When SPs call you "hon" or "honey"

[69Shooter]

What do you guys call the SPs without offending them? I'm thinking maybe babydoll, baby, sweetie?

Try one of these... cunt, whore, bitch and let us know what happens.

 

[Belleville69]

Man, some of you guys are a little over sensitive

 

[Belleville69]

There is a lovely, normal woman with no need for apologies.



There's another lovely woman whose company any man would truly enjoy.



There's what happens when the medication seizes to work and vent up frustrations of many-a-decade rear their ugly head.

Exactly!!

 

[MattRoxx]

Can't imagine why anyone would have a problem with it. Those who are offended by it are reading way too much into it. These are terms of affection. Let's not discourage women from being affectionate

Same here; I can't imagine why it would be a problem, and I don't expect them to call me by my email address because that isn't even a proper name.


There's an SP who always uses "hun" in emails and texts, but says "baby" in person, so for a while I thought she had someone else answering her emails

 

[Omorashi]

There's what happens when the medication seizes to work and vent up frustrations of many-a-decade rear their ugly head.

You can't come to such a sweeping conclusion from such limited data. I merely wanted to light some fires,pass time, increase post count, and spark a discussion. That is all. I am not Jack the Ripper.

 

[Art Mann]

I merely wanted to light some fires, and pass some gas.

Fixed your post.

 

[Catherine St.Claire]

I just had a conversation about this with a young SP when we were assessing her phone manners. I advised against using cute terms of endearment until meeting someone. When talking business I feel "Sir" or their names are the only acceptable options. I call all clients "Sir" until we have been introduced as a sign of respect, not because the guest may be old. It is simply good manners. What makes it all so much easier is when a client calls and introduces himself at the beginning of a conversation before asking for details. Then the SP can use his name instead.

cat

 

[Wizard Merlin]

Thanks Daddy... I would hope that if it bothered anyone that they would say something like you did rather than say nothing and just hate it...

I wouldn't like to be called daddy, that's way to freaking creepy. Although I Didn't mind being called Pappi while I was greeking this one cute Cubana girl. She asked me to call her mamasita in return.

All other terms of 'endearment" are all good with me. It's not what they say, it's how they say it that matters.

 

[train]

I just had a conversation about this with a young SP when we were assessing her phone manners. I advised against using cute terms of endearment until meeting someone. When talking business I feel "Sir" or their names are the only acceptable options. I call all clients "Sir" until we have been introduced as a sign of respect, not because the guest may be old. It is simply good manners. What makes it all so much easier is when a client calls and introduces himself at the beginning of a conversation before asking for details. Then the SP can use his name instead.

cat

Bingo, I would certainly respond the best to this approach.

 

[red]

I just had a conversation about this with a young SP when we were assessing her phone manners. I advised against using cute terms of endearment until meeting someone. When talking business I feel "Sir" or their names are the only acceptable options. I call all clients "Sir" until we have been introduced as a sign of respect, not because the guest may be old. It is simply good manners. What makes it all so much easier is when a client calls and introduces himself at the beginning of a conversation before asking for details. Then the SP can use his name instead.

cat

also the client could be a knight.

 

[wigglee]

what about when guys call us SP's babe.baby.sweety.sexy,ma among many others..
I politley ask to not be called that and give them my name.. but that sometimes still does not work . some guys get pissed and refuse to see you ..
I use to say hun but find myself saying my dear latley.. but if you do not like it then simply ask us not to call you that...

right on, baby!

 

[MissCroft]

I didn't read through the thread so I apologize if I say the exact same thing as someone else. But yes, I agree with the ladies...

I don't mind being called sweetie or baby, etc. but I find some guys talk down to me or talk to me in such a way like they assume I have no intelligence. That is very irritating!

 

[Kenny-sauga]

Noting compares when a French (real French or French Canadian) calls me "mon cherie" or "cherie"...ah memories!!!

 

[Mod100]

I dont mind when an industry lady calls me hun, sweetie, etc. But I switched business centers when this young hottie working at the UPS center started calling me "hun." She is young enough to be my daughter and still cant understand why she would call me "hun" when she knew my name.

Careful. You might be just another trophy to her.

 

[milehigh]

Actually I love the names... I think they are really cool.

 

[Joe-Dart54]

most sps just calls me "YOU" lol, i think 1 or 2 sps long long time ago called me hon....

 

[Mr. Lucky]

It's either Honey or they call you slut. Deal with it

 

[smilybob]

My ATF always use to call me honey or handsome when we messaged each other until I she asked me if I liked it. I told her not really and then she just started calling me by hey or not even addressing me. I told her after a while that I liked it better when she called me by a terms of endearment. Now she calls me sweetie which is much better than hey you.

 

[Aardvark154]

When SPs call you "hon" or "honey" I FUCKING HATE IT! It demasculinizes me and shifts the balance of power in favour of the SP.

In part it probably gets under your skin because it tends to be used by older women - for instance waitresses, with younger customers.

 

[delishio]

My ATF always use to call me honey or handsome when we messaged each other until I she asked me if I liked it. I told her not really and then she just started calling me by hey or not even addressing me. I told her after a while that I liked it better when she called me by a terms of endearment. Now she calls me sweetie which is much better than hey you.

I tell everyone my name is "Yu" LOL