shyness - a rare commodity?

[star003]

on this forum we talk a lot about various parameters to rate the service and person but anyone who has been into a real relationship would know how those starts. sometime with a bit of hesitation, awkwardness, shyness.
how valuable are these parameters for you personally? do you still crave for it? do you feel it’s important and makes the sex which follows after more exciting or you find it complete waste of time and prefer to cut the crap.

 

[xmontrealer]

if you seek true shyness in an escort I suggest you try an HPL new hire. They're the most likely to be truly shy, at least in the first week or so, often being new to the industry.

Or you could always ask the escort to "act shy"...

Most escorts, after a little time to get used to the industry and the parade of men, lose their natural shyness pretty quick...

 

[star003]

if you seek true shyness in an escort I suggest you try an HPL new hire. They're the most likely to be truly shy, at least in the first week or so, often being new to the industry.

Or you could always ask the escort to "act shy"...

Most escorts, after a little time to get used to the industry and the parade of men, lose their natural shyness pretty quick...

i have been lucky enough to experience many such instances in real life dating and even with SPs…thts a different goose bump experience…only those knows who have lived through it..

 

[OntGuy2010]

I don't really look for it, but I think you are right in general! Can be an "enhancer" if things work out.

 

[Sonic Temple]

I find those characteristics in our industry to be of no value simply because we are on the clock. I def. see the value in starting a relationship because you are getting to know them over a emotional connection. In our industry emotion is put on hold and fantasy takes over. Great thread for a great topic to be discussed.

 

[star003]

I find those characteristics in our industry to be of no value simply because we are on the clock. I def. see the value in starting a relationship because you are getting to know them over a emotional connection. In our industry emotion is put on hold and fantasy takes over. Great thread for a great topic to be discussed.

yes offcourse, it’s a luxury product. asks for time, patience and perseverance.

 

[Tptestuser]

I’ll offer a counter opinion. I don’t disagree that a big part of this industry is fantasy fulfillment, but…

What if the fantasy is that emotional connection?

I like authenticity, whatever that means. I want the real person. If she’s shy, that’s great. If she’s outgoing, that’s great.

What I want is that spark where you feel like you’re into each other. Like, really into each other. I want to make her laugh. I want to spoon afterwards and in-between. I want her to feel at ease… and it’s rewarding if that’s earned from start to finish and not completely granted. If someone moves from shy to completely at ease and it’s because she likes me and enjoys my company? That’s even better than feeling like a stud.

It’s a tightrope, sure. And it’s not a frequent or common experience… but when it happens? Oh, I’m in heaven.

 

[star003]

these feelings are double edged sword though. sounds as good to hear but when these real feelings gets attached then it’s not easy to back out.

 

[Tptestuser]

these feelings are double edged sword though. sounds as good to hear but when these real feelings gets attached then it’s not easy to back out.

That’s the tightrope, to be sure. It’s definitely exciting. And, yeah, I definitely like like those who I like.