what the hell is wrong with me?

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destillat

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So I have this FWB.

We hooked up for a while about a decade ago, and recently re-connected.
She's attractive, has a great body, can take it like a champ and sounds really hot when she's getting fucked (moans and squeals).
But the past two times we were supposed to hook up (last night, and one night last week), I found myself bailing at the last minute.

She seems completely uninterested in creating sexual tension before we get together.
She doesn't seem to know what dirty talk is even after my coaxing attempts.
She's admitted to me that she isn't a very horny person and doesn't really crave sex all that often.
She doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral.

When she does come over, we chat for a bit, head upstairs and fuck for an hour or so, cuddle for a few minutes then she takes off.
Perfect, right? Then why am I bored of her?

Just goes to show you that sex isn't just about the penis and vagina.
 
destillat said:
So I have this FWB.

We hooked up for a while about a decade ago, and recently re-connected.
She's attractive, has a great body, can take it like a champ and sounds really hot when she's getting fucked (moans and squeals).
But the past two times we were supposed to hook up (last night, and one night last week), I found myself bailing at the last minute.

She seems completely uninterested in creating sexual tension before we get together.
She doesn't seem to know what dirty talk is even after my coaxing attempts.
She's admitted to me that she isn't a very horny person and doesn't really crave sex all that often.
She doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral.

When she does come over, we chat for a bit, head upstairs and fuck for an hour or so, cuddle for a few minutes then she takes off.
Perfect, right? Then why am I bored of her?

Just goes to show you that sex isn't just about the penis and vagina.
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Maybe you are subconsciously searching for GFE instead of PSE lol.
 
destillat said:
She's admitted to me that she isn't a very horny person and doesn't really crave sex all that often.
She doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral.

When she does come over, we chat for a bit, head upstairs and fuck for an hour or so, cuddle for a few minutes then she takes off.
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She doesn't enjoy sex, not interested in oral but comes over for a hard pounding. Maybe she has some kind of vaginal itch that needs scratching ? :confused:
 
You're "bored of her" because:

1. Sexually, she is self-admittedly boring.

2. The novelty of this sexual partner has worn off.

3. The sex is predictably uninspired and unexciting.

4. You have better, more exciting, more novel and more gratifying casual sexual opportunities available through p4p.

So, you are just basically using her vagina to masturbate in and she is trading the use of her vagina for your company.
 
Perhaps she only wants to get pregnant.
 
destillat said:
So I have this FWB.

We hooked up for a while about a decade ago, and recently re-connected.
She's attractive, has a great body, can take it like a champ and sounds really hot when she's getting fucked (moans and squeals).
But the past two times we were supposed to hook up (last night, and one night last week), I found myself bailing at the last minute.

She seems completely uninterested in creating sexual tension before we get together.
She doesn't seem to know what dirty talk is even after my coaxing attempts.
She's admitted to me that she isn't a very horny person and doesn't really crave sex all that often.
She doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral.

When she does come over, we chat for a bit, head upstairs and fuck for an hour or so, cuddle for a few minutes then she takes off.
Perfect, right? Then why am I bored of her?

Just goes to show you that sex isn't just about the penis and vagina.
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There is nothing wrong with being gay
 
red said:
There is nothing wrong with being gay
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Ha!

nothing wrong with the OP. Sex gets old. She's not escalating physical or emotional intensity. You've peaked.
 
It may sound harsh but it sounds like she just wants to get pounded occasionally. And you're there to do it when she wants it.


Is it possible that she has a boyfriend? And/or you're her 'booty-call'? Again, not trying to sound harsh but that seems like a possibility.
 
destillat said:
So I have this FWB.

We hooked up for a while about a decade ago, and recently re-connected.
She's attractive, has a great body, can take it like a champ and sounds really hot when she's getting fucked (moans and squeals).
But the past two times we were supposed to hook up (last night, and one night last week), I found myself bailing at the last minute.

She seems completely uninterested in creating sexual tension before we get together.
She doesn't seem to know what dirty talk is even after my coaxing attempts.
She's admitted to me that she isn't a very horny person and doesn't really crave sex all that often.
She doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral.

When she does come over, we chat for a bit, head upstairs and fuck for an hour or so, cuddle for a few minutes then she takes off.
Perfect, right? Then why am I bored of her?

Just goes to show you that sex isn't just about the penis and vagina.
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You should dump her or break up with her. There's tons of girls who want penis.
 
Azazel said:
Sex without passion or intimacy can be boring.
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No way..haha. C'mon passion and intimacy is the most important things you'll need for sex. Or for repeat sex.
 
destillat said:
So I have this FWB.

We hooked up for a while about a decade ago, and recently re-connected.
She's attractive, has a great body, can take it like a champ and sounds really hot when she's getting fucked (moans and squeals).
But the past two times we were supposed to hook up (last night, and one night last week), I found myself bailing at the last minute.

She seems completely uninterested in creating sexual tension before we get together.
She doesn't seem to know what dirty talk is even after my coaxing attempts.
She's admitted to me that she isn't a very horny person and doesn't really crave sex all that often.
She doesn't enjoy giving or receiving oral.

When she does come over, we chat for a bit, head upstairs and fuck for an hour or so, cuddle for a few minutes then she takes off.
Perfect, right? Then why am I bored of her?

Just goes to show you that sex isn't just about the penis and vagina.
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Your bored cause your turned off. Pretty simple, no? And yes a sexual connection with a woman is much more than just simply our sexual organs.
Isn't that why after 2 or 3 encounters, we don't bother repeating anymore. The thrill is gone !
 
Personally, I don't understand sex without the connection. Which is probably why to date I've only used MPAs for release but have never actually enjoyed the company of a full service lady, at least in terms of paying for it. I've enjoyed the company of a few SPs on an unofficial basis but that's precisely my point, we connected and then we "connected" outside of an SP arrangement.

If I wanted cold sex, I'd just buy a fleshlight. It's cheaper.
 
Barca said:
Personally, I don't understand sex without the connection. Which is probably why to date I've only used MPAs for release but have never actually enjoyed the company of a full service lady, at least in terms of paying for it. I've enjoyed the company of a few SPs on an unofficial basis but that's precisely my point, we connected and then we "connected" outside of an SP arrangement.

If I wanted cold sex, I'd just buy a fleshlight. It's cheaper.
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You've got a double standard here??
 
Titalian said:
You've got a double standard here??
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In a way, yes. But in practical terms, no. To me, full sex is far more intimate than a simple rub and tug. There's no illusion with an MPA that you're getting a GFE, it's all about physical release. Whereas with full sex, any coldness that it's purely about the release would be off-putting to me. I'd have no interest in it. I'd need the illusion of, if at the very least, a connection.

To me, one is about busting that nut only and the other about engaging in the full experience. This is not a moral judgement (which would raise the double standard issue) but rather about the essence of the experience. For example, MPAs don't pretend to orgasm like an SP might (real or otherwise) and yet that would be critical for me to enjoy the full sex experience.
 
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