not host from their place for obvious reasons.

Its nice that you are able to host though.

If "for obvious reasons" you mean that your place is being renovated, elderly parents are visiting, paint fumes need to cleared or the cleaning lady is doing her thing, then I totally get it. If you can not host at your place because you're sneaking around behind somebody's back, then your freedom has been compromised and why would anyone put themselves in that situation?


I'm not sure who's incalls you've been in, but you clearly need to start seeing some different SP's.

Well, that's the point, isn't it? I don't have to see 'different' SP's. I don't have to do an out call. I never want to be part of a revolving door.

I have a girl at my place like the guest that she is. Whether she's an SP or some other girl I've just met with romantic potential.
 

sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
If "for obvious reasons" you mean that your place is being renovated, elderly parents are visiting, paint fumes need to cleared or the cleaning lady is doing her thing, then I totally get it. If you can not host at your place because you're sneaking around behind somebody's back, then your freedom has been compromised and why would anyone put themselves in that situation?



Well, that's the point, isn't it? I don't have to see 'different' SP's. I don't have to do an out call. I never want to be part of a revolving door.

I have a girl at my place like the guest that she is. Whether she's an SP or some other girl I've just met with romantic potential.
You do realize that there are tons of married men who do this, right ? They do it not because they don't love their wife but because their relationship lacks sexual intimacy. Im sure if they could host at their place of residence they would , however they can't .

I don't think you are in any position to judge anybody who does this. Just because you can host out of your place does not make you superior to the other men.

Also, im sure you are aware that you are not the only client a lady has right?
 

Don Draper

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You do realize that there are tons of married men who do this, right ? They do it not because they don't love their wife but because their relationship lacks sexual intimacy. Im sure if they could host at their place of residence they would , however they can't .

I don't think you are in any position to judge anybody who does this. Just because you can host out of your place does not make you superior to the other men.

Also, im sure you are aware that you are not the only client a lady has right?

My freedom is not compromised. I never married in order to maintain my lifestyle. My freedom is precious. I will die happy and single. That's the plan. Women come and go. That's as sure as day and night. Some were worth more effort than others.

A reason or a season. Women are lovely.

If not for all the relationships I've had, I would have not have visited beautiful cities in Asia, Europe and South America. I am so thankful for that. Greatest memories of my life. These were not SP's, just lovely women. Many would have made great companions in life but I know my freedom is paramount as there would always be another new woman and there always is.

I've dodged a couple of bullets. No regrets at all.

If a man took an oath to "forsake all others", then he should honour that oath. That's his own personal integrity. Those words came out of his mouth, not mine. No one held a gun to their head. I was always clear and never fell down that rabbit hole. I never wanted to sneak behind somebody's back.

I am not superior. I just know where I stand. I only judge myself, not others. You, on your own, are your judge. Live with your choices.

And, personally, I don't care how many clients a lady has before or after me. Let her enjoy.
 
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csmitting

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Hey everyone! :)

Where do you prefer to see the ladies?

I have always been curious as to what you gentleman prefer.
No really preference between condo, hotel, commercial property.

Amenities wise: tidy, lay off the perfumes, parking, clean towels and soap. Mouth wash and paper cups is always an appreciated nice touch.
 
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csmitting

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My bestie rented on in St.Johns when he came to visit me on a tour out there. They had cameras but they were not hidden. They let you know and it was clear they had them. Only on the door and in the living room.

I rented one in Trent Hills once and they were on site with a one bedroom suite attached to their house, great staycation place, and they didn’t.

It always made me wonder if those host who are site would be less likely to have them vrs a host who is not on site.

But yes - lots of stories of hidden cameras.
I don’t know why, but cameras out in the open sounds more creepy to me.
 

IM469

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Limited selection. I was looking for - the backseat of your car behind a local Timmy's.
 
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sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
No really preference between condo, hotel, commercial property.

Amenities wise: tidy, lay off the perfumes, parking, clean towels and soap. Mouth wash and paper cups is always an appreciated nice touch.
Yes i notice alot of guys wil ask for no perfume. I think these are simple/ basic necessities that every girl should have/ follow.
 
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barnacler

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I HATE motels the most, often in the summer there is a bunch of people sitting out in chairs right next to her damn room.

I will not go to one now.

Not fond of hotels either, hate walking through the lobby.

I also hate ANY place where I hear there are a bunch of girls working. Or a drug-infested place or area.

So I like private residence - either a house or better an apartment. I always carry something, like a briefcase or leather portfolio.

If ever asked, I am going to see something from kijiji. I collect antique pens, whatever.

I am finally starting to overcome the need to constantly try new women though, thank heavens, so I rarely have these issues any more.
 

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I like erotic massage parlours. Once I visited parlour in Kiev with friends. Their massauses are so hot and sensual, it was awesome experience. I've tried almost all types of massages in the past few months, but the best erotic massage. Great way to relax and forget about everything.
 
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sweetiepieexo

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anywhere i want;)
No really preference between condo, hotel, commercial property.

Amenities wise: tidy, lay off the perfumes, parking, clean towels and soap. Mouth wash and paper cups is always an appreciated nice touch.
Yes i find lots of guys appreciate the amenities . However , sometimes even when we provide towels or cups for mouth wash , some guys just dont use them.
 
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